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What makes you give up on a book?

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SoSaidTheSwan · 01/07/2022 15:27

If you DNF books, what type of things make you give up on them?

I'm reading, or was reading, The Dumb House by John Burnside. I've waited years to get a copy but I just can't finish it. I knew that it was going to be dark and disturbing but it's even more so than I anticipated. I think as I'm getting older, I'm becoming more sensitive and struggling to read details of graphic cruelty, especially to women and children, in fiction. Animal cruelty is a definite no.

I'm also starting to give myself permission to give up on a book when I'm not enjoying it though I used to try to force myself to finish.

What things make you stop reading a book?

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Sittininafield · 02/07/2022 16:10

Bad writing. Plot holes. People behaving in unlikely ways, eg. keeping a big secret when they don’t need to. Things that suddenly jar. Nearly all new books. I rarely enjoy anything written since the 60s, apart from Shardlake and that’s boring now.

EmmaH2022 · 02/07/2022 16:07

I'm tempted to google those scenes now

the Bad Sex one must have been written for a bet!

Agree with too much description

Using 20 words when 2 will suffice

Also, when nothing happens

Also, political views shoved in with no relevance to story.

SammyScrounge · 02/07/2022 16:01

orbitalcrisis · 01/07/2022 19:28

Unrealistic sex scenes, unnecessary sex scenes, too much description (Stephen king), projectile vomiting (Twilight Saga).

This is an entry to the annual Bad Sex Award. 2019. The Guardian prints all the short list ones. They are hilarious. You can find more online

River Capture by Mary Costello

He clung to her, crying, and then made love to her and went far inside her and she begged him to go deeper and, no longer afraid of injuring her, he went deep in mind and body, among crowded organ cavities, past the contours of her lungs and liver, and, shimmying past her heart, he felt her perfection.

CallmeMrsPricklepants · 02/07/2022 15:53

I don't have time to read for pleasure sadly but I have let my DD give up on books recently. Mainly when the characters are overly sexualised for a 7yo content or are bad stereotypes.

IllDoItButOnlyForTheAttention · 02/07/2022 15:48

BruceWaynettaSlob · 02/07/2022 15:37

There's a much worse scene than that in the book.

Eek. Don't think that'll be going on my bedside table, then 😱

anotherbrewplease · 02/07/2022 15:45

@Dablikeacrap Exactly so.

I don’t mind a long description or paragraph if it’s done well. Ie Trollop, Dickens etc.

But when it’s full of clichés - nooooo.

BruceWaynettaSlob · 02/07/2022 15:37

IllDoItButOnlyForTheAttention · 02/07/2022 15:20

I've only seen the film of The Road. If you mean the one where they enter a house and find a room full of people in a particular predicament, yes, it's horrible, but for me, the one in Doctor Sleep is worse. Something about the way it's written.

The Road was a gruelling watch, and I can imagine the book is even more so, as you have your own imagination backing up the words.

There's a much worse scene than that in the book.

eddiemairswife · 02/07/2022 15:32

I have given up on 2 books recently;
1) The Survivors by Jane Harper. About a group of youngish Australians, who apparently survived a storm some years ago, and are back in the vicinity for various reasons.
2) Islands of Mercy by Rose Tremain. Bath in 1812, a tall woman who always wears white meets another woman in a teashop, and I presume they become 'an item'.
I have read and enjoyed other books by these authors, and will give both another go sometime.

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 02/07/2022 15:32

I recently gave up on a book as it kept describing a 5yo child as a toddler, with toddler behaviour and mannerisms. (No SN, it was just badly written and one if many continuity errors in a series) It just bugged me too much...

halfsiesonapotnoodle · 02/07/2022 15:28

Spelling mistakes.

Izzabellasasperella · 02/07/2022 15:26

Too many words. I'm looking at you Stephen King😀 His later books could be cut in half and still tell the story.
I struggle with too many characters trying to place them all and how they relate to each other I usually try and persevere if it's written well.

IllDoItButOnlyForTheAttention · 02/07/2022 15:20

BruceWaynettaSlob · 02/07/2022 15:07

Really tempted to Google what the horrific scene in "Doctor Sleep" is. Is it be worse than that scene in "The Road"?

I've only seen the film of The Road. If you mean the one where they enter a house and find a room full of people in a particular predicament, yes, it's horrible, but for me, the one in Doctor Sleep is worse. Something about the way it's written.

