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Lindsay Clancy case: was it evil, or severe mental illness?

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KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 16:50

Lindsay Clancy, what do we all think? Pure evil or mentally ill?

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SulkingInTheCatio · 04/09/2026 19:03

And it’s disgraceful the way that some people are essentially saying that mental illness is an excuse to murder three innocent children

Thats legally always been the case though? The killer of the two Nottingham students and one local man hasn’t stood trial due to mental illness.

the person who recently threw a kid in a crocodile pit isn’t going to be charged with anything.

SulkingInTheCatio · 04/09/2026 19:01

snackatack · 04/09/2026 18:36

the 1 member refused to accept reasonable doubt was a legal reason to find her not guilty (even though the judge repeatedly said it was)

If you watch the trial - the investigation into the murder, and the 'confession' I think there is limited evidence that she did it or had time to do it, and her confession is mainly based on her ex's say so.

I honestly do wonder if she has been framed.

It’s infuriating. So it appears from what has been said that this juror refuses to follow the law on the point of reasonable doubt. So it seems he has reasonable doubt but still wants to find her guilty. If he followed the law it would be a not guilty verdict.

CapeMylar · 04/09/2026 18:53

And it’s disgraceful the way that some people are essentially saying that mental illness is an excuse to murder three innocent children.

Is anyone actually saying that? There is a defence (not excuse) of insanity. It isn’t available to just anyone and everyone suffering mental illness and the concept of not being responsible for your own actions has a long history.

I’m not up on this particular case to have a view or know how the law differs in Massachusetts, but if this trial ends in a not guilty verdict it is not a judgement on all women with post-partum MH problems or mental illness in general or a green light for anyone with a mental health condition to commit criminal acts.

HoChiMince · 04/09/2026 18:36

The Victorians (the actual VICTORIANS!) were more compassionate to women who killed their children when suffering from what they called “post puerperal insanity” than we are. Psychosis means ”separation from reality”, it doesn’t mean “ranting and raving incoherently”. The fact that many women have frightening thoughts but don’t act on them doesn’t mean that any women who do are evil murderers in the sense people generally mean.

snackatack · 04/09/2026 18:36

paomara · 04/09/2026 18:26

Well the trial has collapsed as the jury could not agree, so it's not just observers who are not sure. One juror refused to go along with the other 11 apparently, but we don't know if the 11 found her G or NG.

Anyhow I believe she was very ill. Planning this was not impossible in the throes of psychosis.

There was a case in Ireland recently where the mother, also a nurse killed her three children. She was found not guilty but insane and is being held in secure psychiatric prison/hospital. It was a horribly similar case.

www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-57190882

the 1 member refused to accept reasonable doubt was a legal reason to find her not guilty (even though the judge repeatedly said it was)

If you watch the trial - the investigation into the murder, and the 'confession' I think there is limited evidence that she did it or had time to do it, and her confession is mainly based on her ex's say so.

I honestly do wonder if she has been framed.

NeverLookInTheMirror · 04/09/2026 18:28

Pure evil.

And it’s disgraceful the way that some people are essentially saying that mental illness is an excuse to murder three innocent children.

Those children have been totally disrespected by it being suggested that this is anything but murder and by those who are shouting down anyone who dares to suggest that it wasn’t.

There was a poster on another thread who was told that she should have more empathy as she had had PND, the implication being that anyone with PND is capable of murder when we know full well that’s not true.

If anything anyone with PND would have less empathy as they have never considered murdering their children.

As for the “you’ve never seen anyone in psychosis” line, so what people are saying here then is that anyone can act totally normally, commit a murder, claim psychosis and we should believe them because there are no signs?

Let’s be honest here, nobody who murders three children is mentally normal. Nobody who murders anyone is mentally normal. But you can be mentally abnormal while still capable of making clear decisions and carrying out your actions and knowing full well what you’re doing.

paomara · 04/09/2026 18:26

Well the trial has collapsed as the jury could not agree, so it's not just observers who are not sure. One juror refused to go along with the other 11 apparently, but we don't know if the 11 found her G or NG.

Anyhow I believe she was very ill. Planning this was not impossible in the throes of psychosis.

There was a case in Ireland recently where the mother, also a nurse killed her three children. She was found not guilty but insane and is being held in secure psychiatric prison/hospital. It was a horribly similar case.

www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-57190882

Viviennemary · 04/09/2026 18:24

I think she is guilty of manslaughter at least. Three innocent children lost their lives because of her. And in a horrific way.

