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SorchaMumsnet · 02/03/2017 08:31

The Oxford English Dictionary (OED) would like you - the real parenting experts - to help them improve their coverage of the vast vocabulary of pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting.

From TTC to baby-led-weaning, the language of pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting is as diverse as the opinions parents hold about these topics. And it’s changing, reflecting not only medical advances, but also developments in how we think about children and parenting.

Many such terms are relatively recent, and don’t appear in dictionaries - the OED is keen to capture them. So we're asking Mumsnetters to submit any pregnancy, childbirth, or parenting term that they think is important and which is not yet in OED Online (Search the OED for free). We'd like to hear about brand new words and new senses of familiar words.

In return, we're giving you the chance to win £100 of children's book vouchers. Share your parenting words by midday, 30 March to be entered into the draw.

All your suggestions will go through a process of assessment for inclusion in the dictionary, and the first additions will be published online in December 2017.

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Share new parenting words with the Oxford English Dictionary for a chance to win £100-worth of children's books. Ends midday, Thursday 30 March
Share new parenting words with the Oxford English Dictionary for a chance to win £100-worth of children's books. Ends midday, Thursday 30 March
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MothButterfly · 05/05/2017 13:01

Thank You so much, the books arrived today Smile

MothButterfly · 05/04/2017 17:45

That's amazing ! I've not won anything for years! does anyone have any suggestions for must have books for a five and a two year-old?

TinaMumsnet · 31/03/2017 17:18

Thanks so much for your all your great contributions.

The competition is now closed. Congratulations to MothButterfly who has won £100 of books vouchers!

Smellophant87 · 30/03/2017 12:54

Latch - in relation to breastfeeding
Threenager - Argh!!

Ratbagcatbag · 30/03/2017 12:01

Duddles - the word in our house from big squeezey cuddles.

GavelRavel · 30/03/2017 11:10

Has anyone said PFB? - Precious First Born, used to describe the bonkers behaviour exhibited by first-time or only parents who think their child is a genius and child prodigy and the first child to ever sit up / crawl / walk / learn their times tables / kick a ball around / pass an exam / pass their driving test / get into university / get a job. Closely related to Helicopter Parent and Tiger Mum.

Teaspoon74 · 30/03/2017 10:37

Scarenting- advice given by the "I've been there and seen it all" mum to first timers to impress the seriousness of having a child (and all the dangers there in)

halcyondays · 30/03/2017 10:09

Poonami
tandem feeding

bex552 · 30/03/2017 10:04

Poonami! Only parents will understand this one! Happened far too much for my liking while my baby was small!

SilenceOfThePrams · 30/03/2017 10:01

Rainbow baby - baby born after death of an older sibling.

Tsunappy - similar to poonami.

Tiger Mum.

GeorgeW78 · 30/03/2017 10:01

Clogger - child blogger, possibly pretentious & boastful.
Mombie - mother who's zombie like because they're extremely tired & their brain isn't working properly.
Duff-up - suspenseful belly tickles - noisy & wriggly!
BTR (bum, tuck & run) text speak for unruly behaviour caused by over-tiredness, that's making you pull your hair out. Taken from dog behaviour where they tuck their tail, lower their bum and run back & forwards, out of control because they're overtired (a puppy tantrum).

SoupDragon · 30/03/2017 09:16

The Witching Hour - that time in early evening when your toddler is fractious but apparently Not Tired Yet.

(I am past the need for children's books but DSs school is setting up a library in a school in Malawi)

LondonLauren · 30/03/2017 09:11

I thought of another one –baby weight (as in, the weight you gain when you are pregnant).

MycatsaPirate · 30/03/2017 09:05

Zumbie - a mother so sleep deprived she's walking around like a zombie.

Newbie21 · 30/03/2017 06:46

Play dates - meetings arranged between child carers with other child carers to enable children to interact one to one.

claza93 · 30/03/2017 06:32

Baby Led Weaning - Baby leading the way with feeding
Yummy Mummy
Birth Plan
Screen time

FairytalesAreBullshit · 30/03/2017 01:04

Milk-Drunk is one the Crunchy Mums like to use a lot. Christopher's been at my breasts 30 minutes and finished, here's a picture of milk drunk baby. Basically a baby that looked sated after a 'meal!'

Baby shower - US thing where Mums eek out presents from mates by having a party just because they're pregnant

TTC - Trying to conceive

CD - Cycle date

OPK - Ovulation predictor kit

2WW - 2 week wait after ovulation, hoping for positive result

Dildoscan - Internal vaginal scan

Hypnobirthing - trying to deliver baby with no drugs

Sure some of these must have been used.

Babyreflux - same as adult GERD/reflux but in a baby

Me time - time set aside for fellow Mummies to have free time for a drink with friends, and/or beauty sessions

DC - dear child / dear children

Bumshuffle - a way for babies move in between crawling and walking

Babymoon - Last holiday before baby is born. To get out and not be stuck waiting for me time

FTM - First time Mother, perceived for medical purposes to be a woman who over is possibly overthinking things.

FTP - First time parents

MetalMidget · 29/03/2017 23:35

Deja Spew - when your baby has thrown up yet again, requiring another change of clothes.

jellyspoons · 29/03/2017 23:24

The witching hour. time between around 4.30 and 6pm when your baby is very grumpy and just won't settle.

I also thought of poonami and sling but the have already been mentioned

clarabella12 · 29/03/2017 23:16

baby wearing and tween.

mmmtiffincake · 29/03/2017 23:04

Baby Cage - playpen
BFP - Big fat positive , in relation to pregnancy test
BFN - Big Fat No, in relation to pregnancy test.
AF - Auntie flow
BLW - baby lead weaning
OPK - ovulation prediction kit
BD - Baby Dance
EBF - Exclusively breast fed
Tandem breast feeding - either pregnant whilst breastfeeding or feeding 2 kids or more
MC - miscarriage
mmc - missed miscarriage
FT - full term
i could go on ....

Singingforsanity · 29/03/2017 22:44

Hypnobirthing - a style of birthing education programme which teaches simple self-hypnosis, relaxation and breathing techniques for a calmer and better birth.

Singingforsanity · 29/03/2017 22:40

Milk-drunk - the very relaxed state a young baby goes into following a feed
Kangaroo-care - similar to skin-to-skin, strapping baby to parents' chest, under clothes (like in a kangaroo pouch), used especially with low-weight babies to help maintain healthy body temperature.
NICU - really surprised this isn't in here, SCBU is! Neonatal Intensive Care Unit.

LondonLauren · 29/03/2017 21:51

oh, and stay at home mum or stay at home dad – instead of 'housewife' or 'househusband'