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UrsulaMumsnet · 08/02/2016 12:12

Our featured debut author this week is Sharon Guskin. Her book The Forgetting Time, tells the story of Noah, who struggles to forget the life he believes he's lived before. Driven to desperation and reluctant to medicate her son, his mother Janie visits a psychiatrist who can provide some answers but not necessarily the ones Janie's ready to hear.

Pan Macmillan asked us to find a huge 190 Mumsnetters to read The Forgetting Time and tell us what they think about it on this discussion thread. Go to the giveaway page to find out more and apply for a free copy.

You don't have to win a free copy to take part in the discussion. Anyone who has read The Forgetting Time can post their feedback here.

As so many of you enjoyed The Forgetting Time, Pan Macmillan have asked you for any questions you'd like to put to author Sharon Guskin. The best questions will be answered by Sharon on film. Post yours on this thread by Wednesday 27 July

This giveaway is sponsored by Pan Macmillan

Ask SHARON GUSKIN - author of THE FORGETTING TIME - a question now! Post yours by Wednesday 27 July
Ask SHARON GUSKIN - author of THE FORGETTING TIME - a question now! Post yours by Wednesday 27 July
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Sallyb82 · 30/03/2016 08:48

Received my copy last week and half way through. Like the flow, the concept is interesting and it is easy to read however I'm desperately hoping im not going to be disappointed.

sulee69 · 29/03/2016 22:58

The story, I felt, was very slow in starting. Too many side stories that we didn't really need to know (who the father was, the nursery teacher).
It was quite upsetting hearing how Noah was obviously traumatised about something and what ever your belief on the content it was good that he got closure on it.
Some upsetting scenes for anyone that has lost a child and so not normally a book I would personally pick to read.
A quick pick up and put down book but not one I would go out of my way to remember to recommend to anyone.

Soysauce · 29/03/2016 21:11

I've just finished this today - it's a funny one (not ha ha,; confusing) - I found it quite slow to get into and as others have observed didn't find Janie very likeable although she did have my sympathy from the get go and I did wonder if I was going to be able to stick with it, but I'm quite interested in reincarnation so I persevered and then once the story started to develop I did really get into it - since having my children it seems to much tougher to read anything about parental bereavement, so it was very moving to read Denise's story. By the end I loved the book but I agree it seemed to lack depth in terms of the characters and I was sad about the doctors ending, I like a happy ending (I know!) so I really wanted him to get recognition for his life's work....The "wrapping up" seemed a bit too speedy to me, but it was a good read.

lorka · 29/03/2016 21:02

Only part way through the book but it's keeping me interested. It is a different book to what I would normally read but I would definitely recommend it. Thanks for sending me a copy.

lonestarsky · 29/03/2016 19:26

I struggled to get into this book initially; I couldn't warm to the characters and I found the point of view switch was distracting. But I persevered and I'm so glad I did! Its a very thought-provoking, disturbing yet tender story of a boy who wants his mum and who wants to go home, despite the fact he is indeed at home with his mum. An elderly psychologist who is fighting his own battle, joins forces with Janie and her son Noah as they try to uncover the reasons behind his behaviour. The reasons, when revealed, are heart-breaking, as two mothers live out what can only be described as two of a parent's worst nightmares.

Overall I am glad I read the book as the truth, when it is revealed, is shocking and saddening, and despite the far-fetched theme, is entirely believable. But as I said it took me a while to get into it and there were other moments when I felt it dragged a bit. I wonder if maybe it just needed slicker editing? On the whole though, a good read - I would give it 7/10 and would recommend it.

mum2reilly · 29/03/2016 19:04

Really looking forward to reading this - it's next in my bedside table pile, thanks for my copy.

poshpink · 29/03/2016 19:02

Thanks for the book. Have been on holiday so late with review - Sorry
I enjoyed it from page 1 right through to its conclusion - it was superb, thought provoking, compelling & captivating. An intriguing read. I have passed it onto a friend for her to hopefully have the same enjoyment.

allythackray · 29/03/2016 18:37

A little slow to get going, but plodding my way through, getting better, so hopefully I'll be intrigued before too long!

