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Would you date a man who paid for sex while married?

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Youreallythinkthatwtf · 17/09/2026 11:36

Would anyone ever date a man who had paid for prostitutes (behind her back - so cheating) while married to his ex?

I have named changed and been here years.

I wouldn’t touch one with a barge pole tbh. I would make my excuses (politely to remain safe) and never contact him again. I couldn’t find such a man attractive. Maybe I’m judgemental but so be it. I’d feel sick having sex knowing such information. I had a heated debate with a man I know (who said I was judgemental) I said I don’t care.

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BrickMaker · 19/09/2026 23:17

He's obviously not going to tell any new girlfriends about it is he? Its not like there is a national registry or something. So how will these women find out? I don't know if any social circles I am in where people discuss other people's sex lives so this is pretty weird that his 'mate' would tell you this.

I wouldn't love it but maybe he was in a sexless marriage? I tend not to judge. Would I date him? Would really depend on how good looking he was and other things. And probably other women would too given that tons of women seem to have no problems fucking married men.

I actually think sex workers are more ethical than him cheating with another married person with kids.

Disturbia81 · 19/09/2026 23:24

Absolutely no chance. It immediately tells you what they are like. They agree with women being objects to be bought. That is their mindset and will apply in so many other ways in life.
It makes me sick thinking of older men with young women too, the whole thing is horrible.

OldWallpaper · 19/09/2026 23:43

A BIG no from me too.

LostAlice · 19/09/2026 23:51

Youreallythinkthatwtf · 17/09/2026 11:36

Would anyone ever date a man who had paid for prostitutes (behind her back - so cheating) while married to his ex?

I have named changed and been here years.

I wouldn’t touch one with a barge pole tbh. I would make my excuses (politely to remain safe) and never contact him again. I couldn’t find such a man attractive. Maybe I’m judgemental but so be it. I’d feel sick having sex knowing such information. I had a heated debate with a man I know (who said I was judgemental) I said I don’t care.

What did he request? How long did he last? Why? Did he like it?
Couldnt he get a date?
Ive met some, they tried once - did not like it.
Some could not perform etc.

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