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Rupert Everett's memoir, Vanished Years, is our May Non-Fiction Book of the Month

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TillyBookClub · 14/05/2013 13:44

Our Non-Fiction Book of the Month, VANISHED YEARS, is written by a famous actor but is in no way comparable to the average celebrity memoir. A darkly comic collection of snapshots from Rupert Everett's tumultuous life, the book is like a throwback to the age of Evelyn Waugh or David Niven. Everett's writing is exactly how you imagine his company: urbane, seductive, exuberant, rude, unedited. It is a colloquial, immediate voice, and he writes very well, deftly mixing superficial gossip and profound, reflective moments in the same sentence. Like his previous, highly-acclaimed bestseller, Red Carpet and Other Banana Skins, the book is stuffed with anecdotes that skewer the fashion/showbiz worlds with droll wit. His escape from Alan Sugar and the Apprentice team is franticly funny. There are plenty of debauched parties, lurid clubs and famous faces behaving badly. But this time Everett is more thoughtful about the past, how we remember our lives and those who played a starring role. There are moving chapters on the deaths of Natasha Richardson and Isabella Blow, and a poignant trip to Lourdes. As the Guardian put it, it is 'a tragical, comical, ironical Broadway-hit-show of a life', told with great panache and fearlessness.

Little Brown have 50 copies to give to Mumsnetters - to claim yours please go to the book of the month page. We'll post here when all the copies have gone. If you're not lucky enough to bag one of the free books, you can always get your paperback or Kindle version here.

Once you've got your copy, please come and discuss the book here throughout the month - looking forward to seeing what you all think...

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Change2013 · 04/06/2013 16:55

Still waiting for mine too. Can't wait to read it.

TheConstantLurker · 04/06/2013 14:31

My copy has not arrived yet. I replied to the email from Laura@mumsnet to say so.

TillyBookClub · 03/06/2013 10:24

Has anyone received their free copy yet? If so, could you quickly post here. And if not, I will start chasing...

Nickname taken, I agree about the melancholy, especially when the book closes with that poignant last chapter on his father. The overall feeling is quite macabre, I think that is what lifted it above the usual celeb stuff for me. And definitely higher quality of writing. But certain parts did very much lighten the mood, especially when he's involved in anything disastrous, like the Mr Ambassador series. I laughed at his take on Hollywood and the people in it. I like the fact he's an insider and an outsider at the same time.

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PricklyPickle · 31/05/2013 20:38

StIll waiting for mine too Sad

Corygal · 31/05/2013 19:59

I've had nowt. And I am frothing for mine, I can't wait.

Might watch my free dvd of Another Country for research purposes, hem.
With vital scholarly accompaniments of fizz and truffles.

Nehru · 31/05/2013 07:01

I LOATHE this man. Plus he was once amazingly rude to a journalist mate of mine, a real hardened pro who he managed to reduce to tears (privately afterwards ) by being sullen and uncooperative.

I will not be reading this book.

Southeastdweller · 31/05/2013 06:59

I'm also still waiting.

johnworf · 30/05/2013 22:07

I still haven't received mine. Has everyone got theirs already?

Southeastdweller · 26/05/2013 10:03

I'm dying to read this. Hope my copy comes next week.

NicknameTaken · 24/05/2013 09:52

Nearly finished my copy. Well-written, but I haven't found it funny at all - much more melancholy, despite the witty flourishes. He sees the skull beneath the skin.

I was not expecting the tender portrayal of Lourdes. His trip to Cambodia as UN Goodwill Ambassador is very moving.

I enjoyed the picture of a life less ordinary, escaping the humdrum everyday round for a life of parties, travel and sex with strangers. You get the hear the banter between hysterical star and calming dresser while waiting to go on in a Broadway play.

Worth reading, yes, but certainly not a laugh a minute.

Willemdefoeismine · 24/05/2013 08:21

I am sooooo looking forward to reading this. Rupert Everett was always one of my 'pashes' as a teenager. Can anyone seriously out-beauty him as he was in Another Country???

