I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

How do you become a sex worker? Is there an agency you can join? To make sure it’s safe

Good for you!

Do you find it interesting?
Are you with an agency or working independently?

This must be the reason she can’t find a mainstream job. Unless it’s made up of course

Some people have weird fantasies don’t they.

It just makes me sad that at 50 you need to do this to get money. It feels like we are back in the 1800s!

My question is why exactly you're making up a load of old rot online, in order to pretend to be a prostitute?

What are you getting out of it?

Do you just enjoy fantasising that 'attractive' young men of the misogynistic ilk who are willing to buy 'consent', might actually pay to have sex with a pudgy, menopausal woman with loose skin, instead of a fit, stunning, twenty-something-year-old?

Hilarious.

(To note: I think there's nothing wrong with having an imperfect body, or being an older woman, but it's not what grotty, misogynistic men want.)

But they could buy younger prostitutes without the hassle?

Have you got criminal convictions which is preventing you from working?

tldr

I'm sorry but I can't totally agree with you @MeowDoku. I know that it feels very uncomfortable to think that consent to having sex is a buyable - figuratively speaking - commodity, and it surely isn't found in young ladies hijacked from abroad, and it probably only rarely exists in Street walkers, especially those that are controlled by pimps.

However, there are many 'higher' class sex workers who can have a lot of control - or even - total control, of how, when, and with whom they agree to have sex. I know this through an educational project I took part in a few years ago, where I was able - after a lot of negotiating with either the sex workers themselves, or with their managers/husband/mothers etc, to interview some female 'escort' sex workers. Most of the latter get to 'visit' their clients in their 4* hotel rooms, which was much more comfortable and hygenic, than in the back of a car, or up against a wall in a dark alleyway, etc, and a lot less dangerous.

I think that 100% of the escorts that I was able to interview were all female adults, some began their lucrative work while they were still at University, a couple of them started selling thrir bodieds for sex from as early as their late teens - which did, and does concern me, were they being coerced into renting out their bodies from such a young age, even though the conditions in which they had their liasons were more attractive, and usually more comfortable, than those of the street workers etc?

I don't think that I can accept that the teenage, possibly/probably groomed young women, were capable of choosing for themselves. But the slightly older escorts, in, say, their late twenties and their thirties, were eventually able to convince me that they most certainly did, and do, consent to being paid for having sex with a male client. Those women were all articulate, and had very friendly demeanors. Of course, they could all have been extremely good actors, but they really had no reason that I could think of, to lie to me. My study was not going to be published to the genaral public, or even made available to any managers or pimps that they might have had.

What a load of shite.

The mind boggles…

The money? As opposed to what?

I’m not one to recommend benefits easily but in your case I would claim whatever you can. Would rather be on benefits than sell my fanny for a few quid.

I'd say OP is the one exploiting. (I'm hoping they tip well).

I’d do this is I wasn’t married. It would be the money that would be the draw.

How do you get clients to leave afterwards or do they just go?

Do you take bank transfer before? Does anyone want to pay cash?

Did you say they come to your home?

We all have those bills to pay, my friend.

It’s the annoying vagueness of your posts that irritate me the most.
You’re quite happy to share intimate details of your life, so much so that you fancy being a prostitute.
But when someone asks you a reasonable question about why you couldn’t possibly find alternative work, it’s all wishy washy answers.

That’s why, this whole thread that you’ve started, sounds like complete bullshit.
And another reason why @ProudBlackMommawas dead right.

I won't ask anything or judge. I only hope you are safe. So many weirdos out there. Protect yourself every way possible.

Chocolate Finger

I presume OP will be using a site like AdultWork or similar.

It and similar sites operate like any other marketing operation and will be mailing local men who have registered an interest in such services.

I'm told that "fresh meat" is sought after. So I'd guess that OPs revenue for months 3-6) would be a better indicator than first month.

How long do you think you’ll carry this on for?
Do you refuse people sometimes for any reason?
How did you feel after your first customer?
Do you ever get off while working?
Have you had many relationships before?
🙂

That's not relevant to what I wrote.

What I said was that you need a plan B for if menopause makes your line of work intolerable physically.

Wonder if a brass band walked up the street in praise? 🤭.