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yellowmoosefever · 04/01/2023 12:04

That's the question :) I try and find time when the kids have gone to bed. When do you read? How do you fit it in? I love books and I'm on my second read in two weeks.

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ScatteredMama82 · 11/01/2023 12:16

I listen to Audiobooks in the car (I do an hour's commute each way 2 days a week). I read in bed, and I also read when the kids are playing, often infront of the fire while they are playing on the floor with lego at my feet. I love that time! It's so peaceful.

Kanaloa · 11/01/2023 12:13

Panda89 · 11/01/2023 08:18

Yes I love my kindle. I carry it round the house with me and pop it in my bag when I go out. It's next to me on the sofa right now as I drink my coffee just in case I get a quiet 5 mins.
Total reading game changer, and the best invention ever!

Plus the charge lasts sooooo long! Originally I was out off by the idea of my ‘book’ running out of charge halfway through a journey and leaving me frustrated but DH got me one for a birthday gift and it’s the opposite. Actually if I finish my book while out I’ve always got another few hundred ready on my kindle 😂 if I go away on holiday with my kindle I basically need to charge it before I leave and maybe once during the holiday.

Himawarigirl · 11/01/2023 08:58

I read around my children all the time too. I think it helps them to see adults reading. They know that books and tea are what keeps their mum going, so when they draw me I’m usually holding one or both things 🙂. I used to only be able to read in perfect silence, now I can filter pretty much anything out when reading around them. My youngest is 3.5 and it’s felt like a milestone with each of them when I start to be able to read more around them while they’re playing. And my book lives in the kitchen during the day so I can sneak some in while making dinner etc.

Larrythellama · 11/01/2023 08:20

I the evening, although I should read more but also watch too much TV and spend too much time on my phone. I WFH so in my breaks, try and sneak away from the kids at the weekend sometimes. On mat leave with my first i deliberately arrived too early for baby groups and read in the car while the baby slept!

Panda89 · 11/01/2023 08:18

Yes I love my kindle. I carry it round the house with me and pop it in my bag when I go out. It's next to me on the sofa right now as I drink my coffee just in case I get a quiet 5 mins.
Total reading game changer, and the best invention ever!

Triffid1 · 10/01/2023 22:28

Over lunch, whole waiting for.dd to go to sleep, in evening instead of tv. In bed when j have a "lie in" on weekends. On weekends when dc are out or chilling with their ipads or whatever.

I will.choose reading over ma y other activities. Kindle is also a game changer - can have a few books on the go, immediately downlosd a new book from an author I like in a series with no wait time etc. I also ALWAYS have it with me. Standing in queue at bank... out comes my kindle. Waiting for doctors appointment.... kindle. At bus stop/on train/commuting... Kindle. Waiting for dc at their activity... Kindle . It is 5000x more user friendly than any book

autienotnaughty · 10/01/2023 22:05

I read in a morning before getting up or before bed. In the bath and sometimes on an evening if tellys rubbish.

Notplayingball · 10/01/2023 21:09

I read aloud Paddington series of books at the moment with DS(7), which I am enjoying just as much as he is. Moving on to Famous Five collection next...I do have books of my own but struggle to focus on them by the time I have settled the youngest DC to bed.

Still have a pile of books on my bedside cabinet which I look forward to getting through when I feel up to it.

WandaWonder · 10/01/2023 21:08

I read when I brush my teeth and in cafes and on transport

Peasepuddingbloodycold · 10/01/2023 21:00

I've always enjoyed audiobooks, remember borrowing tapes from the library back in the 80s. I used to listen to a lot of podcasts, but joined audible a few months ago. I spend a lot of time on my own and they're good company.

As a child I read for hours, literally hours a day. Nowadays I find I can't concentrate on them. I think sitting and reading leaves me too much with my own thoughts :( Listening to audible whilst walking, at the gym, doing housework, commuting etc. keeps me well-occupied.

Kanaloa · 08/01/2023 09:51

@hopelessatthinkingupusernames

Interesting… maybe a memoir of someone I find interesting would have the same effect as a book I’ve read before, so I’d be able to listen and follow it as it doesn’t have a complex or unfamiliar plot. May have to have a browse of the library app and see if there are any good ones!

Blaggingit123 · 08/01/2023 09:43

I have 9 and 6 year olds and work full time. I read in the bath, before bed, sometimes at lunch time and if I’m particularly into something will read any or all of the time we’re in at weekends or in the evening. I also watch tv so depends what I’m into at the time. My 9 year old would just as soon read for pleasure as watch tv and so would my DH but my 6yo doesn’t (yet) read for pleasure. I don’t spend much time ‘entertaining’ my kids ie we’ll play a game or watch a film together occasionally but the norm is that they entertain themselves at home and we do what we want - either housework or follow our own interests.

