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Bit upset about Parkrun experience today

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TheParkRunPlodder · 05/09/2026 13:50

I want to preface this by saying I love parkrun, the inclusivity, community and encouragement and I suppose that's why this morning has upset me in the way it has!

I'm not new to parkrun but have had a long hiatus due to illness/injury, so in the last few weeks I've been going and walking it. I feel silly for feeling a need to quantify my speed because it shouldn't matter how fast/slow you are but I walk it in around 45 minutes, so I'm not ambling! When I've volunteered as tailwalker some people have finished in up to 1h15 and I've never minded, I'm happy they've come to join in and have either chatted with them as we walk together, or remained at a respectful distance mirroring their pace.

Today there were fewer walkers than usual and I was last from the start, other than two tailwalkers. They were walking so close behind me it felt really aggressive and it was pushing me to go faster (they were walking within 2 - 3ft of me, pretty much on my heels). On a couple of occasions I slowed down a bit and they actually overtook me before dropping back. They definitely knew I was taking part as they had asked me. I had my headphones on so they maybe thought I couldn't hear but they also made comments like 'I NORMALLY walk quite fast' and towards the end 'we're not going to finish in under 45 minutes now' which made me feel bad. At the end we had to actively find the person handing out finish tokens as they were off packing stuff away.

I know I should have said something, but I didn't know how to politely say 'stop walking so close and aggressively behind me' so I didn't.

I know it's volunteers (I have volunteered plenty myself) but would it be inappropriate to raise my experience? I feel I want to give some feedback to stop other people being put off going - if today had been my first time I definitely wouldn't be going again, as I felt so unwelcome.

Any thoughts welcome!

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Betterbeingdead · 05/09/2026 16:00

ShrubLover · 05/09/2026 15:06

Well this thread has put me off ever doing a park run.

Me too.i.had been dithering over wether to try it but I'm probably won't then . I'm.not a fast runner I thought a lot of people walked it but obviously I completely got the wrong end of the stick I thought it was all inclusive everyone's welcome .maybe I should volunteer to be a tailrunner instead .It honestly wouldn't bother me if some people were slow

Thebinisrightthere · 05/09/2026 16:00

Munchie1965 · 05/09/2026 14:12

I would say that 45 minutes is reasonable. Taking say over an hour to get around is unfair on the volunteers.

No it isn't. The tail walkers should expect to finish when the last walker finishes,whenever that might be

Strawberrydelight78 · 05/09/2026 15:58

Munchie1965 · 05/09/2026 14:36

Its not just the tail walkers though is it. Its the whole volunteering team that are impacted. Someone has to record the time, issue the barcode and do the barcode scanning. In addition to marshalling and taking down the funnel etc.

It all depends on what people feel is reasonable.

When I volunteer I want to be finishing up and maybe going for a coffee after an hour or so. Much longer than that and I would reconsider volunteering.

So what if someone has an accident or suddenly collapses? Why bother volunteering if you don’t want to be inconvenienced by a few people who can’t go as fast? It’s not a race it’s for all ages and abilities.

rookiemere · 05/09/2026 15:57

I am a slow parkrunner. Last week one of the volunteers told me to enjoy my walk - readers I was running at the time! So yes I am slow, my fastest was around 35 minutes when I was 20 years younger, but I still enjoy it and it’s amazing cardio plus a wonderful atmosphere.

I had a similar experience to you OP a few weeks ago. I can’t recall which parkrun it was but the tail walkers were a male and female who kept bustling past me - we weren’t even the last 3 so I am not sure what they thought they were doing. I mean there’s a bit of a clue in the job description!

GoingToEgypt · 05/09/2026 15:56

I run it in about 42 and am by no means the last, and all the volunteers are lovely. I’d say something, OP.

UnemployedNotRetired · 05/09/2026 15:54

Today's Cannon Hill (Birmingham) parkun has about 35 finishers in times between 45 and 60 minutes (see www.parkrun.org.uk/cannonhill/results/2026-09-05/ ). Maybe a different parkrun might have better vibes -- though all should be fine with a 45 minute finish.

