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I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 19:52

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

OP posts:
Cardomomle · Yesterday 13:22

OtterlyAstounding · Yesterday 13:20

It was legal in my country when I was trafficked as a minor. Being legal for over-18s didn't make it any safer or better for me! Not sure what prudishness has to do with anything Hmm

If you're up to it, perhaps start an AMA. There's a lot of wilful ignorance on here about sex workers and the horrible reality. I think some harsh truths would perhaps stop the romanticism.

OtterlyAstounding · Yesterday 13:20

TalkToTheHand123 · Yesterday 13:06

They just need to check with countries where it is legal / decriminalised where vulnerable women are much safer and people are less prudish.

It was legal in my country when I was trafficked as a minor. Being legal for over-18s didn't make it any safer or better for me! Not sure what prudishness has to do with anything Hmm

Cardomomle · Yesterday 13:15

KilkennyCats · Yesterday 13:07

How do you get into the type of conversations where new neighbours are randomly commenting that you look 32?
It quite hard to visualise.

Yes, most peculiar.

FirmSnake · Yesterday 13:15

Goditsmemargaret · Yesterday 13:10

Well here is an ACTUAL sex worker inviting us all to ask her anything and you and your new buddies are gleefully mocking her.

Perhaps some people really do want an insight into her experience?

And yes you all sound jealous, of what I don't know but you do.

But OP hasn't actually given any insight into her real life experience. She's only given vague wishy washy answers and told us all how young and thin she looks. She hasn't answered anything of substance nor given anyone anything to be jealous of.

Cardomomle · Yesterday 13:15

Goditsmemargaret · Yesterday 13:10

Well here is an ACTUAL sex worker inviting us all to ask her anything and you and your new buddies are gleefully mocking her.

Perhaps some people really do want an insight into her experience?

And yes you all sound jealous, of what I don't know but you do.

My "new buddies"?
I think you have the wrong poster.

Goditsmemargaret · Yesterday 13:10

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:28

Oh my god, that's what you got from this thread? Do you know what most sex workers have to put up with, what their lives are like?
You think women on here are jealous? 🤔

Well here is an ACTUAL sex worker inviting us all to ask her anything and you and your new buddies are gleefully mocking her.

Perhaps some people really do want an insight into her experience?

And yes you all sound jealous, of what I don't know but you do.

Gloriia · Yesterday 13:09

ToadRage · Yesterday 12:59

How did you get into this kind of work? Is it just for the money? Could you not get a regular job? What job did you do before?

She can't get a job in the care sector due to undislosable reasons which must be dbs related as we've all seen the state of some carers and sadly they'll take anyone.

I don't think the op's expanded on why hospitality is out of the question. Got to be preferable to getting pawed <and worse> by revolting blokes you'd think.

KilkennyCats · Yesterday 13:09

TalkToTheHand123 · Yesterday 13:06

They just need to check with countries where it is legal / decriminalised where vulnerable women are much safer and people are less prudish.

So, no specifics then. Just make women safer and people less prudish.
Rightio.

KilkennyCats · Yesterday 13:07

Goditsmemargaret · Yesterday 13:02

How do you know she's mistaken?

How do you get into the type of conversations where new neighbours are randomly commenting that you look 32?
It quite hard to visualise.

TalkToTheHand123 · Yesterday 13:06

KilkennyCats · Yesterday 12:15

How exactly would you propose they do that? What a ridiculous notion.

They just need to check with countries where it is legal / decriminalised where vulnerable women are much safer and people are less prudish.

Munchie1965 · Yesterday 13:05

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 12:27

I'm asking if she is declaring it. And keeping records of incoming earnings and outgoing expenses.

And how she describes her business.

Self assessment includes a box where you describe the work you do.
You also need to work out your allowable expenses which would include a percentage of the costs of working from home, utility costs, council tax, as well as other consumables. It's possible to do this yourself (I have for years) but rather tricky if you want to ask an accountant.

What do you think she ought to write in that box?

Edited

What do you think she ought to write in that box?

Massage Therapist?

Goditsmemargaret · Yesterday 13:05

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:04

😂😂😂
Oh this site is full of this.

Bitter sounding women who get very triggered by any woman who considers herself to look attractive?

