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Punchbag- good or bad?

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surreygirl1987 · 07/12/2024 21:58

My son is autistic and has ADHD. He occasionally lashes out at school. It is rare but he does hit his peers, on average around once a half term. He is in Year 1.

He is impulsive and gets angry easily. We're trying to think of strategies to help him manage this. Someone has suggested a punching bag at home might help, for him to use as a release for emotions. However, I'm concerned that this could have the opposite effect - that it will teach him to use his fists when he is upset or angry / somehow train him to punch people as he will get used to it. We did try him on judo but he didn't enjoy it and we didn't force him to continue.

Can anyone advise? Would a punchbag be a good or bad thing for him? Thanks so much.

PS grateful for any alternative ideas we can try at home. We've considered diet (he was low in iron, so he has supplements, plus other supplements/vitamins), he does a kids' journal before bed each evening, gets plenty of sleep, plenty of exercise (and we've just decided we'll take him out for a few minutes run around the field next to our house each morning which might help set him up for the day), very little screen time, firm consequences and reward system, and we're going to trial ADHD medication soon. If there's anything else we can try from home (school is a whole other matter and would need a whole different thread - he has an EHCP) we'd be grateful.

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surreygirl1987 · 09/12/2024 17:12

Sorry, what is SIOT? I googled it and it's coming up with all sorts of things!

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BrightYellowTrain · 08/12/2024 20:59

What about direct SIOT input?

surreygirl1987 · 08/12/2024 18:55

BrightYellowTrain · 08/12/2024 10:40

For us, a punch bag helps with regulation. You could also look at a weighted vest, bodysok, resistance bands, swing, trampoline.

Does DS’s EHCP include sensory OT? And any other support with emotional regulation?

Yes... supposed to be seeing an ELSA and also doing 'heavy work' as breaks. I need to follow up with the school to check that everything on his EHCP is being done, but that's a different thread! Thank you.

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TramyMcTramFace · 08/12/2024 18:35

We have boxing gloves and pads and we can make it into game. When he was small he didn’t need to wear the gloves, but now he’s a bit bigger we need him to wear the gloves or it hurts. He’s quite a peaceable creature generally though, and I don’t think ever hit at school (just us at home when he was overwhelmed from school). I think I would have the similar concerns to you if he had used his fists on other kids. We just presented it as another activity that might help him feel better and I don’t think he ever used language that worried me. Usually he was in fits of giggles when using the pads as we’d move them about when he wasn’t expecting it or make him punch in funny directions.

BrightYellowTrain · 08/12/2024 10:40

For us, a punch bag helps with regulation. You could also look at a weighted vest, bodysok, resistance bands, swing, trampoline.

Does DS’s EHCP include sensory OT? And any other support with emotional regulation?