TheBabyFatmoss · 05/09/2026 15:52

@LividRoastingthis is exactly why I’m scared to go too

Neuronimo · 05/09/2026 15:52

We live pretty near a route and my husband is a regular. The ethos has really changed, with lots of entitlement, people shouting at folk using the path and demanding slower runners get out of the way. I can here a lot of argy bargy just from our home.

I'd email politely if people volunteer, they should have the patience.

Plinketyplonks · 05/09/2026 15:51

ItsOnlyMee1 · 05/09/2026 14:52

Park runs are busy. If you do not like being in proximity then walk alone some place else.

I don't really get why people turn up to walk in a crowd for 5km. It makes sense if you are running to have other people pushing you. But turning up to walk 5km in 45 mins? What's the point?

Edited

That’s a really poor response. For some people it may be their only chance each week to be with other people, part of a community, aiming for the same thing. My mum (in her 80s and widowed) gets huge pleasure out of it, she volunteers to Marshall and sometimes walks (slowly!). So in your view she’d be a waste of time and should walk alone ‘somewhere else’ with no other humans as she’s slow?

moonshinemadness · 05/09/2026 15:50

Munchie1965 · 05/09/2026 14:36

Its not just the tail walkers though is it. Its the whole volunteering team that are impacted. Someone has to record the time, issue the barcode and do the barcode scanning. In addition to marshalling and taking down the funnel etc.

It all depends on what people feel is reasonable.

When I volunteer I want to be finishing up and maybe going for a coffee after an hour or so. Much longer than that and I would reconsider volunteering.

What a horrible attitude - you should leave if you cant bear to stay an extra 15 minutes or so. Do everyone else a favour.

Strawberrydelight78 · 05/09/2026 15:49

Munchie1965 · 05/09/2026 14:12

I would say that 45 minutes is reasonable. Taking say over an hour to get around is unfair on the volunteers.

No It’s not at all when there’s people of all ages and abilities taking part. Most of our local big park is on a hill. It’s not a race it’s about taking part keeping fit and socialising.

Katalica · 05/09/2026 15:48

Munchie1965 · 05/09/2026 14:36

Its not just the tail walkers though is it. Its the whole volunteering team that are impacted. Someone has to record the time, issue the barcode and do the barcode scanning. In addition to marshalling and taking down the funnel etc.

It all depends on what people feel is reasonable.

When I volunteer I want to be finishing up and maybe going for a coffee after an hour or so. Much longer than that and I would reconsider volunteering.

Maybe you should review whether volunteering is for you then?

I’m very glad you obviously don’t volunteer at our parkrun.

Ours is a very scenic trail type parkrun in woods hugging the coastline so we get lots of extra walkers in the summer months ambling along and taking photos en route.

Some people with buggies can struggle with the steps and inclines but everyone is made very welcome and tea/coffee is provided at the end by a small team of happy volunteers.

WearyAuldWumman · 05/09/2026 15:48

I'll add here that I'm trying to get my time down to 50 minutes, so the negative comments about people coming in at more than 45 minutes is a bit dismaying.

Plinketyplonks · 05/09/2026 15:46

My mum in her 80s marshals and walks round sometimes (about every three months) and she’s far slower than you! She’s only ever received huge encouragement so it’s not on they should have pressured you. As you say 45 mins is still a good time (someone jogging/walking for the first time could come in around then). Def email the lead team

WearyAuldWumman · 05/09/2026 15:44

Gwenhwyfar · 05/09/2026 15:33

So it's not actually inclusive?

All I can say is that the volunteers were absolutely lovely when I staggered in at the end on both my runs. (I was the last woman. My coach - God bless him - let me go through the funnel ahead of him. I don't have a personal coach - he coaches complete beginners at the local gym.)

Ireallycantthinkofagoodone · 05/09/2026 15:42

ItsOnlyMee1 · 05/09/2026 14:52

Park runs are busy. If you do not like being in proximity then walk alone some place else.

