I’m a little suspicious of DH’s behaviour and I’m trying to gather evidence before I mention anything. I noticed this notification on his iPad and I’m wondering what it means. It looks to me like a Spotify notification.
I have a Spotify account but I rarely use it. Does it mean a message has been received and the content simply says “in” or is it an abbreviation for something?
I could snoop around on the IPad (although I said “his” I meant it is mainly used by him and his apps on it but I do occasionally use it for websites because it’s a bigger screen than my phone - he knows I do this). I’m worried that if he suspects I’m snooping he can prove it by looking at app usage. I thought about turning screen time off (to avoid showing how long I looked at apps for) but when I tested it on my phone it still showed app activity for the period when I had turned the setting off - it only showed no app activity when the setting was off but when I reinstated it, it restored the activity I’d tried to hide.
I really don’t want to confront him yet so please don’t advise me to do that. I just want to gather evidence if there’s anything going on.