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Lindsay Clancy case: was it evil, or severe mental illness?

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KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 16:50

Lindsay Clancy, what do we all think? Pure evil or mentally ill?

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Aluna · Yesterday 14:18

EasternStandard · Yesterday 13:54

Not at all, cases get huge amounts of attention here.

You are convinced it’s a witch hunt, it looks like people are forgetting the victims.

The comparable cases in the U.K. that I know of - mother kills her children during mental health crisis - got nothing like this publicity. The events were reported in the newspaper but there was no media coverage of the trials which were conducted quietly with dignity.

Of course the LL case was a comparable witch hunt, and no-one comes out of that well other than those who said “this is a witch hunt”.

Redheadedstepchild · Yesterday 14:15

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 13:42

Oh I wouldn’t personally donate to it. Perhaps I’d think about donating towards it if the money was going to postpartum depression/psychosis research, but obviously LC’s parents have moved by choice and I don’t think it’s up to others to fund that choice. But that’s just my personal view. People can spend their money how they want.

Up thread I mentioned that Patrick Clancy has started a 501 C3 towards building a specialist unit for, "Perinatal Anxiety and Mood Disorders" in Massachusets.

It's called the Heard Foundation. I'm not completely at ease with that idea either, if you read what I wrote earlier.

I linked to it there but here it is again:

Heard https://share.google/cdx9hKqEfoU9cCC7A

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 14:14

Aluna · Yesterday 13:46

I’ll tell you what is super unhealthy is yet another media witch hunt. The behaviours you complain of seem to be a response to it.

Comparable cases in the U.K. by contrast were carried out quietly and without this media hysteria.

Can you give some examples of this “media witch hunt”?

EasternStandard · Yesterday 13:54

Aluna · Yesterday 13:46

I’ll tell you what is super unhealthy is yet another media witch hunt. The behaviours you complain of seem to be a response to it.

Comparable cases in the U.K. by contrast were carried out quietly and without this media hysteria.

Not at all, cases get huge amounts of attention here.

You are convinced it’s a witch hunt, it looks like people are forgetting the victims.

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 13:48

Aluna · Yesterday 13:41

People can have widely varying degrees of awareness and insight into their condition. And the awareness itself can come and go.

So for example a person could see something they full believe is real at the time, but later realise it may not have been. Or they realise at the time that what they see is not real but still not be able to get rid of the hallucination.

People with OCD and PTSD can experience intrusive thoughts but they can’t either control them or get rid of them. Sometimes compulsive behaviour associated with the thoughts may take over.

Yes, this. As I said earlier, I believe after the birth of my child I had PTSD and extreme sleep deprivation. I experienced an auditory hallucination on a night which I fully believed to be real at the time. I remember hearing the first bit and thinking ‘it’s probably just because I’m half asleep’ (which shows some awareness) and then it said something else and I was like ‘nope, that’s real! It spoke again!’. I had a real visceral reaction to it where I was shaking and sweating.

However, days later, as I gained greater insight, I realised that it was probably just my mind playing tricks on me and I wasn’t as awake as I thought I was.

Awareness can shift even within a singular episode.

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Aluna · Yesterday 13:46

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:24

I mentioned it earlier but I think there is something very strange going on in relation to this case. Some of the reactions (elsewhere, not on this thread) such as the dressing up in pink, the “same Lindsay” TikToks, and the extraordinary sums of money raised are bizarre. I don’t know what or why it is but it seems very unhealthy.

nb To clarify I am not referring to people calmly and rationally arguing that LC is not criminally responsible for murdering her children.

I’ll tell you what is super unhealthy is yet another media witch hunt. The behaviours you complain of seem to be a response to it.

Comparable cases in the U.K. by contrast were carried out quietly and without this media hysteria.

mulberrymilk · Yesterday 13:46

ForCalmScroller · Yesterday 13:07

Typical mumsnet reactions here (not reading 30 pages of hormonal women)
Shes an evil murderer, using PP as an excuse.
Any women who 'sympathise' needs looking at closely by social services!

I'm not in the least hormonal.

I think many posters get their "news" from morons on TikTok.

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 13:42

MissMoneyFairy · Yesterday 13:36

In very poor taste, imagine if every offenders family claimed expenses for visitation

Oh I wouldn’t personally donate to it. Perhaps I’d think about donating towards it if the money was going to postpartum depression/psychosis research, but obviously LC’s parents have moved by choice and I don’t think it’s up to others to fund that choice. But that’s just my personal view. People can spend their money how they want.

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Aluna · Yesterday 13:41

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:13

If you are googling intrusive thoughts and hallucinations then you must be fully aware that they are intrusive thoughts and hallucinations, not reality. If you are aware that this is what they are, why do you have to do what they tell you? And how is it true psychosis if you are able to understand what it is?

People can have widely varying degrees of awareness and insight into their condition. And the awareness itself can come and go.

So for example a person could see something they full believe is real at the time, but later realise it may not have been. Or they realise at the time that what they see is not real but still not be able to get rid of the hallucination.

People with OCD and PTSD can experience intrusive thoughts but they can’t either control them or get rid of them. Sometimes compulsive behaviour associated with the thoughts may take over.

MissMoneyFairy · Yesterday 13:36

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 13:16

The fundraiser is for her parents, not her.

In very poor taste, imagine if every offenders family claimed expenses for visitation

EasternStandard · Yesterday 13:29

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:24

I mentioned it earlier but I think there is something very strange going on in relation to this case. Some of the reactions (elsewhere, not on this thread) such as the dressing up in pink, the “same Lindsay” TikToks, and the extraordinary sums of money raised are bizarre. I don’t know what or why it is but it seems very unhealthy.

nb To clarify I am not referring to people calmly and rationally arguing that LC is not criminally responsible for murdering her children.

