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Lindsay Clancy case: was it evil, or severe mental illness?

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KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 16:50

Lindsay Clancy, what do we all think? Pure evil or mentally ill?

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dustabsorber · 04/09/2026 23:20

So she only knows she did it because her husband told her. I don't buy that.

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 23:16

BruachAbhann · 04/09/2026 23:14

Exactly this! It's really disturbing to see some of the reactions and strange to see such polarised reactions from men and women, with a lot of women supporting LC.
I think the crime is so horrific and goes against every instinct as a woman and mother, that some people can only contemplate another mother doing this if they are mentally ill. It doesn't seem clear cut to me at all. There is a distinct possibility she knew what she was doing.

There is something deeper going on in society alright and I don't know what it is.

I suppose there’s always been speculation around awful crimes but SM compounds it, and gives people more space and time to cement various theories.

BeethovenNinth · 04/09/2026 23:14

It’s so sad. Totally let down by professionals and clearly unwell. She will already be punished the rest of her life by having to live with what she did. We have to do better with mental illness / for everyone’s sake

BruachAbhann · 04/09/2026 23:14

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 22:11

Posts like this are indicative that something very strange is going on in relation to these murders. I have heard it described as Karmelo Anthony for white women and I can see why. For anyone who hasn’t heard of KA, he is a young black man in the US who murdered a white young man and, despite it being a pretty open and shut conviction, received huge support from many, mainly black, people, with huge sums raised and so on).

I am not comparing people wildly claiming that LC did not kill her children and/or that her exh did to those saying she should not be found guilty of first degree murder. Obviously these approaches are worlds apart. But I do think everyone should consider the extreme responses this case has raised - women dressing up in pink to stand outside the courthouse, the huge sums raised, the TikTok videos of women holding their babIes saying “Same, Lindsay”, the grinning and winking woman journalist etc etc - and should ask what on earth is going on to cause this.

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Exactly this! It's really disturbing to see some of the reactions and strange to see such polarised reactions from men and women, with a lot of women supporting LC.
I think the crime is so horrific and goes against every instinct as a woman and mother, that some people can only contemplate another mother doing this if they are mentally ill. It doesn't seem clear cut to me at all. There is a distinct possibility she knew what she was doing.

There is something deeper going on in society alright and I don't know what it is.

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 23:12

Missj25 · 04/09/2026 23:10

WTF are you on about ???

Have you been reading this thread? You’re about to be attacked for even suggesting Patrick had more to do with it than initially suggested.
im agreeing with you. Read the other posters

Conundrummum123 · 04/09/2026 23:11

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 23:07

Women so rarely kill and especially their children

This is incorrect. Whilst women commit a very small proportion of killings overall, women kill their own children at roughly the same rate as men.

No it is correct, 95% of family killings are done by men

Missj25 · 04/09/2026 23:10

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 23:06

And yet you have the red pills insulting women and defending Patrick…. You couldn’t make it up

WTF are you on about ???

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 23:09

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 23:08

It still doesn’t stack up. What you’ve put about negligence isn’t correct.

  • The CPS says there must be an existing duty of care, a breach, a reasonably foreseeable serious and obvious risk of death, causation, and conduct so bad that it amounts to a criminal act/omission.
  • have you seen the drugs she was on?!!!
snackatack · 04/09/2026 23:08

KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 20:43

But I think that is what people aren’t understanding. She has already been found guilty of killing her children, that’s not up for debate. The question is whether she is guilty of murder, in which case she will spend her life in prison, OR will she be found guilty of killing but not murder due to mental health, in which case she will spend her life in a mental institute. No way is she wanting to or can get out of it. The question is where she will be spending her time. In a place with people like Watts or in a place where she can receive help.

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But she has not been found guilty - they have to find her guilty then - decide if she was insane or not

the evidence gathered brings serious doubt to her guilt. There is too much her 'ex' said' - her ex said she admitted to the crime - but physically she was in no state to admit anything

Yes she confessed, when she came round, but there are lots of cases where vulnerable people believe they have committed a crime when they have not .. she was 'told' she done it - her account of the night - does not match the crime scene.

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 23:08

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 23:05

Im not posting incorrect stuff. I never said it was the law I said it was my speculation of how it would be interpreted. Good grief! I’m a British lawyer not an American one. Fucking hell

It still doesn’t stack up. What you’ve put about negligence isn’t correct.