WorkCleanRepeat · 08/01/2023 09:29

Audio books whilst I clean or go for a walk.

Danikm151 · 08/01/2023 09:10

On the bus. After bed time. On my lunch break at work. 🙂

Ringringringringringringringbananaphone · 08/01/2023 09:09

I used to be such a voracious reader, but have really struggled since my daughter arrived (she’s 5 now). That plus menopause has really affected my abilities to focus on a book. I used to read my kindle after I’d gone to bed, until I fell asleep and dropped the kindle on my face (so usually about 5 minutes!) but I’m determined this year to get back to getting some proper reading time in again. One thing that I’ve really enjoyed is listening to audiobooks on the drive home from nursery/school (especially memoirs rather than fiction, as PP have said - somehow they’re easier to follow). Im
going to cut down on tv and try to have a night or two where I just read rather than watch tv.

Wallowingwendy · 08/01/2023 09:01

Audiobooks when doing housework

glamourousindierockandroll · 08/01/2023 09:00

I try to read while my children are playing or watching TV. Sometimes I read instead of TV or in bed.

I don't read anywhere as much as I'd like and I'm lucky if I finish 10 books a year these days. I'm realising that it's better to have more than one on the go; something quite easy and readable for when the kids are around and then something a bit more cerebral I can chip away at in the background.

hopelessatthinkingupusernames · 08/01/2023 08:48

Kanaloa · 04/01/2023 21:13

@shallwegoandgetthecats

I wish I could enjoy audiobooks! I can literally only enjoy an audiobook if it’s a book I’ve read 100 times. Otherwise I listen for 20 minutes then think ‘hang on, who is Eliza again? And what happened to her?’

I have to commute sometimes for studying at the moment and it would be so amazing if I could enjoy audiobooks at the same time.

Try a different kind of book. I’m the same if I listen to most fiction on audio, I just zone out and miss most of it, but I really like memoirs on audio (especially if narrated by the author)!

HerringBoneBlanket · 06/01/2023 02:05

I have made it my mission to carve out more reading time. I basically don't watch TV any more.

I listen to audio books when walking the dog, running, cleaning, prepping dinner, in the car on my own, when I can't sleep.

I read every night before bed, and in the evenings on the sofa (DH loves doing this as his time with the dog too!)

I read while the kids do their activities, especially if I have to wait around outside (covid changed a lot of stuff and I started this then). Surprising how much you read in a short swimming lesson slot for eg!

I read as a break from work/screens during the day too

upfucked · 04/01/2023 22:04

When bf the little on to sleep. I used to try and do 10 mins before going to sleep myself but I’m just so tired at the moment.

EarringsandLipstick · 04/01/2023 22:00

I 'read' quite a bit on Audible - but (for me) it's not the same as reading a physical book. I don't get anything like the same enjoyment without the tactile element but it's better than nothing.

I've really struggled to read this year; I get up at 520 to exercise so can't do earlier, work f/t, then leg it home to do dinner + then DC sports which are every day of the week. Too tired by the time that finishes.

I take a 30 min lunch break & did try reading then but I don't like it. If I get into my book it's an annoying wrench to have to leave it; and I also want to get some fresh air.

I usually drive to work when I'm on-site (work from home 1 or 2 days a week) & have decided I will do one day on the train so I'll get 2 x 20 min to read then. I also am going to try really hard to get 1 hour a week away from DC, house & work, get a coffee & read for 1 hour. (Single parent).

Kanaloa · 04/01/2023 21:45

allfurcoatnoknickers · 04/01/2023 21:39

@Kanaloa I'm currently struggling through an audiobook that has two different timelines which intersect. It's not going well for me.

Wouldn’t make a difference to me because I probably wouldn’t even notice 😂 I’d be two hours in and thinking ‘hang on, is this the 50s now? But I thought she had an iPhone!’

I do actually have good concentration for regular books. But it’s like if I’m reading I can concentrate, but if I’m listening I zone out.

whereareyousleep · 04/01/2023 21:45

I have a 9 and 4 year old. I go to bed at 10pm and read until around 11.30pm. I also read on my dinner break at work and in the bath. It's much easier now the books are on my phone/kindle as I always have them with me rather than remembering to carry a book around.

EsmeShelby · 04/01/2023 21:43

I dodge housework

allfurcoatnoknickers · 04/01/2023 21:39

@Kanaloa I'm currently struggling through an audiobook that has two different timelines which intersect. It's not going well for me.

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