I don't really get why people turn up to walk in a crowd for 5km. It makes sense if you are running to have other people pushing you. But turning up to walk 5km in 45 mins? What's the point?

Edited

How extraordinarily rude! Parkrun is for everyone, and can be a vital social component of people’s lives, especially if they live alone.

I walk. A lot. At late 70’s I am not up to running, as it would be bad for my joints. So you think I should go elsewhere, so I am not ‘in your way’?

WearyAuldWumman · 05/09/2026 15:39

TheParkRunPlodder · 05/09/2026 15:34

This is an interesting point @WearyAuldWumman as I've always done the same before attending, checking an event's previous results for a few weeks, and an hour is really average for this one! So I was quite shocked about this experience at 45 minutes. I hope it's not what people further behind are experiencing every week. I would assume not or they wouldn't keep going!

Yes. I'm finding the 'under 45 minutes' comments on here quite surprising. I'm in my late 60s. There are regular older runners who got in just in front of me (I was passed by a woman in the 75+ category as we approached the funnel on my second run) and no one at our local Parkrun was complaining about the time that we took.

In fact, the woman who was one place ahead of me on my first Parkrun was a woman in her 30s who was on her 6th run.

The runners and volunteers were all ages, shapes and sizes.

AlphabetBird · 05/09/2026 15:38

I’ve never tail walked in less than an hour, and I would be mortified if anyone felt hurried or like an inconvenience.

Def email and let them know, they do regular park walk pushes so the race directors will definitely have guidance around this stuff.

SulkingInTheCatio · 05/09/2026 15:37

Munchie1965 · 05/09/2026 14:12

I would say that 45 minutes is reasonable. Taking say over an hour to get around is unfair on the volunteers.

It really isn’t. I volunteer at PR including tail walking, I’d say around an hour is average for the last finisher and it’s not unusual for the last time to be around 1hr10. I really don’t think it’s unfair on me or others. Some people are getting into fitness, some people are recovering from injuries.

maisybobbins · 05/09/2026 15:36

Wow 45 minutes is fast for the final participant! An hour or more is the norm at my local one.

definitely worth mentioning.

Raspbellies · 05/09/2026 15:34

And definitely email. Once in a blue moon we get a twatty volunteer that gets me eye-rolling.

TheParkRunPlodder · 05/09/2026 15:34

WearyAuldWumman · 05/09/2026 15:28

I've only done two Parkruns, but my understanding is that they're well out of order.

I took well over 50 minutes when I ran (as best as I could with my age and knees) and no one batted an eyelid.

Before participating, I'd checked out the times on previous runs and it seems normal on that course for the slowest to take over an hour.

This is an interesting point @WearyAuldWumman as I've always done the same before attending, checking an event's previous results for a few weeks, and an hour is really average for this one! So I was quite shocked about this experience at 45 minutes. I hope it's not what people further behind are experiencing every week. I would assume not or they wouldn't keep going!

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Gwenhwyfar · 05/09/2026 15:33

Munchie1965 · 05/09/2026 14:12

I would say that 45 minutes is reasonable. Taking say over an hour to get around is unfair on the volunteers.

So it's not actually inclusive?

WearyAuldWumman · 05/09/2026 15:32

SilenceInside · 05/09/2026 15:10

It makes me less keen too. I wondered if there was some tacit understanding that you had to be below a certain time and it certainly seems that some people think that’s the case.

Luckily for me, I did my two runs with my coach by my side. He was very reassuring and told me not to worry when I fretted about holding people up. (My second time was even slower than the first - was recovering from dental surgery and not feeling quite up to it.)

It turned out that my coach was well known at Parkrun and everyone was very encouraging.

Raspbellies · 05/09/2026 15:32

Munchie1965 · 05/09/2026 14:12

I would say that 45 minutes is reasonable. Taking say over an hour to get around is unfair on the volunteers.

You are wrong. I couldn't care less if someone is a slow walker or recovering from injury. I block out until 11am when I'm volunteering. Although we are always packed up by 10:45 at the latest anyway.

My personal slowest is 1hr 10.

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