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Would you date a man who paid for sex while married?

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Youreallythinkthatwtf · 17/09/2026 11:36

Would anyone ever date a man who had paid for prostitutes (behind her back - so cheating) while married to his ex?

I have named changed and been here years.

I wouldn’t touch one with a barge pole tbh. I would make my excuses (politely to remain safe) and never contact him again. I couldn’t find such a man attractive. Maybe I’m judgemental but so be it. I’d feel sick having sex knowing such information. I had a heated debate with a man I know (who said I was judgemental) I said I don’t care.

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KojaksLollipop · 17/09/2026 11:46

I wouldn’t date a man who had paid for sex, full stop. If they’re happy to exploit women then they’re not someone I’d want to be with in any capacity.

Youreallythinkthatwtf · 17/09/2026 11:39

I agree.

I know men lie about such things - our conversation came about due to a friend divorcing after a group went to Amsterdam for a birthday visit. It would be hard for him to lie forever as too many acquaintances know about it.

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MajorSamanthaCarter · 17/09/2026 11:39

No. I've never been asked out by a man who said "by the way I used prostitutes behind my wife's back, is that a problem", though.

DozyCrow · 17/09/2026 11:38

I wouldn't want to date a man who paid for sex for any reason. Too many young women are forced into prostitution and anyone who buys into it is encouraging it.

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