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Why so much hate on MN?

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Oncetwicethreetimesmore · 21/09/2026 18:44

@MNHQ
Why so much hate on MN?
Posters hiding behind complaints about the government, presenting themselves as reasonable actors, to push hate about asylum seekers, people with disabilities, benefit claimants..Mostly the same names all day everyday.
I am told to report - MN just not interested.
I am told to hide the thread..
Why isn't moderation better?
I know this will always exist and exists on other platforms but MN makes no effort to even try to anything about it.
You can't really sell MN as a caring, supportive site with all this stuff offered on a daily basis in active.

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myjamisbetterthanyours · 21/09/2026 22:45

TemperanceWest · 21/09/2026 22:44

Yes I am sure it is.😀

Recognise anyone who fits the description?

TemperanceWest · 21/09/2026 22:44

myjamisbetterthanyours · 21/09/2026 22:43

Funny you are responding to my post!
😄

Yes I am sure it is.😀

placemats · 21/09/2026 22:43

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:48

It helps when jokes are funny.

Funny peculiar?

myjamisbetterthanyours · 21/09/2026 22:43

TemperanceWest · 21/09/2026 22:39

Well report those threads and posts as orhestrating pile-ons probably wouldn't go down too well with mnhq.

They seem to be OK with this thread though, so that is good.

To pp - I think mentioning that bots and trolls exist on SM is fine, because they do. Even here on MN. In what sort of numbers is the debatable part

Funny you are responding to my post!
😄

TemperanceWest · 21/09/2026 22:39

myjamisbetterthanyours · 21/09/2026 22:32

On what threads?

Because there are some threads out there where some posters do nothing but breathlessly run in with gossip about who wrote what and on what other thread, whipping up hate and pile ups?

Well report those threads and posts as orhestrating pile-ons probably wouldn't go down too well with mnhq.

They seem to be OK with this thread though, so that is good.

To pp - I think mentioning that bots and trolls exist on SM is fine, because they do. Even here on MN. In what sort of numbers is the debatable part

Nanechange3000 · 21/09/2026 22:38

Oncetwicethreetimesmore · 21/09/2026 18:44

@MNHQ
Why so much hate on MN?
Posters hiding behind complaints about the government, presenting themselves as reasonable actors, to push hate about asylum seekers, people with disabilities, benefit claimants..Mostly the same names all day everyday.
I am told to report - MN just not interested.
I am told to hide the thread..
Why isn't moderation better?
I know this will always exist and exists on other platforms but MN makes no effort to even try to anything about it.
You can't really sell MN as a caring, supportive site with all this stuff offered on a daily basis in active.

I thought it had got a little better to be honest. I get attacked less than I used to. And no its not difference of opinion. Or straight talking. It still happens but not as much as it used to. Obviously I can only talk from my own experience.

What i do think shouldn't be allowed is if someone has changed names if someone recognises them from style of posting little bits they have satd. Another poster should not be allowed to post on the thread saying are you that poster with thr yellow car, are you the poster. Are you the poster who's child draw on the walls in a hotel. For example they have name changed for s reason.

There a lot's of lovely kind people on here. Im sure they outweigh the bad. The bad side sticks out more for people who have been at the resiving
End because its hurtful.

What i also think people should try and understand that when there's such nastiness. Again I mean nastiness not difference of opinion. The person on the receiving end takes that away with them it doesn't vanish because they log out off the thread moved. For me it had a big impact on my mental heath. I won't be the only one.

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 22:35

MyKindHiker · 21/09/2026 22:32

But trolls and bots do exist - you must appreciate that? And I personally find it all a bit disturbing.

I'm sure in Cuba those trolls and bots will be spouting communist stuff. In the UK (and the US) the big money is behind the right wing parties and political perspectives for obvious reasons. Candidly, the Greens or Labour can't afford to hire a bunch of trolls or pay someone to write algorithms to boost their content.

But some political parties, particularly Reform, can. So statistically bot content is more likely to be taking that angle.

Mnhq has answered this a few times, and generally delete all the bot accusations.

MyKindHiker · 21/09/2026 22:32

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:31

No, best it's left here in the open, keeping it all in one place, instead of spilling over on to every anti Labour or anti immigration thread.

