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Why so much hate on MN?

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Oncetwicethreetimesmore · 21/09/2026 18:44

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Why so much hate on MN?
Posters hiding behind complaints about the government, presenting themselves as reasonable actors, to push hate about asylum seekers, people with disabilities, benefit claimants..Mostly the same names all day everyday.
I am told to report - MN just not interested.
I am told to hide the thread..
Why isn't moderation better?
I know this will always exist and exists on other platforms but MN makes no effort to even try to anything about it.
You can't really sell MN as a caring, supportive site with all this stuff offered on a daily basis in active.

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roxyro · Today 08:14

dreamiesformolly · Yesterday 14:42

I was addressing your airy assertions that anyone can get it, as I think you know full well. And if you've been on benefits yourself, I'd have thought you'd have a better understanding of the factors that can place a person in need.

There’s been no “airy assertions” from me. I have stated previously I’m a firm believer in the benefits system but it’s too easy to game the system and if you know what to say and how to fill in the forms you’re likely to be successful. My other problem is why some ie my friend’s son receives so much money; far more than he needs, when he has anxiety and ADHD (undiagnosed).

I won’t be responding to anymore posts accusing me of lying, making stuff up as it’s tiresome. Maybe some in here are middle class liberals with no idea how some people live but, believe me, there’s a whole industry of people enabling claimants for pay and as one young man told me “everyone I know is on PIP”.

LizzieW1969 · Yesterday 21:52

Differentforgirls · Yesterday 21:49

If you’re a pensioner it’s called Attendance Allowance.

That’s right, my MIL claims that. She has dementia as well as needing a hip replacement which she’s been denied.

Differentforgirls · Yesterday 21:49

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:16

Pensioners could lose access to personal independence payments (PIP) as part of a review into the welfare system, LBC understands.

The government is reviewing retirees' access to PIP benefits as part of the ongoing Timms Review, which is expected to be published before the end of the year.

The benefit – which is available to claimants regardless of their income or savings – is designed to help with the extra costs of living with a disability or long-term health conditions.

Nearly one in five (17%) claimants are over the state pension age, despite a widespread view of PIP as an in-work benefit to help with ongoing costs.

If you’re a pensioner it’s called Attendance Allowance.

Differentforgirls · Yesterday 21:46

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:03

You might want to think about being a little more polite.

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Blossomtoes is always polite.

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:38

dreamiesformolly · Yesterday 17:36

Yes, I have, because I consider it relevant. And yes, so-called 'sweeping' statements have their place in discourse. It's valid (and important, tbh) to make general observations about what has been happening to society of late. There's no virtue in sleepwalking, any more than there is in having one's head in the sand.

Sounds reasonable to me.

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 17:36

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:33

Where did I state I wanted to see pensioners on PIP, stripped of it? Tell me.

I often post for info - we’ve been over this, as recently as this morning.

Of course.

dreamiesformolly · Yesterday 17:36

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:28

Ok, now you have introduced another, more sweeping statement concerning society in general.

Yes, we can agree on that.

Yes, I have, because I consider it relevant. And yes, so-called 'sweeping' statements have their place in discourse. It's valid (and important, tbh) to make general observations about what has been happening to society of late. There's no virtue in sleepwalking, any more than there is in having one's head in the sand.

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:33

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 17:30

And your point is, what exactly? That you would like to see disabled pensioners stripped of PIP?

"LBC understands" is not government policy.

If they did abolish PIP for those over state pension age, there is still AA which anyone over pension age and currently on PIP would probably be eligible for.

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Where did I state I wanted to see pensioners on PIP, stripped of it? Tell me.

I often post for info - we’ve been over this, as recently as this morning.

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 17:30

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:16

Pensioners could lose access to personal independence payments (PIP) as part of a review into the welfare system, LBC understands.

The government is reviewing retirees' access to PIP benefits as part of the ongoing Timms Review, which is expected to be published before the end of the year.

The benefit – which is available to claimants regardless of their income or savings – is designed to help with the extra costs of living with a disability or long-term health conditions.

Nearly one in five (17%) claimants are over the state pension age, despite a widespread view of PIP as an in-work benefit to help with ongoing costs.

And your point is, what exactly? That you would like to see disabled pensioners stripped of PIP?

"LBC understands" is not government policy.

If they did abolish PIP for those over state pension age, there is still AA which anyone over pension age and currently on PIP would probably be eligible for.

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:28

dreamiesformolly · Yesterday 17:17

I'm thinking plenty, thanks. Everything starts somewhere. Do you really think Nazism sprang up overnight?

And for your information, I'm not only taking benefits into account in saying what I am. Society is turning nasty, selfish and uncaring in so many other ways than that.

Ok, now you have introduced another, more sweeping statement concerning society in general.

Yes, we can agree on that.

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:26

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 16:34

You might want to think about being a little more polite.

Intervening in a debate between me and the PP could be interpreted as ‘rounding’ on me.

I consider that impolite, but am happy to leave it there.

dreamiesformolly · Yesterday 17:17

KateDibi · Yesterday 16:25

You might want to do a bit of reading about the history of Germany in the 1930s and how Hitler came to power, to give just one example.

An absurd comment. Playing in the rise of national socialism because posters have the temerity to question whether all benefit claimants are equally deserving of state support. It doesn’t automatically make people ignorant, or bigoted, or ‘far right’. Even this socialist government accepts that PIP is not fit for purpose.

So, if you expect to be taken seriously, you might want to think before posting.

I'm thinking plenty, thanks. Everything starts somewhere. Do you really think Nazism sprang up overnight?