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:20

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 18:05

I don’t believe that to be true. As I said, my symptoms were no where near as severe as Lindsay Clancy’s and they resolved on their own without medical intervention. Unlike her, I had no feeling of wanting to harm my child (which she admitted to and also expressed to medical professionals prior to committing the act). She literally asked to be institutionalised. I think if people think that all mothers experiencing mental health issues are the same that than speaks more about their lack of knowledge around the complexities of mental health.

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She recorded in her diary about not being able to sleep and her ex husband reported seeing her sat on the sofa rocking back and forth with a pillow over her head

You said this as if it was partial evidence that she was so unwell as to not be responsible for murdering her children. It isn’t. People can display a lot worse symptoms than this and still be responsible for their actions.

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:17

ModernV · 04/09/2026 18:05

I think it can be both. I don't doubt she had mental illness but I'm not convinced that's the reason for her actions. Millions of people suffer mental illnesses but we're not all out there killing children.

Indeed.

Marycontrarygarden · 04/09/2026 18:15

bigboykitty · 04/09/2026 17:09

Ask Patrick...

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CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:14

Sewingbeedamned · 04/09/2026 17:59

What is your assertion of her mental state before and after? Were you there? Did you assess her? Unless you were, you cannot possibly comment on whether she was psychotic or not. As far as I can see she was not assessed properly - certainly not before, and I havent seen anything to show she was assessed after either. You are clearly very ignorant about psychosis.

Like everyone else on this thread, no, I wasn’t there and I am basing my opinions on what I have read about the case and trial.

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 18:12

CatMouseandmaybeDog · 04/09/2026 18:08

I don’t think she was let down by doctors, she had access to a lot of medical professionals and medication. I was trying to imagine the same scenario with the NHS, having to fill in a econsult then having to wait up to 48h for a phone call that might or might not offer you a face-to-face consultation…

But she did report to a medical professional that one of the drugs she was taking was making her worse and, instead of listening to her, the doctor upped her dosage of it. Her ex husband attested to that and said that she didn’t not want to be on medication, but she wanted to be on a medication that worked for her. No NHS doctor would put someone on that amount of mental health medication without close supervision. But I think this trial has also spoken about the lack of care of Big Pharma as they make a lot of money from people being on drugs and, in the US health system, the doctors financially benefit from prescribing it.

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CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:11

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 17:42

She fully admits to killing her children BUT legally a person cannot be found guilty of murder if they were in a state of psychosis when the killings happened. That’s why I think people need to put their own personal opinions aside and just focus on objective and legal fact. If you believe that she was mentally unwell she isn’t guilty of murder.

If you believe that she was mentally unwell she isn’t guilty of murder.

This is not factually correct. You can be mentally unwell and still guilty of murder. I have depression, currently well controlled. If I had murdered someone whilst unwell that would still be murder, and not automatically not just because I was mentally unwell. The test for not guilty of murder by reason of insanity is more complicated than you are suggesting.

Sewingbeedamned · 04/09/2026 18:10

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 18:05

I don’t believe that to be true. As I said, my symptoms were no where near as severe as Lindsay Clancy’s and they resolved on their own without medical intervention. Unlike her, I had no feeling of wanting to harm my child (which she admitted to and also expressed to medical professionals prior to committing the act). She literally asked to be institutionalised. I think if people think that all mothers experiencing mental health issues are the same that than speaks more about their lack of knowledge around the complexities of mental health.

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Absolutely spot on - a lot of ignorance on this thread. The fact she had the insight to recognize something was wrong is heartbreaking for those children, her and her whole family. We know womens health is often poorly served and what they say about their health is often dismissed - this is another example of this, albeit one which where that kind of misogyny had catastrophic results.

FergussSingsTheBlues · 04/09/2026 18:09

I struggle with the fact that it was definitely planned.

CatMouseandmaybeDog · 04/09/2026 18:08

I don’t think she was let down by doctors, she had access to a lot of medical professionals and medication. I was trying to imagine the same scenario with the NHS, having to fill in a econsult then having to wait up to 48h for a phone call that might or might not offer you a face-to-face consultation…

Becuriousnotjudgemental1980 · 04/09/2026 18:08

What I find odd is that people are so nasty about her husband remarrying. It happened 3 years ago is he not allowed to move on and find some peace? I know there are a lot of people that say he did it. I don’t believe that. I think she’s a very sick woman who masked how she was truly feeling. They have just declared a mistrial haven’t they so she’ll have to go through another trial. I think she’ll just end up in an institution for the rest of her life.

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 18:05

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:02

Thousands of women have these symptoms and worse. They are not diagnostic of being so psychotic you are not responsible if you kill your children. There’s a bit of a danger here of implying that all women with mental illness are a danger to their children.

