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Do you consider Heathcliff in Wuthering Heights a favorite romantic hero?

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MsAmerica · 22/02/2015 23:27

It's a startling idea for me. But I ran across this remark from Anne Tyler:

Q: What book did you feel you were supposed to like, and didn’t? Do you remember the last book you put down without finishing?

AT: I somehow made it to adulthood without ever reading “Wuthering Heights,” but then I found out that several of my women friends considered Heathcliff their all-time favorite romantic hero. So I read about three-quarters of it as a grown-up, and immediately developed some serious concerns about the mental health of my friends.

www.nytimes.com/2015/02/08/books/review/anne-tyler-by-the-book.html?_r=0

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Pinkglow · 08/03/2015 14:51

I read it a few years ago so I must have been around 30 I guess. Its not always nice, romantic people that fall in love, sometimes horrible people do as well and I loved the novel for depicting that. I was stuck by how much of a love story it was though as I had heard ppl complaining that it wasn't any such thing. That's how I read it anyway.

OinkBalloon · 08/03/2015 08:09

I read it in my 20s - still a naive and very 'young' woman - and really did not get what all the fuss was about. Certainly did not like Heathcliff, but then neither did I like Cathy. IIRC I found him a shellfish buly, and her a feeble wuss. I liked the melodrama and atmosphere, though.

On the back of this thread, I'm going to re-read WH and see how my more mature and experienced self interprets it.

As for favourite romantic hero, that has to be Darcy Smile (And NOT because of the swimming scene on TV.) Closely followed by Hornblower (does he count?).

Fedupnagging · 08/03/2015 07:40

I first read WH as a teenager and to my me Heathcliffe was a poor misunderstood soul whose love for Cathy knew no bounds etc, etc. I was definitely influenced by Kate Bush.

However, having read it several times since then, I definitely agree that Heathcliffe was a selfish bully and a control freak. Cathy, a bit of a madam!

That said, I still love the book.

Grin at C19th Eastenders

HappydaysArehere · 07/03/2015 01:41

MsQueenie I too have loved this book. Cried buckets over it but as I have just said he was a devil. I loved the book so much I called my daughter Cathy.

HappydaysArehere · 07/03/2015 01:34

Heathcliffe was a black devil but so in love with Cathy that my young teenage heart was captured by his agony. The Bronte sisters were all longing for a romantic figure like the Duke of Wellington and alone with their imaginations they conjured up their own particular sexual fantasies. As an adult you wouldn't touch him with a barge pole.

MsQueenie22 · 01/03/2015 22:47

Can you all just stop, you're spoiling my favourite book.
I thought that the whole point is that the characters are "flawed", make terrible decisions and behave badly. This is how people are in real life. The fact that some women aspire to Heathcliff as a romantic partner highlights this. I think that most people likethe idea of the soul mate bit and gloss over the part where Cathy and Heathcliff wreak havoc while wallowing in their self induced misery.
It's C19th Eastenders.

MsAmerica · 28/02/2015 01:52

I'm pretty sure he wouldn't like your calling him a twat.

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Brittapieandchips · 28/02/2015 01:51

He is a Romantic hero, as in the literary movement, but he is basically a twat. But then the lot of them are.

Utterly brilliant book though.

MsAmerica · 28/02/2015 01:46

Sorry, I don't know what "craic" is.

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TheChickenSituation · 28/02/2015 01:33

John Grin

He's a gripping character for a novel, but you'd run a million miles from the festooned bunting of red flags flapping wildly around him in real life.

Basically, he's not much craic, is he?

MsAmerica · 28/02/2015 01:26

Glad that you mostly agree with me. I don't find him either romantic or a hero.

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mytartanscarf · 26/02/2015 17:54

JohnFarleys Grin brilliant!

I always thought Heathcliff was the mixed race result of an African slave working as a prostitute on the Liverpool docks and a white sailor.

It's hardly surprising he turned out as he did!

kentishgirl · 24/02/2015 17:18

I blame Kate Bush for making them seem all romanticy.

Jux · 23/02/2015 22:15

Yes, I didn't mean 'occurred' at all, of course it occurredBlush

Lovelydiscusfish · 23/02/2015 19:12

Its, not it's.

Lovelydiscusfish · 23/02/2015 19:12

It occurred, it just wasn't legally defined as such.
I can't think of many other Victorian novels (some) where it seems as obvious that a husband is viciously raping his wife. As I recall (unfortunately don't have my copy to hand) he repeatedly makes sinister references to some different ways he has of making her suffer, without explicitly stating what they are. I always assumed he was referring to sexual violence.
Maybe this is a mis-reading though, as lots of readers seem to think he's ok, and some quite like him!
I have to say I always forget how absolutely disgusting he is between readings, and am shocked anew when I re-read the text. And the thing as a whole is so savage. Great novel, but astonishing given it's context, I think. I'm not surprised she struggled to find a publisher.

Jux · 23/02/2015 17:41

I don't think that marital rape occurred in those days, did it? That's taking it completely out of context. If you do that, they're all absolutely awful.

Lovelydiscusfish · 23/02/2015 17:06

I have always read him to be a rapist and partner abuser. I did have an argument with a friend about this - she asked me to identify where it is made clear that he rapes his wife. But I think it is implicit in the entire description of his relationship with her, really.

Jux · 23/02/2015 16:53

None of them are, really, are they. No matter how great they seem on the books, take them out of context, bring them into modern society and they'd all be shunned Grin

UptoapointLordCopper · 23/02/2015 14:58

JohnFarleys Grin

I'm not convinced about Rochester either. And that St John person.

LadyGlen · 23/02/2015 13:18

JohnFarleys Grin

Galaxymum That has always been my take on it.

Totally agree with you about Nelly Dean, too.

mammuzzamia · 23/02/2015 10:32

I thought I was Cathy. I said to my BF. "You are more myself than I am".

He was a mild mannered fella. He said, "er, yeah, Ok."

Priceless Grin

mammuzzamia · 23/02/2015 10:31

Yes, think most of us studied it in depth at school Grin. Cathy was ghastly too, yes, also agree that people who think of him as 'romantic' in the traditional sense, probably haven't read the book properly.

Also, I don't think he's fond of pets, especially dogs.

Galaxymum · 23/02/2015 10:18

Sorry, I went into long term hidden literature student mode there!!! Just realising this book still means a lot to me. I didn't mean to sound patronising. That is my essay mode!

Galaxymum · 23/02/2015 09:54

Not a conventional romantic hero but I think it very much depends on how you approach the book, your age, and your interpretation from experience. I studied it in great depth for A level, taught by a teacher who was very sympathetic to Heathcliff. We read the character as an abused child becoming the abuser. Through his neglect and abuse as a child, he struggled to hold his relationships and was tormented by the jealousy and neglect from Cathy when she chose Linton.

Also, we studied Nelly as a narrator - she was such a cow really. She is portrayed in films as this lovely person, but when you study scenes she was very bitchy and told her version.

I think Heathcliff very much reflects the landscape, the harsh treatment, and his abuse. He is a far more complex character than merely a romantic hero.

Also, the second part which tends to be forgotten shows the opposite as Hareton (also neglected and abused and brought up to be rough) is influenced by the good character of Catherine and he becomes the man Heathcliff could not. In fact, they show the alternative ending of what COULD have been Heathcliff and Cathy.