MummyBtothree · 29/03/2016 18:35

Couldn't put this book down which doesn't happen all that often with me!. A fantastic read full of emotional and very powerful - highly recommend!

Nev1lle00 · 29/03/2016 18:28

i was asked to post a review on this discussion thread

Liana83 · 29/03/2016 18:26

Still reading this but I'm hooked! Just wish I had more time to read it, got no chance with the kids home for Easter! Will be back once I've read more...

triniposse · 29/03/2016 18:13

The start of this book took me to Trinidad, a country close to my heart and the descriptive of this country was spot on and brought this book to life immediately for me.
Today after many interruptions, I have become engrossed and cannot put it down!! So far, a great and easy read. Thanks Smile

jt75 · 29/03/2016 17:59

I have left a review but think I have put it in a different part of the website. Sorry.

Nev1lle00 · 29/03/2016 17:49

The Forgetting Time
Janie is a single mother to Noah, conceived after a one night stand in Trinidad.
Noah is now 4 years old & at school but says he wants "to go home", has an aversion to water & being washed. He asks for his "mama" & knows about the Harry Potter books which Janie knows she has never read to him. He has nightmares about being held under water which he expresses at school.
Janie is confronted with concerns about neglect &/or abuse - her 4 year old has said he has been held under water till he blacked out & comes in unkempt, smelling of urine. When she explains Noah's behaviour to the headmistress, the possibility of childhood schizophrenia is mooted & Noah is taken to see a psychiatrist.
However the person who may be able to help is a psychiatrist who believes that Noah may be reliving a previous life.........

PSG1968 · 29/03/2016 17:29

I thought i had left a review!
Dozy here it is lol
i won this book via mumsnet bookclub
Ii really did enjoy it I stayed up far to late reading it! I liked the storyline and the characters were interesting
Although i am open minded, its not necessarily my belief however it still was a page turner and the right length i would recommend it with out giving anything away i thought the ending well thought out and fitting.

dannydog1 · 29/03/2016 17:28

Only managed a few chapters so far but can't wait to have time to read it. The style of writing makes you want to continue and I'm definitely intrigued

originalmavis · 29/03/2016 17:23

I'm only part way through - I don't get much time to read these days - but this book is so beautifully written I am making sure I have time on my commute off the laptop!

I'm really enjoying the build up and can feel that it's going to be a cracking ending.

Will post more when I get further along...

ktmd · 29/03/2016 17:10

This was a gripping and unusual book. The romantic scene near the beginning put me off, but I'm really glad that I persevered. The plot twists and turns and gave me cause to think. Very good.

queenoftheschoolrun · 29/03/2016 17:06

Apologies for the delay in giving my feedback. I couldn't find the thread!

Once I realised the premise of the book was reincarnation I was prepared to be disappointed as this isn't usually my cup of tea. Whilst remaining highly sceptical though I have to say I found it an enjoyable read.

I agree with previous posters that the mother is a difficult character to like but I didn't think she needed to be likeable for the story to work. Indeed it would probably have been less plausible if she were.

All in all, an enjoyable, interesting read. Thanks for my free copy.

AnnieBetts1 · 29/03/2016 17:04

This is a most unusual and unsettling read. I am only about half way through but can already recommend it. The tension around all of the characters is building gently and slightly menacingly! I am expecting breath taking developments...

SciFiFan · 29/03/2016 17:02

Finished the story and thought the whole book was good. It was a difficult one to get into initially but I loved the concept and the real life stories inserted throughout.

The counterpoint with the Dr losing his memory was poignant and Noah finally forgetting the previous life was sad but overall I enjoyed it.

