I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

@AllezAllezPronto It's quite amusing really as the whole concept of internet dating is to meet 'random men' off the internet. And sometimes they do have sex!

Internet dating is used for dating, hence the name. You will have browsed profiles by female users and noted that virtually all women specify that they are not looking for casual sex.

However, I'm old enough to know when Tinder first came along and its main thrust was to find a partner for sex rather than a long term relationship.

Why are you talking about that as though it is something that happened in the distant past? Tinder only started in 2012, it's not an ancient thing.

The whole thing about Tinder being a "hook up app" was a clever marketing gimmick to get men to download and use the app. As everyone knows, the easiest way to market something to men is to use women. If it had been marketed specifically as a "dating app," then female users would have outnumbered male users.

You did not read the thread.

"I don’t believe it either. These men want young women. Unless you are a professional Mother to men with adult baby fetishes, or some other specialist fetish."

I’m not sure why you think that when even men away from that scene, in their 30’s for example are interested in being involved with women in their 30’s. Okay we aren’t necessarily talking marriage and kids, because most women that age would not be wanting kids etc then.

LOL @ that @TheLiftedLash 😆

I’ve worked in men’s clothing retail and they absolutely did my head in. Fat, balding, no taste in clothes, boring as f*ck and entitled with it. I hated massaging their egos with “ohhh yes, you do look good in that”, “yes, that colour suits you”.

I can’t imagine having to get down and dirty with them 🤮

I hope the op gets paid a fortune for having to do that.

Agree!

You don't know if many women meet men off hook up sites. Do you know all the women in the country? In the world. No. No you don't. So stop acting like you are 100% in the right here.

As I said, if a man is not getting women to meet him, it's very likely because she doesn't fancy him.

How did that end? Did he pay for 90 minutes in advance?

I've have never seen anything on TV about hook up sites.
Is there stuff on TV about this? You seem to know :)

It's quite amusing really as the whole concept of internet dating is to meet 'random men' off the internet. And sometimes they do have sex!

However, I'm old enough to know when Tinder first came along and its main thrust was to find a partner for sex rather than a long term relationship.Since them there have been a lot more and the way I've found out is women (yes, women) on this forum discussing them!

You seem quite naive. There are websites where people are looking for a serious relationship and others where they want something much more casual and often ONS.

I have read the thread. I don't think you have read the thread.

Yep, exactly.

@FirmSnake Nobody is in disbelief that a man would have sex with a 50 year old woman.

Read the thread before replying.

@Ved Many women do meet men like this though.

No, they don't.

You don't meet men off "hook up sites" (which are almost universally scam websites). You don't know any women who meet men on "hook up sites." So why claim that there are women who use those sites when you don't know anyone who does?

No and tbh whilst men might be happy to shag anything with a pulse for free once they're paying they get a bit fussy. You only have to read 'reviews' on those awful prostitute review sites to see they expect high standards when paying 50 quid for a BJ.

Nobody is in disbelief that a man would have sex with a 50 year old woman. Women don't need to be told that men want to sleep with us thank you very much.

What we don't believe, is OP.

There are a lot of women on this site who never talk to men and get all of their information about men from TV. Hence why they're in disbelief that a man would have sex with a 50 year old woman, even though the majority of men report being attracted to adult women of all ages.

If men are not finding women wanting to meet them, it's very likely because they don't fancy them.

Did you see her profile on the website?

If not, why did you assume she uploaded a picture of her face? Why make things up?

You're mistaken

@AllezAllezPronto I still don't see the attraction for men as there are ways to get sex by hook up sites.

I think you watch far too much TV. "Hook up sites"?

There are very, very, few women who meet random men off the internet for sex, due to the safety considerations.

Sometimes the pulse is optional. 😆

I agree about older women, that men will be happy to shag them, but no way is a sugar daddy going for a 50 year old. Nope.

Some men actively want older women, too

They might be seeking that

😆

This is not a stretch at all. You're chatting about life stages, kids ages or memories from your childhood in a particular era and you realise the person was born around the same time as you and you had always assumed they were similar age to your daughter.

I have a friend who looked around thirty when she got married. I had introduced her to another friend of mine who congratulated her on the news of her upcoming nuptials, enquired a bit about wedding plans, honeymoon etc. This led to her reflecting on her own honeymoon. She said to my friend "getting pregnant on honeymoon sounds romantic but I wish I'd waited a few years. That would be my advise to anyone now with youth on their side like you. Enjoy some married time just the two of you." My friend getting married was 49.