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To ask has anyone got an EHCP in the Independant sector? Mainstream

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GetMeOutOfHere20 · 13/06/2025 07:14

My child is autistic, with sensory and auditory issues. She is making academic progress in her Independant school, but this is taking a huge amount of scaffolding at home. A specialist school would not be right for her.

I need to get an OT report and a SALT report. I’m in the process of getting an EP report. All privately - it’s costing a fortune.

I got rejected for an EHCP, the school said she’s making progress to the council. I did such a good application but I knew I’d be rejected. What now? Can anyone help. Her main needs are sensory, mental health, auditory processing and anxiety.

I don’t know what to do next.

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RedGreenBlackGrey · 15/06/2025 19:01

To help me to understand the process I managed to get a free place on a one day IPSEA course.SOS SEN are highly regarded and they have a recorded webinar on refusal to assess/refusal to appeal you can purchase for £10, it’s the June 2025 recording

https://sossen.org.uk/services/webinars/

Webinars

https://sossen.org.uk/services/webinars/

perpetualplatespinning · 15/06/2025 18:41

The threshold for an EHCNA is relatively low. You only have to DD a) has or may have SEN, and b) may need special educational provision to be made via an EHCP. Any other test is unlawful.

Start collating your evidence. Submit a SAR to the school and any other service/professional involved. You don’t always for a refusal to assess, but consider if you need independent assessments - if you do but can’t afford them, there are charities e.g. Parents in Need who can help.

GetMeOutOfHere20 · 15/06/2025 18:38

refusal ti assesses. I think it’s the admin. It’s just overwhelming. I did such a great job on the form. It was brilliant. I’m so frustrated.

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perpetualplatespinning · 15/06/2025 18:36

Take a breath. You can do this.

Was it refusal to assess or refusal to issue?

GetMeOutOfHere20 · 15/06/2025 17:01

You see all of this is just over my head.

im not even sure I understand what an EHCP can do.

she is academically achieving. However with a huge amount of anxiety and management of this at home. A private OT who was recommended but is sadly retiring who has a huge amount of expertise said there js a lot we can do tk support with an OT support. A SALT is also needed the school like tk think they are thinking about the holistic child but only to the extent that the round peg round hole child stays round, it feels like a lot of lip service BUT my DD does seem happier at school BUT she is so so so hard on hersled

ive been rejected for an EHCP. That’s where it stands the rest I do not understand and it all feels very very complicated.

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Needlenardlenoo · 15/06/2025 09:26

I think it's a big problem doing remote with people you've never met before. Most unlikely to resolve anything satisfactorily.

We just did an annual review online but it was OK as I know the SENCO reasonably well.

perpetualplatespinning · 15/06/2025 08:36

Not partaking in mediation does not mean you can’t show you are serious about resolving the situation quickly or that you don’t have an early chance to show you understand the law, will advocate for DC and enforce their rights. You can still do those things even if you get the certificate and submit straight to SENDIST.

@Needlenardlenoo mediation is not usually F2F now.

Needlenardlenoo · 15/06/2025 07:41

My husband's view (which I thought was reasonable) was "we think she needs assessment and they don't - what is there to mediate about?" I'd spent about three years and thousands of our savings at that point trying to get our family out of crisis. I didn't want to sit in a room with uncaring people (if that's even what happens - perhaps mediation is a Teams call?) being told there wasn't a problem.

The tribunal waits have got longer though. I put the appeal in, in the November and we had a decision in early April, so it didn't seem too bad.

RedGreenBlackGrey · 15/06/2025 07:14

When we decided between mediation and tribunal, we thought about the message we wanted to send to the council. Opting for mediation shows we're serious about resolving things quickly - our child's education can't wait for months of court delays.
It also gave us an early chance to show we know our rights and will not be taken advantage of. Councils often drag their feet, so we:

• Applied for mediation straight away
• Sent a polite but firm email reminding them of their 30-day legal duty
• CC'd the Director of Children's Services and our case managers line manager to keep things moving

Just to clarify - the council won't see this as just about SALT and OT support. Unless there's an unusual cost-sharing agreement, they're responsible for all educational costs (whether state or independent) and must ensure recommended support happens. They've got everything to lose and nothing to gain by approving an EHCP - which is why they often resist.

perpetualplatespinning · 14/06/2025 16:59

Personally, I don’t bother with mediation. If the LA is going to concede, they will do so regardless of whether you actively partake in mediation or not.

