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Should I delete Roblox for my daughter? Advice

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princessAlo · 19/01/2025 19:36

Hey everyone, so I bought my daughter who is coming 5 in March and iPad for Christmas. Not sure if it was a good idea because she would play it from the moment she opens her eyes until bedtime if she could, she mostly plays Roblox on it, which I am tempted to possibly delete and I'm not to sure it's appropriate for her age? Seen her shooting someone in it today 🤣 but she is obsessed with it, I think she will go mental if I do delete it. But I am thinking on it because her teacher in p1 said she doesn't listen in class and is falling behind a bit with her phonic sounds. And I notice she copies a lot of the behaviour from Roblox. Does anybody have any advice on this? I can't remember the last time she played with any of her toys, just always wants to play Roblox 🧐

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princessAlo · 19/01/2025 20:08

I actually was just on the phone with her dad there (not together) and he said he thinks Roblox is good for her development 🧐🧐🧐🧐 and I said how is it good for her development runnin round and people dying

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BellaTheDarkOverlord · 19/01/2025 20:04

I played it with my older daughter as she likes spending time with me this way. A player called another player a prick and a slag. So yeh not ok for small kids.

TwilightAb · 19/01/2025 20:03

OP you really need to get clued up on what you are potentially exposing your dd to by letting her have free access to an I pad. She is only 5 and could potentially be accessing all sorts. You tube alone has lots of stuff which may appear suitable for young children but are actually really not. There are a lot of games out there like roblox which are grooming hot spots. I also hope you don't have your bank details set up on her iPad!

Footymum44 · 19/01/2025 19:59

princessAlo · 19/01/2025 19:51

I did not know this at all! She is my first child and I would never put her at harm. I have never been around kids and didn't have a clue about games etc until the other day ! I used to see her jumping about as a cat on it. And she has an older sister on her dad's side and it was actually her that downloaded it for her, she's 12, and goes to her dads house a couple nights. So going to need to have a word with him and say I do not want the game back

Its hard if you don't know but in future I would recommend googling games like this and getting the information about the games. There are a lot of good games out there for kids but a lot of crappy ones that are just not safe. Even YouTube kids has had inappropriate content on it, nothing is 100% so you do need to keep an eye on things.

Newuser75 · 19/01/2025 19:59

InfoSecInTheCity · 19/01/2025 19:53

Yes, delete it.

Roblox is an entirely user created game. None of it is created by an official source to any kind of rigorous standard.

You, or I, or the dirty pervert down the road make games and then make them available for everyone else to play. Dirty Perv could call the game 'adopt kittens with me' and give it a fun description about solving challenges and being rewarded with cute lil kitty cats. Then when you get in to the game, every character is naked, speaks only in innuendo or sexual overtures, performs pole dance style 'celebrations" and so on.

It has chat functionality both text and voice, so if you don't implement appropriate parental controls your daughter can make friends online and have conversations with them, they can share links to many external sites like YouTube, Facebook, Discord, X (formerly Twitter), Guilded, and Twitch so could direct her to all sorts of content, it has in app purchasing so if you haven't been careful with buying credits she may be able to buy more without realising she's spending real money.

It's a complete shit show when it comes to safeguarding.

Totally!

My kids school have advised against the kids playing Roblox many, many times as it's so dangerous!

princessAlo · 19/01/2025 19:59

Bippityboppitybooo · 19/01/2025 19:57

Just to specify, kids that age should have no access to online games. My son is 6, asked for roblox last week after watching some YouTube kids videos. Told him no one was allowed until they're 12. Online games are a can of worms - we're very lax on screens so they've never been an issue with overplaying, and minecraft (peaceful) is great for building pyramids and collecting resources and such, exploring. Browsers are a big no too, we have blocked access so he doesn't know it's a thing. It's your responsibility to make sure that she's not available to bad actors.

Is Minecraft an okay game? Should I maybe download that instead of Roblox. Is Minecraft online

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Bippityboppitybooo · 19/01/2025 19:57

Just to specify, kids that age should have no access to online games. My son is 6, asked for roblox last week after watching some YouTube kids videos. Told him no one was allowed until they're 12. Online games are a can of worms - we're very lax on screens so they've never been an issue with overplaying, and minecraft (peaceful) is great for building pyramids and collecting resources and such, exploring. Browsers are a big no too, we have blocked access so he doesn't know it's a thing. It's your responsibility to make sure that she's not available to bad actors.

princessAlo · 19/01/2025 19:55

InfoSecInTheCity · 19/01/2025 19:53

Yes, delete it.

Roblox is an entirely user created game. None of it is created by an official source to any kind of rigorous standard.

You, or I, or the dirty pervert down the road make games and then make them available for everyone else to play. Dirty Perv could call the game 'adopt kittens with me' and give it a fun description about solving challenges and being rewarded with cute lil kitty cats. Then when you get in to the game, every character is naked, speaks only in innuendo or sexual overtures, performs pole dance style 'celebrations" and so on.

It has chat functionality both text and voice, so if you don't implement appropriate parental controls your daughter can make friends online and have conversations with them, they can share links to many external sites like YouTube, Facebook, Discord, X (formerly Twitter), Guilded, and Twitch so could direct her to all sorts of content, it has in app purchasing so if you haven't been careful with buying credits she may be able to buy more without realising she's spending real money.

It's a complete shit show when it comes to safeguarding.

