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tobee · 13/02/2021 02:15

My mother has always been a great reader. Since lockdown I've found myself reading books that she would have been given for birthdays and Christmases of my childhood!

If I could choose one author from my childhood that my mum read it would be Beryl Bainbridge and from when I was older Edith Wharton.

Just to add a bit more my nana would read PG Wodehouse and Francis Durbridge. My granny would read Mapp and Lucia and Miss Read.

So, if you were inspired by your mum or your grannies what would you be reading? And would you be enjoying their choices? Smile

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StCharlotte · 15/02/2021 09:11

My mum's great love was literature, she talked about it a lot and encouraged us all to read as much as we could.

But. I don't ever remember her actually reading. I'm guessing after a day wranling us five children it must have happened after we were in bed.

When I was older she had lost her sight and had a lot of audio books via the RNIB but I'd left home by then so I don't know what they were. My older siblings might know, I'll ask them.

RavenclawesomeCrone · 15/02/2021 09:10

My mum passed away last year and was a big reader.

SHe did read a lot of Catherine Cookson and nurses in the war type books, which I didn't like, but she also enjoyed Harry Potter, Game of Thrones (but got fed up of it as the series progressed endlessly) PD Robb, Phillipa Gregory, Norah Lofts.
For comfort reading she loved the Just William books

The last books she read was the Cormoran Strike series.

I've no clue what my grandmother read, I never recall her reading anything except Bella magazine.

tobee · 15/02/2021 00:51

I'm not sure if I've positively inspired my now adult dd's book reading; she's got her own ideas. Although my mum is very good at choosing books for dd that dd seems to like.

Thinking about one of my great grandfathers, who must have been born in the late Victorian era, he was often found sat reading a book. When challenged as to why he wasn't taking a more active part in family life he famously replied "Someone's got to do the reading" Grin

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Bookwyrm · 14/02/2021 15:11

I read way more than both my mother and grandmother but there are a few books we've shared; my gramma gave me the first few books from Jan Karon's Mitford series after she read them, I wasn't crazy about them but they bring back fond memories of her whenever I see them. My mother introduced me to James Herriot, whose books I do love and count as some of my favorite books ever; she, incidentally, was introduced to his books by her grandmother.

bibliomania · 14/02/2021 12:29

DD(13) isn't nearly as much of a reader as I was and am. She has sobbed her way pleasurably through The Fault in our Stars at least three times though.

SJaneS49 · 14/02/2021 11:44

That’s understandable!

Just had a bath in an effort to try and warm up and was thinking what a nice thread this is and whether in turn I as a prolifically reading mother had inspired my own daughters reading?

In short, I don’t think so! My 26 year old reads a lot and well but virtually exclusively science fiction which I don’t at all. As for my 12 year old, if she does read at all it’s books about confused teenagers snogging. Or Wuthering Heights which her English teacher introduced her too. Which is its own way is another book about confused teenagers snogging!

Anyone else feel like they’ve more positively inspired their daughters?!

bibliomania · 14/02/2021 10:54

SJane, it was the extract from Last Exit to Brooklyn, with a very graphic rape scene, that most disturbed me.

SJaneS49 · 14/02/2021 10:46

@bibliomania, I remember my Mother giving me a copy of The Female Eunuch when I was about 12. Was completely teenagerly grossed out by the idea of tasting my own period so it got flung aside!

M0rT · 14/02/2021 10:06

My grandmother was a regional and national newspaper reader, the Farmers Journal and Ireland's Own.
Farmers need to be politically aware, as the party in power, new agricultural minister etc directly affect their livelihoods. She didn't have time for pleasure reading, but could remember huge chunks of literature and poetry from her schooldays right up to her 90s.
My DM has much more highbrow taste than me Joyce, Dostoevsky etc
We have the middle ground of Jane Austen and Georgette Heyer and shared scorn for the self sabotaging over emoting Bronte characters Grin

DoItYourselfNeverHappensAtOurs · 14/02/2021 09:57

My grandmothers....not sure although I know Lorna Doone was always in the bedside table when i went to visit one grandmother.

DoItYourselfNeverHappensAtOurs · 14/02/2021 09:56

My mother is obsessed with really brutal and violent crime thrillers- usually where a woman has been raped and murdered. I can't cope with that.

LApprentiSorcier · 14/02/2021 09:54

My mum is similar to me - reads widely and indiscriminately. We have fairly similar tastes but there are some authors she likes who I have never really got into (but keep thinking I should give them another try) - Dorothy L. Sayers, for example. She once said 'Gone with the wind' (Margaret Mitchell) was one of her favourite books but I could never get beyond the first chapter. So I would try again with Dorothy L Sayers for my mum-inspired choice.