Needlenardlenoo · 14/06/2025 15:33

Forget mediation. It's just a delaying tactic.

GetMeOutOfHere20 · 14/06/2025 13:37

It’s one of a million things going on but very important I get it right, it’s a minefield and unfairly so. I just want OT and SALT support the school cannot give.

i will look at ipsea - what do people think Mediation or not?

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perpetualplatespinning · 14/06/2025 13:31

has to take place within 30 days

Mediation should happen within 30 days, but it doesn’t always. Sometimes the LA say they can’t attend within 30 days, which means the mediation service has to issue a certificate anyway, but mediation can still happen after the 30 days.

RedGreenBlackGrey · 14/06/2025 12:01

GetMeOutOfHere20 · 14/06/2025 08:05

Can anyone recommend a solicitor for me to talk to for free?

You might be able to organise a free 30 minute consultation with Irwin Mitchell, Geldards, or HCB. We chose mediation over tribunal as mediation has to take place within 30 days, a tribunal appeal will take significantly longer

perpetualplatespinning · 14/06/2025 11:04

EHCPs are about more than academic ability. You can get EHCPs even if the school doesn’t think it is necessary. They can also be secured even if needs are being met currently - e.g. by a school providing more support than is typical without an EHCP.

You don’t need a solicitor. However, if you want one, some examples of firms who can help with SENDIST appeals are Watkins, Simpson Millar, HCB solicitors and Sinclairs. Firms won’t give detailed advice for free. If you want free advice, have a look at IPSEA and SOSSEN.

GetMeOutOfHere20 · 14/06/2025 10:58

Sorry i said it’s taking a huge amount of scaffolding at home I got that wrong !!

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GetMeOutOfHere20 · 14/06/2025 10:57

Thank you! Yes I think I will decline mediation - the problem in some ways is the school! Cos they’re saying she’s making academic progress. BUT at the expense of immense scaffolding hence needing the OT and SALT support.

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Needlenardlenoo · 14/06/2025 08:15

You need to decline mediation and do a tribunal appeal against refuse to assess. You do not need a solicitor yourself, just time and patience. All the info you need is on the IPSEA website.

Needlenardlenoo · 14/06/2025 08:13

My DD got her EHCP in June of year 6 in a private primary (we paid all the school fees though). We applied in October of year 5. It was clear to me that the LA didn't want to deal with a private school, but whatever, children are children and their rights under law don't suddenly vanish because they're not at a state school.

GetMeOutOfHere20 · 14/06/2025 08:05

Can anyone recommend a solicitor for me to talk to for free?

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GetMeOutOfHere20 · 13/06/2025 22:12

Thank you so much. I need to work this out I will message you @perpetualplatespinningthank you.

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RedGreenBlackGrey · 13/06/2025 13:11

OP we're going through this at the minute. Council's tend to refuse to assess as it results in a lot of people withdrawing from the process.

We immediately applied for mediation and have this next week. I've been advised most councils concede at this point, especially if you have relevant evidence e.g diagnostic reports.

Arrange a free consultation with a solicitor, we've found this to be invaluable.

The solicitors advice was as long as there's less than 10k cost difference between each setting the council will pay for the independent school - although they are likely to try and push back in the first instance.

If you have evidence that the independent school is a disability need, for example, due to a need for a low arousal environment and small class sizes, this strengths your case and would help you to secure the placement if there is more than 10k difference. You may need an Ed Psych to visit each setting and set out their recommendations

The advice and template letters on this website are invaluable - https://www.ipsea.org.uk

(IPSEA) Independent Provider of Special Education Advice

IPSEA (Independent Provider of Special Education Advice) - helping children and young people with special educational needs and/or disabilities (SEND) get the education they are entitled to by law

https://www.ipsea.org.uk/

perpetualplatespinning · 13/06/2025 12:04

Of course you can message.

SALT and OT can also be included in an EHCP. Again, it often takes an appeal, I’m afraid.

The law is the same regardless of whether the child is attending a state school, an independent school or no school.

CatkinToadflax · 13/06/2025 11:59

That your child got before joining the private system?

He did, yes. Other children received EHCPs whilst already at the school though.

Abouttoscarper · 13/06/2025 11:50

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