But trolls and bots do exist - you must appreciate that? And I personally find it all a bit disturbing.

I'm sure in Cuba those trolls and bots will be spouting communist stuff. In the UK (and the US) the big money is behind the right wing parties and political perspectives for obvious reasons. Candidly, the Greens or Labour can't afford to hire a bunch of trolls or pay someone to write algorithms to boost their content.

But some political parties, particularly Reform, can. So statistically bot content is more likely to be taking that angle.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 21/09/2026 22:32

Oncetwicethreetimesmore · 21/09/2026 19:59

Here we go again...

@Oncetwicethreetimesmore , I’m happy to discuss this in a respectful manner but it’s quite difficult when you comment in such an inane manner. Would you care to explain what you mean by that?

myjamisbetterthanyours · 21/09/2026 22:32

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2026 21:10

Isn’t it just. Differing views are one thing, the level of hatred on some threads these days is something else. I’ve been here a decade and it’s completely different now.

On what threads?

Because there are some threads out there where some posters do nothing but breathlessly run in with gossip about who wrote what and on what other thread, whipping up hate and pile ups?

AtHomeWithThe · 21/09/2026 22:13

The level of hate on MN and posters with an obvious agenda makes genuine debate increasingly pointless.
Driving away the very people those with an agenda want to reach, leaves those loudest voices convincing no one except those that already hold the same views.
That is not debate; it is an echo chamber, of posters acting with their fingers in their ears even when misinformation is challenged.

Totally pointless.

And MN is a poorer place (and poorer business) for every informed poster who decides it is no longer worth contributing.

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2026 21:58

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They say what they think. That’s not rudeness, it’s assertiveness.

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:51

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:48

Usually these threads start and then mnhq say you’ll see different views because it’s a public forum not limited to one party after all.

Yes, it's always helpful when they confirm that it's not a Labour/ pro asylum seeking board.

FKAT · 21/09/2026 21:49

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FKAT · 21/09/2026 21:48

BugJuice · 21/09/2026 21:09

Do we? I don’t!

Good for you bab.

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:48

placemats · 21/09/2026 21:39

Moi?

Can't you take a joke 🤣

It helps when jokes are funny.

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:48

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:36

Not very often a thread in site stuff gets taken down.

Usually these threads start and then mnhq say you’ll see different views because it’s a public forum not limited to one party after all.

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2026 21:48

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:40

It’s a vague having a go on another thread. And not even correct.

That’s your interpretation. Site stuff is by definition about other threads.

Lonelycrab · 21/09/2026 21:43

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:40

It’s a vague having a go on another thread. And not even correct.

Perhaps to you it is. I have no idea which thread that might be tbh.

As a broad observation on the site in general, I think the OP is valid

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:43

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:40

It’s a vague having a go on another thread. And not even correct.

I don't know why you think what I have said here is aimed at a particular thread. It's not. It's something I have seen on many, many threads. Hence me posting to discuss the fact that this is happening on MN in general. Please do report this thread if you are concerned, that's what the function is there for.

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:40

Whisperwaves · 21/09/2026 21:39

No because Site stuff is to discuss the site. Imagine that.

I didn't realise this section wasn't moderated. Yes, fancy.

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:40

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:39

I don't want to pick it up. I want to post on this thread, pointing out things that are happening. Why does that worry you? This is a phenomenon on Mumsnet. Mumsnet is a discussion forum. We are discussing this phenomenon. You don't have to post here if you are unhappy about it.

It’s a vague having a go on another thread. And not even correct.

Whisperwaves · 21/09/2026 21:39

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:36

Not very often a thread in site stuff gets taken down.

No because Site stuff is to discuss the site. Imagine that.

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:39

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:28

Not sure about uncomfortable but I wasn’t surprised at your post. I think you have it wrong, but if you want to pick it up go back to that thread.

I don't want to pick it up. I want to post on this thread, pointing out things that are happening. Why does that worry you? This is a phenomenon on Mumsnet. Mumsnet is a discussion forum. We are discussing this phenomenon. You don't have to post here if you are unhappy about it.

placemats · 21/09/2026 21:39

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:38

You wouldn't be being mean, would you.

Sigh.

Moi?

Can't you take a joke 🤣