I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

How do you bring yourself to have sex with really unattractive men or men with awful hygiene 🤮?

I’ve a few questions if I may

• do you get the men to clean themselves before you touch them (shower)
• how do they pay you? In cash? Before or after?
• do you enjoy the sex

congratulations on your weight loss, your tummy looks great in the third photo, how did you get it so toned?

AnyonesAnna
👏to your business name. Fitting.

Do you ever feel attracted to your clients? Do you enjoy the sex?

Or "looking good/younger/fitter than most 50 year olds". A lot of people claim to look a lot younger than they are, it's very common on MN.
The issue is that this OP is claiming success and wealth as a sex worker, and that the punters are not only harmless, but handsome young professional men.
It's being made to sound like a healthy, safe and lucrative option.

Amusing that in the phrase "50 year old sex worker" the part PP latches onto is 50 year old. Of all the issues this throws up, their go to is to question how attractive an older sex worker might be to her punters.

That's horrendous. I hope things are going better for you now. 🙏🏼

Exactly.

I think she finds it easier to lie on her back, or front, than do anything more physical like being on a till, or shop floor, or behind a bar or serving coffee.

You must be in your 20’s! 😂 I’m in my 50’s, told regularly I look late 30’s and am often chatted up by men as young as early 30’s! Never gone there as it’s too young for me but flattering. I remember thinking in my 20’s that people in their 40’s were ancient too! 😂

You're not getting it. In fact you've just contradicted your own words!

The word daddy is the clue.
Think on it.

It really is usually associated with a big age gap AND BEING RICH not just a richer man.

Find it a bit concerning that you’ve either done something or something has happened that you literally can’t get any other form of job. Not even a shelf stacker? Surely that’s a huge red flag.

Naive? I wish. I was trafficked at 16 so I'm very aware of the sex industry, thanks, and what she's said doesn't sound particularly believable to me.

"A neighbour thought I looked about 32"
😂

A sugar daddy is Not an age thing.
It’s about providing, which is normally associated with an older figure. People really need to drop the whole she’s 50 so her ‘sugar daddy’ must be 80 .

How many sugar daddies do you know? 😯

Although I would never ever do sex work, I could easily have had sugar daddies at 50. I looked very good then (a new neighbour at that time thought I was around 32). Not now I’m in my 60s, though, everything’s gone to pot. 😬

My mind has very occasionally slipped to this as a solution rather than working (I don't really need to work as have paid off mortgage and have investments so I work part time and near home) but I would never seriously consider this. Apart from the physical side I fear it would mess with my mind too much.

You’ve only got to look at another post here about a high class hooker who was forced into the job and seems emotionally troubled now.

3 men in a day sounds downright uncomfortable.
All that pounding...

How do you keep yourself safe - what if someone attacks you when you're alone with them? Pushes boundaries that you have set etc

I think you didn't try hard enough to find other work. If you are reasonably intelligent, you could find work - shops, cafe, care work, childminding, - and also perhaps retrain.

Are you planning to carry on like this till you're 67 and get your pension?

The truth is it's 'easier' to do what you're doing as it doesn't demand any training, you can choose your hours, you won't be paying tax or NI, so what's not to like?

How can something be the same principle when it's not???

A sugar DADDY is a man old enough to be your father.

A man who pay for regular sex and is not at least 16+ years older is not your SUGAR DADDY.

He's a man paying for sex twice a week and paying you well.

Some men like older women , older than themselves or older than the norm of what is traditionally desirable.

As I get older, I realise men like so many different things. It really is enough to be a women, you are going to be up someone's alley.

However, op doesn't explicitly state she is offering a milf experience/has massive tits and I think thats what quite a few younger guys want in an over 40 yo.

Not sure about the older guys, the 50yo seeing her x8 per month.....?

Also, 3 men a day is a lot of men. Perhaps the price is right

The self esteem bit is nonsense.

No, she explained for her sugar daddies she does 8 one hour sessions each a month. Not for her whole sex work.

And to be fair to OP there's no age range for a sugar daddy. It's more the behaviour than the age difference that defines it.

Do you have a criminal record and that's why you can't get a job in care etc?

Or do you have an unusual physical trait or disability that might increase your "allure" in sex work but you think you'd be discriminated against in the job market for?