my mum and dad are mid divorce and i worry about mum. I never quite know how bad her mental health is. She has no friends, doesn't see anyone and is low contact with my siblings. If she got in an accident and ended up in hospital i would be the only person who would know as i'm the only one who checks up on her. Even so we often don't get along great and fall out.
She lives in a sadness and victim mentality and doesn't react well when i don't respond with sympathy to her problems.
Just found out she's taken a train across the border and is in a different country 3 days ago. I had no idea and what if something happened? I wouldn't even know where to look. She was overwhelmed and needed to get away.
I want to sneak onto her phone next time i'm with her and turn on read receipts so i know when she has seen my message and chosen to ignore it. She often doesn't reply to my messages.
I know this is an invasion of privacy as she would never consent to it.
She got bad news today, we all did. Just frustrating news about a law suit. She hasn't picked up the phone or responded to my last 5 messages.
i wish i didn't worry about her all the time but i do. She would never share her location with me