BlackSusie2004 · 28/03/2016 23:09

Thank you for the copy of The Forgetting Time and apologies for the late feedback!
I loved this book, although I initially wasn't sure if I would because the idea of reincarnation isn't something I believe in at all. Sharon Guskin made the storyline feasible and you really felt for the characters in the book. It was really thought-provoking and emotional.
I look forward to reading more from Sharon Guskin in the future.

alexiscasey123 · 28/03/2016 21:53

I found the book really thought provoking, it is really well written and I found it hard to put down. Would definitely recommend it.

Flybygirly29 · 28/03/2016 21:35

I couldn't put it down!! It gripped me from the start. It was an easy read and beautifully written such an emotive story. I would recommend it to others

Mindfulofmuddle · 28/03/2016 18:55

Thank you for sending me a copy of The Forgetting Time - I love reading and rarely find time any more and this was a reason for me to make time Smile

I enjoyed the story, and found myself looking forward to reaching for the book again in quiet moments. The pace of the story was good, and although I wouldn't normally choose stories about children now (find them too emotive since I had my own), I'm really glad I was sent this one.

It is a story primarily about people and how they cope in the face of adversity, and from the start of the book, I couldn't warm to Janie, the mother of Noah and one of the main characters.
I'm not sure why this was.
Perhaps it was because I disapproved of her decision to sleep with a married man on a whim from the get-go or because she feels a bit cold and someone I wouldn't want to be 'friends' with in real life.
I could, however, empathise with her enormously when she was experiencing the harrowing difficulties with Noah.
Janie's anguish and feelings of desperation and not knowing what to do for the best for Noah, were emotions any mother could understand and were very well written.

Noah, like Janie, left me with mixed emotions. He is an enigma - troubled and difficult but vulnerable at the same time. I felt very sad for him, for much of the book, and this doesn't really leave much space to warm to him. To contrast, Cole in The Sixth Sense was a similarly troubled and disturbed character, but I really liked him. The difference is the presence of Tommy. We don't really know Noah, as he doesn't really know himself. He is so intertwined with the confused, searching personality of Tommy, that Noah isn't a 'proper' person in his own right...yet.

I felt Anderson was a character I could relate to more easily - his ability to separate himself from the emotion of these past life situations, to observe forensically to get the job done was realistic and yet he was still a character who did care underneath it all and you wanted him to. You could feel the intense sadness and frustration that losing his language caused him, and it made me contemplate how awful Aphasia is, and how we take language and reading for granted.

Anderson's interactions with Janie and Noah were well written, and realistic. Anderson's deteriorating condition and confidence were palpable, and Janie's wavering conviction to follow Anderson's lead, always leading back to her lack of options.

Denise was a beautifully written character. She is a complex, broken yet strong woman, and you could absolutely see how she had come to the point in her life at which we find her. She has lived through ever mother's worst nightmare, and whilst you yearn for Noah's situation to be resolved, you wish that Janie's answers will not come at the expense of Denise's last remaining hope.

Henry is not a particularly well defined character for me, but I think this allows us to focus on Denise and her personal struggle.
Charlie on the other hand is a character I did feel for, the one left behind - living his own life under the shadow of the horrible uncertainty that blights all their lives. His apology to Tommy/Noah in the den is heartbreaking, and you can imagine how a child in his circumstances would carry that guilt (so unnecessarily).

Pauly is another character you can't like, but you can feel some empathy for, being a child himself when the awful situation unfolds. There is some attempt at mitigation for his behaviour - his unhappy home life, but ultimately his decision to do nothing when he realises Tommy is alive, and his silence for so many years, is a cruelty that is difficult to fathom as an adult but maybe more understandable from a scared child's perspective.

The cases studies of past lives are slightly superfluous to the story, and as a sceptic about everything remotely mystical, it is interesting to me that almost all of them seem to take place in regions that have a greater number of believers in reincarnation.

As a work of fiction, I enjoyed the story and felt it was plausible and flowed well, however I am yet to be convinced that past lives are anything other than just that...a work of fiction.