This man contacted me on Instagram initially sending some self healing type stuff.
I didn't mind, as I'd shared on my page that things are a bit rough right now.
So I thanked him & looked at his second linked page, which makes it sound like he's a big deal. He's written books & been on TV etc.
The next day he contacts me & asks me out for coffee! I tell him no thank you.
He doesn't accept this & asks why. I simply say 'Aren't you in the USA? I'm in the UK'.
He sends a couple more messages which I don't open, asking what I like to do in my spare time etc, I delete without reading.
Today, he contacts me again asking why I didn't respond! (I'm bored today so I answer him) That I thought he was reaching out to be kind but now I don't think his intentions are honourable.
He tells me that I'm right & that he hadn't even looked at my page when he initially messaged.
After this he sent a few more trying to ask questions about my situation & engage etc & I've read them & ignored, everything is deleted.
I then Google him & he's married. Posts up to 6 months ago wishing his wife happy birthday etc. photos with his wife & kids from a few days ago (on FB)
I've already deleted everything anyway so I just forget about it now, don't I.
There's this little jiggle in the back of my mind saying to tell his wife but there's nothing to tell really! He only asked me for coffee. I'm feeling a bit guilty like I've done something wrong & I'm feeling sad for his wife so that's why I've written it out, to clear it from my mind.