My maternal grandmother wasn't much of a reader - she was very musical and spent all her free time playing, singing or listening to music.

My paternal grandmother liked long sagas such as 'The Thorn Birds'. She also subscribed to a magazine called 'My Weekly' (I think it still exists) that was mainly romantic short stories and serials. I'm not much of a magazine reader and I tend to find magazine stories a bit samey, though you get the occasional clever one, so I would stick to the sagas for my gran-choice and give 'The Thorn Birds' a try because I've never read it.

hazandduck · 14/02/2021 09:53

My mum loves George Eliot too (actually always made a point to call her Mary Ann Evans) I think because she came from Nuneaton which is Eliot-land isn’t it?

She also loves Daphne du Maurier.

My Gran had so many Catherine Cooksons and also so many Danielle Steeles! And about a million copies of Reader’s Digest, People’s Friend and Woman’s Weekly.

Airfixkitwidow · 14/02/2021 09:48

My mum was an English teacher so I grew up surrounded by books. She adored George Eliot and Henry James. She was a terrible book snob but we had the full set of the Whiteoaks books about Jalna. I read them all and loved them in my teens, partly because any attempt to smuggle in aa Mills and Boon was greeted by a lecture on the importance of Good Reading.

bibliomania · 14/02/2021 09:40

Some lovely posts here. I've no idea if either grandmother read for pleasure, as they died long before I was born, but might ask my parents. I read a few eye-opening books from my mother's shelf as a young teenager - The Women's Room and The Female Eunuch. We don't have much overlap in our current tastes, as she likes new age spirituality and I'll read anything but that.

SJaneS49 · 14/02/2021 09:09

Er, I really like Middlemarch!

BuddhaAtSea · 14/02/2021 08:48

Oh, my mum’s favourite book ever is Middlemarch by George Elliot. Go figure.
She also loved Forsythe Saga.

SJaneS49 · 14/02/2021 08:35

@Hemlock2013 t’s so long ago (I’m 50), I just can’t remember! Historical fiction definitely - I don’t think as slushy as the Georgette Heyers. My Mum was pretty intellectually snooty about my Granny’s taste - no way would we be reading Georgette Heyer’s together now .. which is a shame as I’d enjoy it!

@Pluas, completely the opposite here, my mother was/is pretty judgy about people who didn’t read as well as what they read. I remember her hiding a Jilly Cooper of mine before a friend of hers came round in case horror of horrors, her friend thought the Cooper was hers!

Pluas · 14/02/2021 07:11

@giletrouge

Judging from that list I'm your mother's generation, so I'll put a plug in for someone who for years and years was one of my favourite writers and who I think is sadly neglected today. Iris Murdoch.
I adored IM in my teens, and read all her novels, but the ones I’ve reencountered as an adult with a few exceptions read more like philosophical treatises carried out in fiction.

I envy those of you with reading grandmothers and mothers! Neither of mine would dream of reading for pleasure and I grew up with the idea that reading was ‘lazy’.

Hemlock2013 · 14/02/2021 07:06

My mum and I both read georgette heyer. We recently got into it and now buy and swap books. Mum reads trashy stuff and I like to think my tastes are more refined but on georgette heyer we’ve reached a happy meeting point. She also read anya seton @SJaneS49, a historical romance called Katherine. Is that what you remember?

tobee · 14/02/2021 03:36

I'm enjoying people's replies!

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tobee · 14/02/2021 03:35

Oh I just remembered! If you asked my mum what books she likes she'd say books that were "a slice of life"! Smile

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SJaneS49 · 13/02/2021 20:19

Anya Seaton! Just came to me.

SJaneS49 · 13/02/2021 19:59

My Mum is really well read, far more critical than me as I love a bit of absolute crap in the mix which she is snooty and purist about!

She does read quite a lot of female authors and going back that would include the likes of Marina Warner, Joanna Trollope, Barbara Pym, Molly Keane etc. She also loves travel books which we both love so she definitely inspired me there with the likes of passed on Paul Therouxs and Colin Thubrons. So if I was inspired by her, that’s what I’d be reading now. We do read quite a few of the same books - we’ve both just finished Hamnet and loved it.

My Grandmother read Georgette Heyers as well and other really similar stuff (Anya someone?) - inspirational probably isn’t the word but if I had a spare afternoon and a big slice of cake and they were lying around then yeah. I’d read them!

Clawdy · 13/02/2021 18:06

Catherine Cookson and Nora Lofts for my mum, and the Whiteoak saga. But she also loved books of short horror stories, the more gruesome the better! Grin

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