Yes I think you’ve made a good point. I don’t mind the actually NGRI discussion, but this part feels like a lot.

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:24

EasternStandard · Yesterday 13:13

Yes. Worse is the conspiracy theories he gets aimed at him.

I don’t get this hyper focus on LC to the exclusion of the dc and father.

I mentioned it earlier but I think there is something very strange going on in relation to this case. Some of the reactions (elsewhere, not on this thread) such as the dressing up in pink, the “same Lindsay” TikToks, and the extraordinary sums of money raised are bizarre. I don’t know what or why it is but it seems very unhealthy.

nb To clarify I am not referring to people calmly and rationally arguing that LC is not criminally responsible for murdering her children.

ForCalmScroller · Yesterday 13:23

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:15

If you bothered to read the thread you’d see that a lot of “hormonal women” believe she is guilty of first degree murder.

At least there are some rational women on here!

KellyK2026 · Yesterday 13:21

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:13

If you are googling intrusive thoughts and hallucinations then you must be fully aware that they are intrusive thoughts and hallucinations, not reality. If you are aware that this is what they are, why do you have to do what they tell you? And how is it true psychosis if you are able to understand what it is?

What you’re describing is Anosognosia - not everyone with psychosis experiences that or will always experience that. Awareness varies by individual and by each individual episode.

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KellyK2026 · Yesterday 13:16

mulberrymilk · Yesterday 12:31

There is a public fundraiser that has already raised 1.2 million US dollars.

"Those who failed her children"... apparently anyone is to blame, but her.

The fundraiser is for her parents, not her.

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CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:15

ForCalmScroller · Yesterday 13:07

Typical mumsnet reactions here (not reading 30 pages of hormonal women)
Shes an evil murderer, using PP as an excuse.
Any women who 'sympathise' needs looking at closely by social services!

If you bothered to read the thread you’d see that a lot of “hormonal women” believe she is guilty of first degree murder.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 13:13

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:10

and their father

Yes. Worse is the conspiracy theories he gets aimed at him.

I don’t get this hyper focus on LC to the exclusion of the dc and father.

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:13

Aluna · Yesterday 13:05

It’s not a fact she was only psychotic for the time she killed her kids.

The fact that she was googling hallucinations and intrusive thoughts indicates they had been present a while.

Some people may experience a single psychotic episode that resolves and doesn’t recur. Others may have recurring episodes where symptoms come and go with clear periods of recovery. Psychosis linked to bipolar can appear during highs or lows and may resolve when the mood stabilises. So if bipolar is treated properly it may keep psychotic symptoms under control.

If you are googling intrusive thoughts and hallucinations then you must be fully aware that they are intrusive thoughts and hallucinations, not reality. If you are aware that this is what they are, why do you have to do what they tell you? And how is it true psychosis if you are able to understand what it is?

Aluna · Yesterday 13:11

EasternStandard · Yesterday 13:08

I mean people seem to over empathise with her torment when what the dc went through is incomprehensible.

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What she went through is incomprehensible too, which is why some people are literally failing to comprehend it.

CloverAndGrass · Yesterday 13:10

EasternStandard · Yesterday 12:59

Possibly but all this talk of torment and hell I feel is aimed at the wrong person / people. It should be words for the dc.

and their father

EasternStandard · Yesterday 13:08

MissMoneyFairy · Yesterday 13:06

I'm not sure I understand what you mean, the children were the main innocent victims here which everyone understands and accepts but she has to live with that as well as being paralysed from a failed suicide attempt

I mean people seem to over empathise with her torment when what the dc went through is incomprehensible.

ForCalmScroller · Yesterday 13:07

Typical mumsnet reactions here (not reading 30 pages of hormonal women)
Shes an evil murderer, using PP as an excuse.
Any women who 'sympathise' needs looking at closely by social services!

MissMoneyFairy · Yesterday 13:06

EasternStandard · Yesterday 12:59

Possibly but all this talk of torment and hell I feel is aimed at the wrong person / people. It should be words for the dc.

I'm not sure I understand what you mean, the children were the main innocent victims here which everyone understands and accepts but she has to live with that as well as being paralysed from a failed suicide attempt

Aluna · Yesterday 13:05

BruachAbhann · Yesterday 12:19

'It seems to me that what you’re saying in this reply is that you haven’t seen conclusive evidence that LC was in psychosis but that MA law does not require this proof, it requires the prosecution to show she was not in psychosis.'

How could they prove that though, how can you prove a negative?
I think the fact that she was apparently only psychotic for the period of time she killed her kids is handy for her! If that was accepted as a get out clause for killing her kids (by being found NGRI), it sets a very dangerous precedent for all future cases. What is to stop anyone claiming that they were psychotic during the crime they committed.

As I've said before upthread and I know you have also @CloverAndGrass, the proof of her insanity seems to be the committing of the crime. It's a circular argument to say that only someone insane would commit such a crime, therefore she has to be guilty by reason of insanity. By that argument, the proof of her innocence is the committing of the crime!

It’s not a fact she was only psychotic for the time she killed her kids.

The fact that she was googling hallucinations and intrusive thoughts indicates they had been present a while.

Some people may experience a single psychotic episode that resolves and doesn’t recur. Others may have recurring episodes where symptoms come and go with clear periods of recovery. Psychosis linked to bipolar can appear during highs or lows and may resolve when the mood stabilises. So if bipolar is treated properly it may keep psychotic symptoms under control.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 12:59

MissMoneyFairy · Yesterday 12:25

If she's found guilty she will be a vulnerable prisoner, if she's in hospital she may be safer, whatever the decision her life is in ruins and she must feel tormented.

Possibly but all this talk of torment and hell I feel is aimed at the wrong person / people. It should be words for the dc.