Been with my prtner 3 years, few splits due to other things like arguing, controlling behaviour which was somewhat dealt with.
7 weeks ago after being seperated, we got back together for a final shot and I asked if there was anything to tell me and we start fresh on honesty and do things properly.
7 weeks later (3years technically) after knowing somthing was off i finally found out my partner was lying about owning his own house.
I knew his story's didnt add up. Suspicious behaviour and lies to hide it when I asked previously. And went as far as to make a fake scilicitor document when I asked for proof. Every time I asked he turned it into a me issue and lied about jt making me feel like I had trust issues and I was the problem.
I found somthing with was proof and pulling teeth I finally got him to admit it. He admitted he wouldnt have told me otherwise.
Im angry and hurt and felt like trust is completly broke. Im not woth him for money or anything or the sorts,(he doesnt have any) and im also not like that but its the lies and deciet about it all and the points he has went to to hide it is the massive issue.
I went mad and told him it was over as im sick of getting hurt. And trust being broke , and ontoo of pur past with arguments and behaviours this just topped it. He told me he it was my fault he lied, He got mad and upset and thinks its not an ending relationship deal and we coukda worked through it.
For me its just extra stuff to add on to the past stuff.