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I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 19:52

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:11

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:06

How do you advertise so incredibly successfully to have built up this customer base a few weeks in? @AnyonesAnna

I’m on Adultwork with the basic free subscription. Received 500 emails in 3 weeks! 5000 WhatsApps!

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Cardomomle · 25/09/2026 21:10

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 21:03

Not sure it follows that the only men who visit sex workers are those who "can't find a woman", even the professional 20 and 30'somethings.

A lot of them will be in relationships, others just won't be interested in maintaining one.

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Ok.

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:10

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:09

Last year or two doing ad hoc agency work x still paying tax and ni

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So not jobless

now will you please tell us how you advertise so successfully?

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:09

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:06

Well you were jobless so presumably not then?

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Last year or two doing ad hoc agency work x still paying tax and ni

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:08

Ved · 25/09/2026 20:21

I have never EVER known a sugar daddy have a 50 year old woman as their 'sugar baby.'

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Well … I said I guess I was surprised too, but hey ho not gonna turn it down …

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Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:08

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:08

I can put up with 8 hours of it a month for 4 figures in my bank account in return.

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But you follow up that actually this is only one client and you in fact “put up with it” 3x… a day

You Didn’t think this one through did you

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:06

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:05

I’m one month in and will be doing so as have done for last 32 years NI and tax :) x

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Well you were jobless so presumably not then?

Bobbisocks · 25/09/2026 21:06

UserName001002 · 25/09/2026 20:01

Is everyone in Mumsnet a sex worker now?

Should we all become sex workers Father?

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Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:06

How do you advertise so incredibly successfully to have built up this customer base a few weeks in? @AnyonesAnna

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:05

Lexingtonavenueandme · 25/09/2026 21:04

I don’t often report on here but I’ve reported this. That’s unacceptable.

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Thank you 🙏🏻

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:05

Existentialistic · 25/09/2026 20:51

Do you pay tax and NI on your earnings?

I’m one month in and will be doing so as have done for last 32 years NI and tax :) x

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Lexingtonavenueandme · 25/09/2026 21:04

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I don’t often report on here but I’ve reported this. That’s unacceptable.

Pinkwaffles2023 · 25/09/2026 21:04

How did you get into this line of work?

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 21:03

Cardomomle · 25/09/2026 20:59

Thank you! It still seems odd that attractive professional men of around 30 couldn't find a woman companion without paying.

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Not sure it follows that the only men who visit sex workers are those who "can't find a woman", even the professional 20 and 30'somethings.

A lot of them will be in relationships, others just won't be interested in maintaining one.

flowerscarfhat · 25/09/2026 21:03

Do you feel it's affected your self worth?

Spicysenorita · 25/09/2026 21:03

Do you have any mental health issues?

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:02

Lararoft · 25/09/2026 20:09

Can you not do care work?
There are lots of jobs available in care (homes / hospitals/ domiciliary or support work); these jobs are quite easy to get as evidenced by the fact that many newly arrived immigrants work in these roles (and no shade to them, because although they often lack specific care experience, they are often keen to learn the skills)..

I actually sometimes work with an older lady who used to be a prostitute (with an addiction) and is now sober & is a care assistant in the hospital; to be fair she says well, you still see lots of bottoms & privates in her hospital job.. but at least she gets to keep her dignity!

With care or support work you can choose your hours, gain qualifications as you work, & better yourself as well. Ok it’s often hard work and can be minimum wage at base rate but I would ten million times rather do it than prostitute myself to some gross man, sorry.

Due to employment restrictions I can’t do care work - I would if I could. I almost see this as a form of private care work weirdly x

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NewNameW · 25/09/2026 21:02

shuggles · 25/09/2026 21:01

@NewNameW Sure you've earnt 10k in your first month as a sex worker age 50.

She said 4 figures.

Above, she said she earns £140 for an hour. £140 * 8 = £1120.

So she likely earns just over £1k for 8 hours a month.

No she said she works 3 clients a day on average

Ved · 25/09/2026 21:02

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 20:58

So you do far more than 8 hours a month as you said up thread ?

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Yeah, which is it @AnyonesAnna ?

RealEagle · 25/09/2026 21:02

KilkennyCats · 25/09/2026 21:01

Enid Blyton had better plotted tales.

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😂

KilkennyCats · 25/09/2026 21:01

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:00

Please tell us how you advertise to have ramped up such a huge customer base in 4 weeks??

Enid Blyton had better plotted tales.

wishfulthinking25 · 25/09/2026 21:01

Do you have kids?

shuggles · 25/09/2026 21:01

@NewNameW Sure you've earnt 10k in your first month as a sex worker age 50.

She said 4 figures.

Above, she said she earns £140 for an hour. £140 * 8 = £1120.

So she likely earns just over £1k for 8 hours a month.

Cardomomle · 25/09/2026 21:00

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:58

Obvs sex too but lots of it is talk between ‘rounds’ and after etc x

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Ok.

Youneedas · 25/09/2026 21:00

Please tell us how you advertise to have ramped up such a huge customer base in 4 weeks??

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