I wouldn't say the site is full of it thankfully but there are certainly a few of you about.

Goditsmemargaret · Yesterday 13:02

Ved · Yesterday 10:03

There's always one isn't there? 😆 AT 50, people thought I looked 32! 😆

What that poster didn't mention is that it was 103 year old George, who saw her from his house 200 yards away. 😆

How do you know she's mistaken?

ToadRage · Yesterday 12:59

How did you get into this kind of work? Is it just for the money? Could you not get a regular job? What job did you do before?

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 12:52

MrsSlocombesCat · Yesterday 12:43

I think some of the replies on here are indicative of jealousy. You're making good money. They don't want to do it themselves but deep down wish they could. You're an independent woman with a good income.

Hilarious.

She been on the job for less than a month.

Some women do have a good income and are independent without selling their bodies.

Funny that, eh?

tiredtiredd · Yesterday 12:46

MrsSlocombesCat · Yesterday 12:43

I think some of the replies on here are indicative of jealousy. You're making good money. They don't want to do it themselves but deep down wish they could. You're an independent woman with a good income.

Wow

KilkennyCats · Yesterday 12:44

MrsSlocombesCat · Yesterday 12:43

I think some of the replies on here are indicative of jealousy. You're making good money. They don't want to do it themselves but deep down wish they could. You're an independent woman with a good income.

No 🤣
Seriously, no.

MrsSlocombesCat · Yesterday 12:43

I think some of the replies on here are indicative of jealousy. You're making good money. They don't want to do it themselves but deep down wish they could. You're an independent woman with a good income.

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 12:32

ExpectMore · Yesterday 12:30

Well if you read my OP as of 09:54 (in your quoted thread) you’ll note I’m enquiring as to the same….

well, maybe we will both be lucky and get a reply!

ExpectMore · Yesterday 12:30

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 12:27

I'm asking if she is declaring it. And keeping records of incoming earnings and outgoing expenses.

And how she describes her business.

Self assessment includes a box where you describe the work you do.
You also need to work out your allowable expenses which would include a percentage of the costs of working from home, utility costs, council tax, as well as other consumables. It's possible to do this yourself (I have for years) but rather tricky if you want to ask an accountant.

What do you think she ought to write in that box?

Edited

Well if you read my OP as of 09:54 (in your quoted thread) you’ll note I’m enquiring as to the same….

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 12:27

ExpectMore · Yesterday 12:05

Why wouldn’t I be?

Any lawfully earned (as is this case) income is taxable.

Are you implying the OP should commit tax fraud by not reporting her income?

I'm asking if she is declaring it. And keeping records of incoming earnings and outgoing expenses.

And how she describes her business.

Self assessment includes a box where you describe the work you do.
You also need to work out your allowable expenses which would include a percentage of the costs of working from home, utility costs, council tax, as well as other consumables. It's possible to do this yourself (I have for years) but rather tricky if you want to ask an accountant.

What do you think she ought to write in that box?

Winter2020 · Yesterday 12:26

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 22:52

I wish but I’ve tried and can’t x if I gave away sectors it might give away identity x but avenues are exhausted x

Surely directing people to your adult website which shows your face gives away your identity a whole lot more?

Vanillaicelatte · Yesterday 12:22

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Yesterday 08:08

My mind has very occasionally slipped to this as a solution rather than working (I don't really need to work as have paid off mortgage and have investments so I work part time and near home) but I would never seriously consider this. Apart from the physical side I fear it would mess with my mind too much.

You’ve only got to look at another post here about a high class hooker who was forced into the job and seems emotionally troubled now.

There is no such thing as a high class hooker
only good marketing

KilkennyCats · Yesterday 12:15

TalkToTheHand123 · Yesterday 12:11

The government should make arrangements to improve the safety of the environment of women who choose to do this. Maybe then I would be expecting them to pay taxes.
People shouldn't be so prude about it. Glass houses.

How exactly would you propose they do that? What a ridiculous notion.

ValueofNothing · Yesterday 12:13

FirmSnake · Yesterday 10:48

If you did read the thread, you'd know we all worked that out yesterday...

I read a lot of the thread but not nearly enough clearly!

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