Oh wow I didn't know this at all.. that's awful, she will definitly not be on it

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nolaandme · 19/01/2025 19:54

DD is 5 and uses my iPad for homework only and it will stay that way for the foreseeable, screen time is so addictive at any age but at 5 they literally have zero control or self discipline. As for Roblox I've read so much bad stuff about it, there is a lot of content on there not suitable for younger children I wouldn't want my 5yo anywhere near it.

princessAlo · 19/01/2025 19:54

roses2 · 19/01/2025 19:52

Install Google family on it so you can limit screen time to eg 1 hour per day.

Oh what's that do I just download it from her iPad? And it turns off after so long ?

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InfoSecInTheCity · 19/01/2025 19:53

Yes, delete it.

Roblox is an entirely user created game. None of it is created by an official source to any kind of rigorous standard.

You, or I, or the dirty pervert down the road make games and then make them available for everyone else to play. Dirty Perv could call the game 'adopt kittens with me' and give it a fun description about solving challenges and being rewarded with cute lil kitty cats. Then when you get in to the game, every character is naked, speaks only in innuendo or sexual overtures, performs pole dance style 'celebrations" and so on.

It has chat functionality both text and voice, so if you don't implement appropriate parental controls your daughter can make friends online and have conversations with them, they can share links to many external sites like YouTube, Facebook, Discord, X (formerly Twitter), Guilded, and Twitch so could direct her to all sorts of content, it has in app purchasing so if you haven't been careful with buying credits she may be able to buy more without realising she's spending real money.

It's a complete shit show when it comes to safeguarding.

roses2 · 19/01/2025 19:52

Install Google family on it so you can limit screen time to eg 1 hour per day.

ChaosAndCuddlesAndTeacups · 19/01/2025 19:52

Too young for an iPad full stop imo. A shared, family iPad perhaps. Definitely no to Roblox. I'd sooner get a BeeBot or Code and Go mouse, if coding and programming was what I wanted my kid to explore, over an iPad. But each to their own.

princessAlo · 19/01/2025 19:52

Blackcat50 · 19/01/2025 19:50

I’ve taken it off mine this weekend and uploaded some new games. He asked where it was. Acted surprised. He was fine playing his new games. Then we were browsing and he saw it - popped the wrong password it and surprise, it failed, told him Roblox must be updating it like we have to update it sometime. He asked about it just once today and I said I’d look for it in a few mins and he didn’t ask again :)

I definitly need to do this !

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princessAlo · 19/01/2025 19:51

Footymum44 · 19/01/2025 19:48

My 12 year old wasn't allowed Roblox ever and never will be, this game is not safe. It allows users to create their own games which are not monitored for content so can contain anything including violence, sex etc. It is known to have scammers, hackers and predators on there.

I did not know this at all! She is my first child and I would never put her at harm. I have never been around kids and didn't have a clue about games etc until the other day ! I used to see her jumping about as a cat on it. And she has an older sister on her dad's side and it was actually her that downloaded it for her, she's 12, and goes to her dads house a couple nights. So going to need to have a word with him and say I do not want the game back

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Blackcat50 · 19/01/2025 19:50

I’ve taken it off mine this weekend and uploaded some new games. He asked where it was. Acted surprised. He was fine playing his new games. Then we were browsing and he saw it - popped the wrong password it and surprise, it failed, told him Roblox must be updating it like we have to update it sometime. He asked about it just once today and I said I’d look for it in a few mins and he didn’t ask again :)

princessAlo · 19/01/2025 19:49

Ilovethewild · 19/01/2025 19:47

My 13yr old plays Roblox, it’s really not ok for 5, and nor do 5 yrs need an iPad. Really what are you thinking?

please tell me you have u tube kids?

download age suitable games only and put some parental controls on your devices!

I only got her an iPad because she had a tablet thing and it kept freezing and barely worked

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Footymum44 · 19/01/2025 19:48

My 12 year old wasn't allowed Roblox ever and never will be, this game is not safe. It allows users to create their own games which are not monitored for content so can contain anything including violence, sex etc. It is known to have scammers, hackers and predators on there.

princessAlo · 19/01/2025 19:47

SittingNextToIt · 19/01/2025 19:46

Sorry you meant she is in YEAR 4? Even so my son in Year 4 hasn't touched Roblox. Shirley you didn't mean age 4? That can't be right surely ?

No she's turning 5 in March

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Ilovethewild · 19/01/2025 19:47

My 13yr old plays Roblox, it’s really not ok for 5, and nor do 5 yrs need an iPad. Really what are you thinking?

please tell me you have u tube kids?

download age suitable games only and put some parental controls on your devices!

SittingNextToIt · 19/01/2025 19:47

Not Shirley FFS. Surely!

SittingNextToIt · 19/01/2025 19:46

Sorry you meant she is in YEAR 4? Even so my son in Year 4 hasn't touched Roblox. Shirley you didn't mean age 4? That can't be right surely ?

SittingNextToIt · 19/01/2025 19:45

A 4 year old is playing Roblox? Our daughter turns 5 this week and does not even possess an iPad 🤣 she has a laptop since Christmas on which she does her school maths work and some Netflix watching. Her brother is 9, and he has all sorts but has never gone near Roblox. He plays FIFA cricket22 and Minecraft solo mode to build villages and such.

Mishmashs · 19/01/2025 19:44

This must be a wind up ….

LostittoBostik · 19/01/2025 19:44

At that age I would only offer the CBeebies apps

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