I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

@BunnyLake the OP’s sugar daddies are 5 years older than her

Not even remotely true that most 'women turn to prostitution to make ends meet.'

Good grief!

Were you not working last night? I’d have thought Friday night would be a busy one

I've not read anyone saying OP is past it at over 50 (which is obviously untrue). What people are pointing out is what OP is saying is weird, nonsensical and contradictory.

Can you tell us more about the two weeks of “mentoring” you received @AnyonesAnna ?!

What are you going to put on your tax return?

Yea £140 sounds a bit bargain basement but I’m no expert.

Well most ‘sugar daddies’.want a young and gorgeous women they can show off about. And they pay for that ‘privilege. And they usually pay well to avoid ‘their’ woman taking on all comers. 🙄

Not a middle aged woman having sex with others.

OP I find your posts odd. You speak as though you know what you're doing, but it's only been a few weeks. You're the new shiny toy - it probably won't be like this for long.

I’ve name changed for this.

I never did full service sex work but I danced my way through university and remain friends with many who still offer full service. I haven’t danced for almost ten years and most girls who have moved past their prime have moved on from dancing to full service. I think going back to a “normal” job is hard for many people the money comes in so fast and with little time. So thats something to keep in mind.

£140 is very cheap for an hour and I would be concerned that would mean you would attract a certain type of client. I’m in Manchester and the going rate is £200/£250 an hour from what I’ve heard. Most people I know charge £200 on AW or the agency they work for charges £250 but takes a cut.

I would also familiarise yourself with local sex work charities in the area if you haven’t. The one local to me is called M.A.S.H and they support sex workers to get tested without any judgement, also help sex workers report any violence or just have people you can talk to about your work.

Also familiarise yourself with National Ugly Mugs website if you haven’t already. You can sign up and check clients details on there to see if they’ve been reported by other SW’s for anything nefarious.

No judgement from me just hoping you stay safe. X

Why do you have so many clients per day. You don't need to work that much.

3x£140 x 5days x 4weeks = £8400!! a month

It certainly seems to be something like that to suddenly find yourself unable to find a job at 47 when she stopped work.

I don’t see why you can’t get a job with decades of work experience unless you have a criminal record. Yes it’s harder out there but most people manage to find something eventually. Employers often prefer middle aged candidates to younger ones these days.

Criminal record perhaps?

TBH I think some men will take anyone with a female body- as long as they can have sex.

How do you find customers?

How did you get into to this occupation? Did someone you know already do it or did you think "that sounds like a good way to earn money" and start researching how to get started?

Do you issue receipts and how will it work for paying taxes?

Can you explain why you can't do other work?
You keep avoiding the question which means posters are not sure what's stopping you.

Going to the gym or cooking dinner, which offer the rewards of fitness and food respectively, are "work" then?

Is there much marketfor the more mature lady? How do you drum up business?

Tell us - why can' t you get a day job? You say your only option was night shifts in a factory in a chilled environment.

That really is quite bizarre.

What work do you do for decades and why did you need to stop?

My local town has adverts in the windows for sales assts, in shops, cafes, restaurants etc.

It makes me think your work is a lifestyle choice, not a necessity. You only want to work part time, from home, on your own terms, not pay tax, not pay NI, but maybe claim benefits?

If you are fit enough to have sex 3 times a day with unknown men, surely you are fit enough to do other work or even train to do something else?

Nor have I - Sugar Dadddies usually want females many decades younger. Which would make them about 90 😳

Is this for real? At 50 aren't you way too old for sugar daddies? I thought a sugar baby had to be a young girl in her 20s? I have to say it doesn't sound like a safe or sensible decision of this post is true

Good luck to you. It is not something I could ever do, I'd sooner scrub doorsteps for hours on end than have sex with random knobs. I fear your mental health will eventually suffer.