CloverAndGrass · 04/09/2026 23:07

Conundrummum123 · 04/09/2026 22:26

Women so rarely kill and especially their children that is almost unfathomable to us that a women, let along a mother could. It’s part of the myth or the precarious pedestal of motherhood

I fear the endless hunting to prove the man did it, might make us feel better but it misses the point and it might mean that we a society desperately miss the lesson on maternal expectations and mental health that this case must teach us.

Women so rarely kill and especially their children

This is incorrect. Whilst women commit a very small proportion of killings overall, women kill their own children at roughly the same rate as men.

moggiek · 04/09/2026 23:06

Londonmummy66 · 04/09/2026 17:13

Clearly never seen anyone in the throes of psychosis then.

This 💯

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 23:06

Missj25 · 04/09/2026 23:04

There’s a lot more going on there with that husband of hers .
She keeps saying she did it because Patrick told her she did.
Patrick, who went on holidays 19 days after his children were killed , was in a relationship less than a year later .
Her DNA was never found on those exercise bands only his was .

And yet you have the red pills insulting women and defending Patrick…. You couldn’t make it up

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 23:05

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 23:03

That’s not the law. I’m not sure why you’re posting incorrect stuff.

Im not posting incorrect stuff. I never said it was the law I said it was my speculation of how it would be interpreted. Good grief! I’m a British lawyer not an American one. Fucking hell

Missj25 · 04/09/2026 23:04

There’s a lot more going on there with that husband of hers .
She keeps saying she did it because Patrick told her she did.
Patrick, who went on holidays 19 days after his children were killed , was in a relationship less than a year later .
Her DNA was never found on those exercise bands only his was .

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 23:03

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 23:00

I don’t need facts to speculate, I’m telling you now if Patricia Clancy behaved like Patrick the public would be baying for blood.
i think he should be done for negligent homicide regardless of whether she expressed harm to the kids. She could have dropped 8 month year old the drugs she was on and then what? It’s not acceptable

That’s not the law. I’m not sure why you’re posting incorrect stuff.

Moros · 04/09/2026 23:03

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Somanyrabbitholes · 04/09/2026 23:02

4timesthefun · 04/09/2026 22:25

He actually did apply to have the questions separated in the trial - so they could address the question of whether she actually did it FIRST and then, if found to have committed the acts beyond reasonable doubt, the question around insanity would be raised. His motion was denied and they were covered within the same trial, so he had to walk the line of both highlighting reasonable doubt she committed the acts (which it looks like he had a 91% success rate with) AND the insanity defence. So yes, it was possibly a better defence and one he wanted to run separately based on HIS application to separate the issues.

I've been wondering about this and what difference it would have made if he had been able to do that?
Also, I think after this was denied he then said Lindsay was willing to admit to her part in the underlying conduct that caused the death of the children.
Which to me doesn't sound like an admission of guilt more that her behaviour was a contributory factor? I may be completely wrong.

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 23:01

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vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 23:00

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 22:58

You do need to know the facts before posting as below, otherwise it’s just spreading incorrect information.

I don’t need facts to speculate, I’m telling you now if Patricia Clancy behaved like Patrick the public would be baying for blood.
i think he should be done for negligent homicide regardless of whether she expressed harm to the kids. She could have dropped 8 month year old the drugs she was on and then what? It’s not acceptable

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 22:58

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 22:54

I will wait for someone with the facts to answer this, because I’m genuinely not sure. However, women all the time get done for not leaving partners when there is dv and endangering kids so this isn’t a stretch

You do need to know the facts before posting as below, otherwise it’s just spreading incorrect information.

Moros · 04/09/2026 22:58

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vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 22:57

Moros · 04/09/2026 22:55

Piss-poor attempt at a deflection. You said "No one is trying to say the man did it". I showed, with examples, of people on this very thread who were saying that the man did it. I think your tinfoil hat must be on a bit tight as you're losing the ability to follow a conversation.

It’s not deflection, you just need English lessons because it looked like you were saying I said it.
i don’t want to engage with you. You’re an aggressive mra and this is Mumsnet, not an Andrew Tate board

Moros · 04/09/2026 22:55

Piss-poor attempt at a deflection. You said "No one is trying to say the man did it". I showed, with examples, of people on this very thread who were saying that the man did it. I think your tinfoil hat must be on a bit tight as you're losing the ability to follow a conversation.

vinhoepimenta · 04/09/2026 22:54

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 22:51

What you posted earlier depends on whether the person told the other parent that they will be violent towards the dc. Did that happen?

I will wait for someone with the facts to answer this, because I’m genuinely not sure. However, women all the time get done for not leaving partners when there is dv and endangering kids so this isn’t a stretch