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I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 19:52

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

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KayFabe · 25/09/2026 20:04

Won't pandering to men fill you with menopausal rage?

I can put up with 8 hours of it a month for 4 figures in my bank account in return.

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Orangeyoucan · 25/09/2026 20:07

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XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 20:07

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:05

I don't care if she pays taxes! She has absolutely none of the rights or protections of anyone in employment in the UK, ACAS are not exactly stepping in to a dispute, she can't take non payments to small claims court.
It's sexual exploitation

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Well wouldn't that be the case with anyone running a one person enterprise where they are considered "self employed" ?

PersephoneSeethes · 25/09/2026 20:06

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:59

It's sexual exploitation. Consent can't be purchased

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Well said. Prostitution isn’t ‘work’.

OnlyOnWeekends · 25/09/2026 20:06

So many threads and AMAs on this subject, all slightly different. Does someone have a fetish?

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:06

Despite working all my life since 18, due to personal reasons that I can’t go into, it’s been a struggle the last 2/3 years to get conventional full time consistent employment, unless I want to work nights in a factory on shifts in chilled environments which cause my muscles in my hands etc to cramp so not viable.
I’ve had 1/2 bordering negative experiences so far which weren’t bad enough to put me off.
I already have 2 non exclusive sugar daddies - which means I get a minimum monthly allowance for 8 x 1 hour appointments each per month.

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MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:05

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 20:02

Perhaps OP runs her enterprise as a business, is planning to file tax returns, pays herself a salary etc.

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I don't care if she pays taxes! She has absolutely none of the rights or protections of anyone in employment in the UK, ACAS are not exactly stepping in to a dispute, she can't take non payments to small claims court.
It's sexual exploitation

Agatha1989 · 25/09/2026 20:05

Strange career choice at 50. Why?

KayFabe · 25/09/2026 20:04

Won't pandering to men fill you with menopausal rage?

Wallywobbles · 25/09/2026 20:04

I’m curious to know how it’s going. No judgement here.

I’m imagining if you thought you had other better options you’d have taken them so you’re making a considered decision. So why anyone thinks picking a fight or throwing insults at you is helping I’m not sure.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 20:02

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:54

It's not work. Work comes with rights and regulations.

Perhaps OP runs her enterprise as a business, is planning to file tax returns, pays herself a salary etc.

AnneLovesGilbert · 25/09/2026 20:02

That's desperately sad.

UserName001002 · 25/09/2026 20:01

Is everyone in Mumsnet a sex worker now?

Should we all become sex workers Father?

TheBlueKoala · 25/09/2026 20:00

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MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:59

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 19:58

Work is activity for reward. It's work.

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It's sexual exploitation. Consent can't be purchased

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 19:58

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:54

It's not work. Work comes with rights and regulations.

Work is activity for reward. It's work.

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:54

It's not work. Work comes with rights and regulations.

tiredtiredd · 25/09/2026 19:53

why?

Sylviaplathlives · 25/09/2026 19:53

How’s this worked out for you?

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