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AnyonesAnna · 2026-09-25T18:52:48+00:00

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:19

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:12

If you would only have sex with someone for the money, that isn't freely given, it's purchased

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So she chooses to do 8 hours work for money instead of 40 hours work for less money. I don't see the problem IF she's happy with that bargain.

Dontwantt · 25/09/2026 20:17

I don’t believe it either. These men want young women.

Unless you are a professional Mother to men with adult baby fetishes, or some other specialist fetish.

Dumbledora8 · 25/09/2026 20:14

How much do you earn?

Allisnotlost1 · 25/09/2026 20:14

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:54

It's not work. Work comes with rights and regulations.

It’s an AMA, that’s not a question.

What are the things you like about it @AnyonesAnna , if any?

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 20:13

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:11

That's not the case small businesses and sole traders have access to legal recourse.
Over the last twenty years having worked with both sex offenders and a large number of women with lived experience of selling sex I have seen devastation you can't even imagine, it may feel cool to call it female empowerment, it isn't.

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I just think it was rather odd to immediately jump to "rules and regulations" in your first post in the thread, that was my point. I haven't said a word about "female empowerment", it was just an odd assertion given that anyone who does run a legit one-person enterprise is in precisely the same situation, the ability to pursue creditors aside.

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:13

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:05

I don't care if she pays taxes! She has absolutely none of the rights or protections of anyone in employment in the UK, ACAS are not exactly stepping in to a dispute, she can't take non payments to small claims court.
It's sexual exploitation

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It is not exploitation if it is her freely made choice.

These women earn a lot of money for very little effort. It can be a valid choice.

Lararoft · 25/09/2026 20:12

Also I find it difficult to believe that your ‘sugar daddies’ if they do exist, are that young as you are middle aged yourself, which means you are likely having to get it on with a lot older not very nice guys…

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:12

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:10

But it can freely be given.

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If you would only have sex with someone for the money, that isn't freely given, it's purchased

PersephoneSeethes · 25/09/2026 20:11

Orangeyoucan · 25/09/2026 20:08

This ⬆️. I wouldn’t be surprised if ‘Anna’ was actually a very pervy Alan 🙄

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🤭 Neither would I.

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:11

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 20:07

Well wouldn't that be the case with anyone running a one person enterprise where they are considered "self employed" ?

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That's not the case small businesses and sole traders have access to legal recourse.
Over the last twenty years having worked with both sex offenders and a large number of women with lived experience of selling sex I have seen devastation you can't even imagine, it may feel cool to call it female empowerment, it isn't.

ItsAlwaysTwins · 25/09/2026 20:11

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Orangeyoucan · 25/09/2026 20:10

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:08

I can put up with 8 hours of it a month for 4 figures in my bank account in return.

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Whatever you say Alan, ahem,… sorry, I mean Anna. Course you could 😂

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:10

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:59

It's sexual exploitation. Consent can't be purchased

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But it can freely be given.

Lararoft · 25/09/2026 20:09

Can you not do care work?
There are lots of jobs available in care (homes / hospitals/ domiciliary or support work); these jobs are quite easy to get as evidenced by the fact that many newly arrived immigrants work in these roles (and no shade to them, because although they often lack specific care experience, they are often keen to learn the skills)..

I actually sometimes work with an older lady who used to be a prostitute (with an addiction) and is now sober & is a care assistant in the hospital; to be fair she says well, you still see lots of bottoms & privates in her hospital job.. but at least she gets to keep her dignity!

With care or support work you can choose your hours, gain qualifications as you work, & better yourself as well. Ok it’s often hard work and can be minimum wage at base rate but I would ten million times rather do it than prostitute myself to some gross man, sorry.

WhatDoRacoonsSay · 25/09/2026 20:09

You say career, so it's not just something quick for money.
Why do you want to make a career out of men using you?

Orangeyoucan · 25/09/2026 20:08

OnlyOnWeekends · 25/09/2026 20:06

So many threads and AMAs on this subject, all slightly different. Does someone have a fetish?

This ⬆️. I wouldn’t be surprised if ‘Anna’ was actually a very pervy Alan 🙄

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:08

KayFabe · 25/09/2026 20:04

Won't pandering to men fill you with menopausal rage?

I can put up with 8 hours of it a month for 4 figures in my bank account in return.

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XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 20:07

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:05

I don't care if she pays taxes! She has absolutely none of the rights or protections of anyone in employment in the UK, ACAS are not exactly stepping in to a dispute, she can't take non payments to small claims court.
It's sexual exploitation

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Well wouldn't that be the case with anyone running a one person enterprise where they are considered "self employed" ?

PersephoneSeethes · 25/09/2026 20:06

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:59

It's sexual exploitation. Consent can't be purchased

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Well said. Prostitution isn’t ‘work’.

OnlyOnWeekends · 25/09/2026 20:06

So many threads and AMAs on this subject, all slightly different. Does someone have a fetish?

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:06

Despite working all my life since 18, due to personal reasons that I can’t go into, it’s been a struggle the last 2/3 years to get conventional full time consistent employment, unless I want to work nights in a factory on shifts in chilled environments which cause my muscles in my hands etc to cramp so not viable.
I’ve had 1/2 bordering negative experiences so far which weren’t bad enough to put me off.
I already have 2 non exclusive sugar daddies - which means I get a minimum monthly allowance for 8 x 1 hour appointments each per month.

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MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:05

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 20:02

Perhaps OP runs her enterprise as a business, is planning to file tax returns, pays herself a salary etc.

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I don't care if she pays taxes! She has absolutely none of the rights or protections of anyone in employment in the UK, ACAS are not exactly stepping in to a dispute, she can't take non payments to small claims court.
It's sexual exploitation

Agatha1989 · 25/09/2026 20:05

Strange career choice at 50. Why?

KayFabe · 25/09/2026 20:04

Won't pandering to men fill you with menopausal rage?