Page 33 | I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

MyEasterBonnet · 25/09/2026 20:30

How do you find your clients/arrange appointments/ advertise your services?

MyEasterBonnet · 25/09/2026 20:29

How much have you made in the month?

Jane3212 · 25/09/2026 20:28

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 19:52

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

Is it easy for you to get clients? I read that usually men who go to sex workers want women in 20s-30s.

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:28

KilkennyCats · 25/09/2026 20:24

Two sugar daddies? At 50? Don’t believe it for a second.

Yeah I have been quite shocked too … but I look more like 39 than 50 having not had a long term husband or kids and I had weightloss (gastric sleeve) surgery 8 years ago x
So I’m an 8-10 dress size despite a little bit of flabby stomach skin :/.

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O00ps · 25/09/2026 20:27

Are your hormones heightened at the moment due to perimenopause? Or would you always have considered this work outside normal employment?

quackquack1514 · 25/09/2026 20:26

Are you male or female?

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:24

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Probably yes, yes, and no …

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KilkennyCats · 25/09/2026 20:24

Two sugar daddies? At 50? Don’t believe it for a second.

Yoyooo · 25/09/2026 20:22

What do you do with your clients?

Thisusernameisalwaysavailable · 25/09/2026 20:22

Ved · 25/09/2026 20:21

I have never EVER known a sugar daddy have a 50 year old woman as their 'sugar baby.'

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How many sugar daddies do you know?

Ved · 25/09/2026 20:21

I have never EVER known a sugar daddy have a 50 year old woman as their 'sugar baby.'

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Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:21

Dontwantt · 25/09/2026 20:17

I don’t believe it either. These men want young women.

Unless you are a professional Mother to men with adult baby fetishes, or some other specialist fetish.

Rooney? Paid a woman old enough to be his grandmother for sex.

There are plenty of men with older women fantasies, have you heard of MILF rankings among older schoolboys?

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:19

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:12

If you would only have sex with someone for the money, that isn't freely given, it's purchased

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So she chooses to do 8 hours work for money instead of 40 hours work for less money. I don't see the problem IF she's happy with that bargain.

Dontwantt · 25/09/2026 20:17

I don’t believe it either. These men want young women.

Unless you are a professional Mother to men with adult baby fetishes, or some other specialist fetish.

Dumbledora8 · 25/09/2026 20:14

How much do you earn?

Allisnotlost1 · 25/09/2026 20:14

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:54

It's not work. Work comes with rights and regulations.

It’s an AMA, that’s not a question.

What are the things you like about it @AnyonesAnna , if any?

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 20:13

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:11

That's not the case small businesses and sole traders have access to legal recourse.
Over the last twenty years having worked with both sex offenders and a large number of women with lived experience of selling sex I have seen devastation you can't even imagine, it may feel cool to call it female empowerment, it isn't.

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I just think it was rather odd to immediately jump to "rules and regulations" in your first post in the thread, that was my point. I haven't said a word about "female empowerment", it was just an odd assertion given that anyone who does run a legit one-person enterprise is in precisely the same situation, the ability to pursue creditors aside.

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:13

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:05

I don't care if she pays taxes! She has absolutely none of the rights or protections of anyone in employment in the UK, ACAS are not exactly stepping in to a dispute, she can't take non payments to small claims court.
It's sexual exploitation

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It is not exploitation if it is her freely made choice.

These women earn a lot of money for very little effort. It can be a valid choice.

Lararoft · 25/09/2026 20:12

Also I find it difficult to believe that your ‘sugar daddies’ if they do exist, are that young as you are middle aged yourself, which means you are likely having to get it on with a lot older not very nice guys…

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:12

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:10

But it can freely be given.

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If you would only have sex with someone for the money, that isn't freely given, it's purchased

PersephoneSeethes · 25/09/2026 20:11

Orangeyoucan · 25/09/2026 20:08

This ⬆️. I wouldn’t be surprised if ‘Anna’ was actually a very pervy Alan 🙄

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🤭 Neither would I.

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 20:11

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 20:07

Well wouldn't that be the case with anyone running a one person enterprise where they are considered "self employed" ?

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That's not the case small businesses and sole traders have access to legal recourse.
Over the last twenty years having worked with both sex offenders and a large number of women with lived experience of selling sex I have seen devastation you can't even imagine, it may feel cool to call it female empowerment, it isn't.

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Orangeyoucan · 25/09/2026 20:10

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:08

I can put up with 8 hours of it a month for 4 figures in my bank account in return.

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Whatever you say Alan, ahem,… sorry, I mean Anna. Course you could 😂

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:10

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:59

It's sexual exploitation. Consent can't be purchased

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But it can freely be given.