I don’t believe that to be true. As I said, my symptoms were no where near as severe as Lindsay Clancy’s and they resolved on their own without medical intervention. Unlike her, I had no feeling of wanting to harm my child (which she admitted to and also expressed to medical professionals prior to committing the act). She literally asked to be institutionalised. I think if people think that all mothers experiencing mental health issues are the same that than speaks more about their lack of knowledge around the complexities of mental health.

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ModernV · 04/09/2026 18:05

I think it can be both. I don't doubt she had mental illness but I'm not convinced that's the reason for her actions. Millions of people suffer mental illnesses but we're not all out there killing children.

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:05

Totaldramallama · 04/09/2026 17:31

Well obviously not evil. No one has three kids, spends years raising them then suddenly turns evil and kills them.

So nobody who kills their children should ever be prosecuted for murder? Or people who kill one or two children can be justifiably prosecuted for murder, but not if they kill three? I’m not sure what point you’re making.

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 18:02

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 17:28

I feel absolutely horrible for the children but I think she wasn’t mentally with it. The fact that she was put on 13 different types of drugs prior to the killings, had asked multiple professionals for help, and that even her in-laws and ex husband said that she was mentally unwell speaks volumes. She recorded in her diary about not being able to sleep and her ex husband reported seeing her sat on the sofa rocking back and forth with a pillow over her head. That’s not normal. And neither is slitting your wrists, trying to slit your throat and jump out of a window. My concern is, that if she is found guilty, more children and women will suffer as postpartum psychosis will not be taken seriously.

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Thousands of women have these symptoms and worse. They are not diagnostic of being so psychotic you are not responsible if you kill your children. There’s a bit of a danger here of implying that all women with mental illness are a danger to their children.

ThunderThunderThunderThunderCats · 04/09/2026 18:01

She was mentally ill, she was literally begging for help! Kept being put on increased medication. Tried being admitted to a specialist post partum mental health unit and was turned away. Tried ringing a suicide hotline and was turned away because she didn’t have a specific plan, TWICE! Saw numerous health professionals who just kept prescribing medication. Medication it turns out she shouldn’t have been prescribed because she has now been diagnosed with Bipolar and the benzos and SSRIs increased the likelihood of her becoming manic. She told each mental health professional she was suicidal. She told both her mum and Patrick she was scared she’d harm the children. I’m failing to see what else the poor woman could have done!

She begged her parents to stay with her, which they did. She climbed into bed with her mum because she was afraid of being alone with her thoughts. Her husband tried to get her help, her mum tried to get her help, her MIL tried to get her help.

The prosecution for 1st degree murder feels like a witch hunt. Massachusetts doesn’t have the best reputation for treating women well, does it?

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 18:01

Shellityhorn · 04/09/2026 17:50

No one is talking about them because there's no doubt that she killed them. That appalling fact is not up for debate. The kernel of the trial is whether she was sane or insane when she killed them, and hence whether she's guilty of murder or not. Hence the focus is on her state of mind, not her victims.

I believe I had postnatal psychosis after DS was born, but I hid it so well, that not only did no one else realise, but I didn't really realise myself until much later. I remember the shadows on the floor were talking to me and telling me to do things -- fortunately, none of the things were murderous towards my baby. I appeared in full possession of my senses to DH, visitors, HV, GP, NCT people etc.

This. I remember after having my child (which was an emergency c-section after a long labour) I didn’t sleep for 3 nights after surgery because my DH wasn’t allowed to stay and my baby was cluster feeding at my breast. I remember hallucinating on the last night and I thought I saw a midwife that wasn’t there. I ended up shining my phone light in my eyes just to try and stay awake so that I didn’t drop my baby. I think as well as extreme sleep deprivation I also suffered from PTSD after my section as there were many nights afterwards where I experienced sleep paralysis and heard voices. I remember one night I woke up and I swore I heard someone say ‘aww baby, baby’ and I was struck with fear and shook my husband awake and said to turn the light on so I could check that the baby was ok as I thought someone was in the room. I believed it was real and I was too scared for my baby to be in that room without me being there. It was terrifying. But I was totally functional during the day so nobody would’ve known. I don’t believe it was postpartum psychosis but I do believe it was the result of PTSD and sleep deprivation and that was scary enough.

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Sewingbeedamned · 04/09/2026 17:59

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 17:57

That the question though, isn’t it? Was she in the throes of psychosis? She certainly wasn’t before, or after. So what’s the evidence she was when she murdered her children? That she murdered her children? It’s all very circular reasoning. That she said so? Well, she would, wouldn’t she?

What is your assertion of her mental state before and after? Were you there? Did you assess her? Unless you were, you cannot possibly comment on whether she was psychotic or not. As far as I can see she was not assessed properly - certainly not before, and I havent seen anything to show she was assessed after either. You are clearly very ignorant about psychosis.