I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

How do you find customers?

How did you get into to this occupation? Did someone you know already do it or did you think "that sounds like a good way to earn money" and start researching how to get started?

Do you issue receipts and how will it work for paying taxes?

Can you explain why you can't do other work?
You keep avoiding the question which means posters are not sure what's stopping you.

Going to the gym or cooking dinner, which offer the rewards of fitness and food respectively, are "work" then?

Is there much marketfor the more mature lady? How do you drum up business?

Tell us - why can' t you get a day job? You say your only option was night shifts in a factory in a chilled environment.

That really is quite bizarre.

What work do you do for decades and why did you need to stop?

My local town has adverts in the windows for sales assts, in shops, cafes, restaurants etc.

It makes me think your work is a lifestyle choice, not a necessity. You only want to work part time, from home, on your own terms, not pay tax, not pay NI, but maybe claim benefits?

If you are fit enough to have sex 3 times a day with unknown men, surely you are fit enough to do other work or even train to do something else?

Nor have I - Sugar Dadddies usually want females many decades younger. Which would make them about 90 😳

Is this for real? At 50 aren't you way too old for sugar daddies? I thought a sugar baby had to be a young girl in her 20s? I have to say it doesn't sound like a safe or sensible decision of this post is true

Good luck to you. It is not something I could ever do, I'd sooner scrub doorsteps for hours on end than have sex with random knobs. I fear your mental health will eventually suffer.

I'd be worried I'd get addicted to the money and would feel obliged to do things further and further away from what I was comfortable with.

Also that it would ruin my perception of men and relationships and even make it difficult to enjoy recreational/relationship based sex.

How do you feel about that?

Do you regularly get checked for STIs? Are you worried about herpes?

Yeah, well off, good looking, I doubt it.

I really don't think it would be outing to say why you can't get a more normal job, OP!

All nice clean men and you sometimes enjoy it?
No downsides at all, would you say?

😂😂

I thought it was a male led media thing that perpetuated the trope about women over 50 being past it.
Thus thread has opened my eyes however.

Oh op. It's no way to live being used by pathetic men.

You say you don't have any mental health problems currently but this kind of 'work' will inevitably take its toll.

You say you can't get any work in the care sector due to undislosable reasons which can only be dbs/conviction related as they're desperate for staff and the bar is sadly very low.

Maybe retail or the hospitality sector?

I'd work on your self esteem and confidence if I were you. I'm sure you're worth more than this.

Yoy've got remarkably good articulation for someone whose only option is to work in a factory wirh cramping hands.

I'm not entirely sure why OP decided to be 50 in their story. Probably its what floats their own personal boat.
They do reveal a lack of understanding of both their subject and their context. For example, that young men who pay for sex with older women do so because the older woman looks young. When the attraction is typically that she isn't young. Also that the fact of being child free means a 50 year old womans appearance would be frozen in time, because cell degeneration and gravity seemingly doesn't exist for the child free.
So, huge pinches of salt are in order here I think.

The thing I'm finding most fascinating about your thread @AnyonesAnna is how absolutely naive many women are about male sexual attraction.

Don't they know there are men who pay to watch fat women eat like gluttons, watch women pee, buy unwashed underwear? And of course there are men of all shapes, sizes and ages who would pay for sex with a sexually experienced 50 year old, whose job is to satisfy them without any worries that they need to satisfy her.

I'm sad when I read that you chose it because you can't get other work, because that does not seem like a free choice to me. But all power to you if you are happy making a living out of men willing to give you money this way.

Stay safe!

I can concur, I know plenty women in this age bracket who do this sort of work, look completely like anyone you’d be friends with or who would serve you at the pharmacy etc.
dominatrices, OF, porn actors, sex work.

i remember the readers wives section was popular back in the day, average looking, ‘normal’ looking people, not everyone wants someone who looks like ‘a porn star’, milf and gilf are popular categories and a lot of people like older women.
it used to surprise me, it doesn’t anymore.

Exactly. It all sounds like a poorly thought-out fantasy.

Men of all types do visit prostitutes, but given the look of her (based on the photos) and her age, it seems very unbelievable that 2 of her 3 clients this week (not really enough to live on, and contradicting her saying she usually sees 3 a day) are attractive, lovely men aged 28-32, in professional careers. And the way she was bragging about her 'skills'? Lol.

It also seems unlikely that she received 5,000 WhatsApps in 3 weeks. The whole 'raised her self-esteem' thing is utterly ridiculous, unless she was filled with a deep, deep self-loathing prior to this. It's just sheer nonsense.

How do you bring yourself to have sex with really unattractive men or men with awful hygiene 🤮?

I’ve a few questions if I may

• do you get the men to clean themselves before you touch them (shower)
• how do they pay you? In cash? Before or after?
• do you enjoy the sex

congratulations on your weight loss, your tummy looks great in the third photo, how did you get it so toned?