My DD is 5 and I have always had the feeling there is ‘something else’ going on, but after 5 years I still don’t know what it is/how to help her.
These are the things I notice which seem different to her peers:
She lacks ‘staying power’ and is often exhausted by being out for just a few hours. Sleeps generally well but still chews a comforter to get to sleep.
Very strong willed and tries to direct us a lot.
Struggles with emotional regulation. Can be quite sensible/reasonable but can absolutely flip out when tired/hungry/needs a wee. Struggles to recognise own internal cues eg hungry/need a wee. Often gets angry instead of sad. Used to hit me a lot but now mainly just screams/seems to lose control.
Struggles with transitions eg end of school day, pick up from holiday club etc.
Easily overwhelmed by noisy/busy places. Hates hand-dryers, struggles with family theatre shows etc or kids discos.
Very articulate and can be quite pedantic/corrects adults etc.
Finds it hard to play independently but then can sometimes hyper focus on something for 30 mins plus on her own terms (quite rarely).
Very sensitive to sugar and tv.
Does anyone else have a child like this? I keep wondering about ASD but then also wonder if it’s more of a sleep issue that’s having a knock on effect? She’s also very clever, funny and creative and has many other lovely qualities. Just find it hard seeing her struggle with things many other children take in their stride. Any advice/thoughts welcome!