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AIBU to consider a claim after my child broke his arm?

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ThisLemonMaker · 24/09/2026 18:43

My child broke 2 bones in his arm at school last week falling off the monkey bars. He had to have an operation to have metal into the arm. He is going to have bad scaring and will have to go under GA again to have the metal removed. This isn’t the first time children have broken bones on the monkey bars at the school. Do you think I’m being unreasonable to contact a solicitor and make a claim? My thinking is that we won’t know for sure yet if any nerves have been effected and what recovery will look like also if he will be conscious of the scars when older. I have no issues with the school otherwise and don’t wish this to affect my child at school. AIBU?

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5128gap · 24/09/2026 19:32

Call a no win no fee solicitor. They will leave you in no doubt as to whether you have a case, because if you don't they won't take you on.

arethereanyleftatall · 24/09/2026 19:32

lol. So your kid jumped and fell?

Ramseysnightmare · 24/09/2026 19:31

Savage!

Imisscoffee2021 · 24/09/2026 19:30

ThisLemonMaker · 24/09/2026 19:05

It wouldn’t be for myself it would be for when my child is 18. My son can’t reach the monkey bars so had to jump to reach and fell.

Doesn't matter who it's for, you are seeking renumeration for something which sounds like a total accident based on a child being overly adventurous. As many children are. The school aren't to blame, I'd be loathe to blame a child, but it's just one of those things. Yes having operations and the risks they being can be a worry and be a source of anxiety for child and family, but it doesn't mean anyone deserves money to soothe this.

Unless the equipment was faulty, staff guided or encouraged him then I can't see how any of it was the schools fault? If it happened in a public playground would you sue the council?

TheCompactPussycat · 24/09/2026 19:30

ThisLemonMaker · 24/09/2026 19:05

It wouldn’t be for myself it would be for when my child is 18. My son can’t reach the monkey bars so had to jump to reach and fell.

So your son didn't fall from the monkey bars? He jumped off the ground and landed badly.

ProsyFossil · 24/09/2026 19:30

Good lord. My brother broke limbs regularly during his school career. My parents should have cashed in.

Look on the bright side, OP, your kid might find it sparks a career in medicine.

butterpuffed · 24/09/2026 19:30

ThisLemonMaker · 24/09/2026 19:05

It wouldn’t be for myself it would be for when my child is 18. My son can’t reach the monkey bars so had to jump to reach and fell.

You really think that if you sue he might receive enough compensation to set himself up for life when eighteen?? !!!

vodkaredbullgirl · 24/09/2026 19:28

You could try, but your child was at fault not the school.

CrazyCatLady2026 · 24/09/2026 19:27

No you can't make a claim for your kid fucking around. So grabby.

Ireallycantthinkofagoodone · 24/09/2026 19:26

ThisLemonMaker · 24/09/2026 19:05

It wouldn’t be for myself it would be for when my child is 18. My son can’t reach the monkey bars so had to jump to reach and fell.

If your child couldn’t reach, then why on earth did he try to use equipment that was not designed for his size?

maggisimpson · 24/09/2026 19:25

Broken bones from running, climbing and jumping is just a risk of being a child.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 24/09/2026 19:24

Of course you are unreasonable. Not even a consideration for just asking about safety measure on the monkey bars, just straight to the money.

hoopieghirl · 24/09/2026 19:24

Grifter

Portmore · 24/09/2026 19:24

They will take them away & give the kids screen time instead.

Was there a defect? Incorrect surface underneath? Too many kids using it at once or caused by a bigger kid etc or was it just an accident.

Id definitely write to them & ask for an explanation. They would have to have done an accident form & assessment afterwards. That's more use than 'suing'

Perhaps get your DC a phone or tablet & they can sit inside watching that instead of playing with the other kids. Also you will need to keep them off PE throughout school in case they get hurt doing that.

Bushmillsbabe · 24/09/2026 19:24

Children have accidents, it's part of life. Just because another child hurt themself there, it doesn't mean the equipment was faulty.
To have any claim you would need to prove all of these
-the equipment was faulty

  • they knew it was faulty and didn't do anything about it
  • a clear long term measurable impact/disadvantage sustained due to the injury. Not just 'he might not like his scars'

If you were sucessful, what would the money be for exactly? You need to show that he would incur extra costs as an adult as a direct result of this injury

GladysHeeler · 24/09/2026 19:24

It would be embarrassing for your child if the school’s defence in court was that your child was a fool or halfwit. They could use his reading level and spelling test results to prove their case.

IrisPallida · 24/09/2026 19:23

But surely you should have your child removed because you are such a bad parent that you haven't properly taught him to jump on a climbing frame? Or face prison at the very least for your neglect?

Where will it end?

Sirzy · 24/09/2026 19:23

so do you want the school to ban jumping then?

GladysHeeler · 24/09/2026 19:21

At my dc’s school there was always a child in the school with a broken limb because of the monkey bars. It was just a part of school life.

You should be prepared to take your child out of the school if you are suing them. It’s not fair on your child .

NeverDropYourMooncup · 24/09/2026 19:21

ThisLemonMaker · 24/09/2026 19:05

It wouldn’t be for myself it would be for when my child is 18. My son can’t reach the monkey bars so had to jump to reach and fell.

So he didn't even fall off the monkey bars, he stacked it when he forgot to land after jumping from ground level?

Mooselooseinmyhoose · 24/09/2026 19:21

Your child jumped and fell and did not at any point touch the money bars? Im really not clear how this is the school's fault to you.

A personal injury claim requires a duty of care (which you have to a pupil), a breach of the duty and the breach causes injury.

What did the school do wrong? It can't be equipment maintenance as he didnt touch the equipment. It cant be simply having the monkey bars because thats not a breach.

What are you suggesting the school did or did not do that caused the injury?

(Lawyer - not PI)

Starlight7080 · 24/09/2026 19:21

No you dont try to get money from an accident. Why do you deserve money! It was an accident. Imagine if every parent did this. The courts would be full on a daily basis with claims.

Leopardspota · 24/09/2026 19:21

TruffleSlinky · 24/09/2026 19:04

The school will lose out indirectly. The more ridiculous claims like this there are, the harder / more expensive it will be for them to get insurance.

All schools will lose out directly or indirectly if this becomes a norm.

broken arms in children are relatively common, your sons sounds worse than my (non-medical!) experience. I see a lot of kids with broken bones in schools. Often after ski holidays actually! But several in recent memory from playgrounds/ trampolines and even a few in our school playground.

children need to take risks on play equipment, it should be supervised but there is always an element of risk. Just like when you take them to the playpark !

seahorsessky · 24/09/2026 19:21

plims · 24/09/2026 18:57

How awful to want to financially gain from a child’s accident. It’s shameful.

Yes, if it was a worker who was going to lose pay because of a faulty machine at their job, you get why they'd need to money. Or if there was no NHS and the parents were having to pay the medical bills, ok.
But presumably any play equipment at a school will have been checked as well as at any council playground, so it's just one of these unfortunate accidents.

B9waiting · 24/09/2026 19:20

GardenCovent · 24/09/2026 18:45

And this is everything that is wrong in society.

Indeed! Fucking ridiculous looking to sue for this.