The Road was a gruelling watch, and I can imagine the book is even more so, as you have your own imagination backing up the words.

BruceWaynettaSlob · 02/07/2022 15:07

Not sure where the rogue "be" came from.

BruceWaynettaSlob · 02/07/2022 15:07

Really tempted to Google what the horrific scene in "Doctor Sleep" is. Is it be worse than that scene in "The Road"?

Dablikeacrap · 02/07/2022 15:02

I struggle with too much description

”she slowly lifted her left hand to bring a takeaway cup of dairy free latte to her lips and sipped the scorching liquid”

when “she sipped her coffee” would do

Dablikeacrap · 02/07/2022 15:00

IllDoItButOnlyForTheAttention · 01/07/2022 15:34

Usually it's things related to bad writing. Characters behaving implausibly, plot holes, poor punctuation, stuff like that. I can't get lost in a story if I keep noticing things like that, and I need to feel the author really knows what they're doing so I'm not wasting my time.

But I also find that as I get older, I'm less able to deal with the content you describe. I usually read some spoiler-free reviews first, and if there's child abuse or cruelty to animals I don't buy the book. Two scenes in particular stayed with me in a bad way, one in The Dark and one in Doctor Sleep. I'm a huge King fan but I'll never read that one again, and I won't watch the film either.

That bit of Doctor Sleep still haunts me

Paranoidandroidmarvin · 02/07/2022 14:55

@Amid i listen as well. Who decides that a narrator is good. Because damm they are not.
boring and one tone. Have not listened to and not got entire series because of awful narrators.

Paranoidandroidmarvin · 02/07/2022 14:53

If I have got to the end of the first chapter and there are more people then I can keep track off. I write them down most of the time. But even then. Sometimes I just can’t.

I don’t like fantasy books as there is always a new world to learn about and I just can’t get my head around it all.

I once read a book where someone spent two pages describing a house that they were only for ten mins. I don’t long long descriptions of things. Yes. It’s a pretty house. But I don’t need two pages of it unrelevent backstory when it means nothing.

i stopped reading a book when the author did a huge paragraph about some women s breast in the first few pages. Never went back and got the rest of there books either. I have seen boobs. I don’t need them described to me or how they jiggle thanks. Bad writing.

I also hate it when books tell u the story from seven different people. Just no.

Amid · 01/07/2022 19:52

I have poor eye sight so listen to Audiobooks.

The readers voice can put me off in seconds.

If a book is okay and I haven't got a next book in my list as yet then I'd probably stick with it - if I had a few books lined up then I'd just skip an 'okay' book.

If its one of a series and I've liked the other books I'll usually stick with it.

KissThaRain · 01/07/2022 19:52

orbitalcrisis · 01/07/2022 19:28

Unrealistic sex scenes, unnecessary sex scenes, too much description (Stephen king), projectile vomiting (Twilight Saga).

Stephen king writes sex terribly, which he’d just stop

KissThaRain · 01/07/2022 19:51

Sex
romance
biographies and autobiographies
books similar to Katie Price books (ones she openly admits she doesn’t write)
non-fiction
motivational books

i like what I like and refuse to join the masses (eg Harry Potter) and any other books that are hyped up

orbitalcrisis · 01/07/2022 19:28

Unrealistic sex scenes, unnecessary sex scenes, too much description (Stephen king), projectile vomiting (Twilight Saga).

MadMadMadamMim · 01/07/2022 19:22

Cross post with @SoupDragon Clearly both agree that reading shouldn't be a chore!

MadMadMadamMim · 01/07/2022 19:21

I'm also starting to give myself permission to give up on a book when I'm not enjoying it though I used to try to force myself to finish.

Absolutely this! I'm late 50s and have always read huge amounts. I used to be unable to just abandon a book - I kept thinking I'd keep on ploughing through in case it got better, or just to find out what happened.

I suspect it's a case of having little free time to read/spend on myself and getting older. I've now found in the last two or three years that if I've read for an hour or so and I'm roughly a third of the way through and bored/not really interested in it that I can just put it down and think "Life is too short".

It's quite freeing to be able to abandon something you're not enjoying. Reading shouldn't be a chore.

Quitelikeacatslife · 01/07/2022 19:19

I started a couple lately that had been highly recommended but a child's death was at the centre of them and I just couldn't go there. Less tolerance for things like that . I switched to a light hearted one or crime drama that's really more of a thriller