I have met him and saw him in a rather infamous production with Maria Aitken in the late 80s. He was rather more moody in those days, methinks. I think he is someone who has mellowed with age for sure. He has gone from being a primadonna to very much a product of his class. Now he looks more like a distinguished ex-naval captain than the brooding, luscious adonis of his youth - just as handsome though!

He is artfully intelligent and writes in a style that is very entertaining to read! So I will be avidly reading this one as soon as it drops thro' the letterbox.

GrinGrin

TillyBookClub · 23/05/2013 09:42

I'm still going back to my copy and re-reading chapters, it is SUCH a peculiarly extraordinary life. And extraordinary outlook.

Busy writing about next months book at the moment, but will be back to discuss in more detail - can't wait to hear what everyone thinks.

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RachelMumsnet · 20/05/2013 16:26

Hey all, the giveaway is now closed and we'll be sending over the details of the 50 who've been allocated books later today and as soon as we've heard from Little,Brown that the books have been sent out, we'll email to let you know. Enjoy ! And don't forget to come back and let us know what you think.

TheConstantLurker · 18/05/2013 11:17

I've signed up for a copy even though the deadline has past. Fingers crossed.
I read his first bit of autobiography and found it very entertaining but came away feeling rather melancholy as there were very few references to meaningful relationships. People who he had been having relationships with for years were written off in single sentences with no sign of any emotion.

gazzalw · 16/05/2013 18:06

As I said, he'd be right at home amongst a group of outspoken, flouncy, flirtatious divas Grin - (ducks for cover).

Maybe he thinks he will be 'slaughtered' for his views - I think there'd be lots of serious flirting going on from some quarters Wink

RachelMumsnet · 16/05/2013 17:44

@gazzalw

I'm not sure what he would bring to Mumsnet but he would be a fab 'guest' don't you think MNHQ -

We have tried - believe me, but he's evidently v busy treading the boards. We'll pass on the message that you want him to join us though Wink

hackmum · 16/05/2013 17:30

Oh, Karlos - I just saw your comment about his line about Richard Curtis. That really made me chuckle too. Have been quoting it to people ever since.

hackmum · 16/05/2013 17:30

I've read Vanished Years - enjoyed it but not as much as Red Carpets, which is screamingly funny. No idea what he's like as a person but he's a brilliant writer.

feeltheforce · 16/05/2013 13:36

He is such a good writer. Love him.

gazzalw · 16/05/2013 07:54

Maybe he wouldn't appeal to Mumsnetters as parents but as flouncy, opinionated divas (only joking....) Grin

MasterOfTheYoniverse · 16/05/2013 07:29

Re: the issue with gay parenting, i saw him on hardtalk following the release of the book a few weeks ago.

If i remember correctly, he did not really say that gay parents make for rubbish parenting. Well, he did but then baktracked when pulled on it.

He insisted on the fact that considering the lifestyle choices of most gay couples, he does not understand why they would want to be parents.
Clearly he was talking about himself and his small coterie of trendy friends which he also eventually admitted.

MasterOfTheYoniverse · 16/05/2013 07:12

Dont understand what brings this self centered person to mumsnet.
He admitedly thinks children are a waste of space and not only for gay couples.

Met him on a couple of occasions about 10 years ago as we were practically neighbors. He did not seem like a pleasant person to be around in RL. He would sneer and move away from the children whenever in the lift.
Don't know why but this has stayed with me and have a visceral repulsion for the man despite the fact i do find his aging diva act quite endearing.

Corygal · 15/05/2013 21:55

His other two books are BLINDINGLY GOOD. I'd be dying to read it and rant accordingly - can't wait to see if this one matches up.

KarlosKKrinkelbeim · 15/05/2013 20:14

And yes, we should definitely have him as a guest on MN.

KarlosKKrinkelbeim · 15/05/2013 20:13

The book is very good. He is a very good writer and in frankly phenomenal nick for a man in his 50s who has not exactly stinted himself when it comes to life's pleasures.
There is a funny line in it about Richard Curtis being to Blair's Britain what Leni Riefenstahl was to Hitler's Germany. Oh how I laughed.

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