And for your information, I'm not only taking benefits into account in saying what I am. Society is turning nasty, selfish and uncaring in so many other ways than that.

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:16

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 16:42

Setting aside the rudeness of that reply, you are correct that the interim Timms review has said PIP is not fit for purpose. But not because people are receiving benefits they shouldn't:

"Our work as a steering group to date has identified deep-rooted problems in both the design and delivery of PIP. Too many people describe the process as “dehumanising”, and this must be addressed. Processes can feel overly complex, repetitive and difficult to navigate, particularly for people whose needs fluctuate or are less visible. Delays or barriers in accessing support can have significant consequences for people’s ability to manage daily life, remain independent, and stay connected to work, family, and community. For some people, the current design and delivery of PIP itself can create barriers to participation, including in work, physical activity and community life. The scale and consistency of these findings suggest the challenges identified are systemic, rather than individual or case-specific.

We have reflected on the role and purpose of PIP - we agree a clearer emphasis on supporting independent living and participation in society, for example through volunteering, work, and cultural and social activities, would strengthen the aim of PIP. We also recognise that PIP alone will not always be sufficient, and that support and services can play an important role in addressing barriers"

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Pensioners could lose access to personal independence payments (PIP) as part of a review into the welfare system, LBC understands.

The government is reviewing retirees' access to PIP benefits as part of the ongoing Timms Review, which is expected to be published before the end of the year.

The benefit – which is available to claimants regardless of their income or savings – is designed to help with the extra costs of living with a disability or long-term health conditions.

Nearly one in five (17%) claimants are over the state pension age, despite a widespread view of PIP as an in-work benefit to help with ongoing costs.

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 17:09

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:03

You might want to think about being a little more polite.

Edited

I haven’t been anything but polite. 🤷‍♀️

KateDibi · Yesterday 17:03

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 16:34

You might want to think about being a little more polite.

You might want to think about being a little more polite.

LizzieW1969 · Yesterday 16:57

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 16:42

Setting aside the rudeness of that reply, you are correct that the interim Timms review has said PIP is not fit for purpose. But not because people are receiving benefits they shouldn't:

"Our work as a steering group to date has identified deep-rooted problems in both the design and delivery of PIP. Too many people describe the process as “dehumanising”, and this must be addressed. Processes can feel overly complex, repetitive and difficult to navigate, particularly for people whose needs fluctuate or are less visible. Delays or barriers in accessing support can have significant consequences for people’s ability to manage daily life, remain independent, and stay connected to work, family, and community. For some people, the current design and delivery of PIP itself can create barriers to participation, including in work, physical activity and community life. The scale and consistency of these findings suggest the challenges identified are systemic, rather than individual or case-specific.

We have reflected on the role and purpose of PIP - we agree a clearer emphasis on supporting independent living and participation in society, for example through volunteering, work, and cultural and social activities, would strengthen the aim of PIP. We also recognise that PIP alone will not always be sufficient, and that support and services can play an important role in addressing barriers"

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Great post. It was a tough process to go through for us. More so for my DB, who had to appeal twice. If he hadn’t had support from my DM, he wouldn’t have got PIP.

He has invisible disabilities and hasn’t been able to work in over 30 years!

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 16:42

KateDibi · Yesterday 16:25

You might want to do a bit of reading about the history of Germany in the 1930s and how Hitler came to power, to give just one example.

An absurd comment. Playing in the rise of national socialism because posters have the temerity to question whether all benefit claimants are equally deserving of state support. It doesn’t automatically make people ignorant, or bigoted, or ‘far right’. Even this socialist government accepts that PIP is not fit for purpose.

So, if you expect to be taken seriously, you might want to think before posting.

Setting aside the rudeness of that reply, you are correct that the interim Timms review has said PIP is not fit for purpose. But not because people are receiving benefits they shouldn't:

"Our work as a steering group to date has identified deep-rooted problems in both the design and delivery of PIP. Too many people describe the process as “dehumanising”, and this must be addressed. Processes can feel overly complex, repetitive and difficult to navigate, particularly for people whose needs fluctuate or are less visible. Delays or barriers in accessing support can have significant consequences for people’s ability to manage daily life, remain independent, and stay connected to work, family, and community. For some people, the current design and delivery of PIP itself can create barriers to participation, including in work, physical activity and community life. The scale and consistency of these findings suggest the challenges identified are systemic, rather than individual or case-specific.

We have reflected on the role and purpose of PIP - we agree a clearer emphasis on supporting independent living and participation in society, for example through volunteering, work, and cultural and social activities, would strengthen the aim of PIP. We also recognise that PIP alone will not always be sufficient, and that support and services can play an important role in addressing barriers"

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 16:34

KateDibi · Yesterday 16:25

You might want to do a bit of reading about the history of Germany in the 1930s and how Hitler came to power, to give just one example.

An absurd comment. Playing in the rise of national socialism because posters have the temerity to question whether all benefit claimants are equally deserving of state support. It doesn’t automatically make people ignorant, or bigoted, or ‘far right’. Even this socialist government accepts that PIP is not fit for purpose.

So, if you expect to be taken seriously, you might want to think before posting.

You might want to think about being a little more polite.

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 16:32

Viviennemary · Yesterday 15:40

I hardly think so. The benefits system is shocking in this country. People who need it struggling and others who play the system coining it in.

And the vast majority playing by the rules, claiming honestly and recieving the correct level of support for their needs.

KateDibi · Yesterday 16:25

dreamiesformolly · Yesterday 16:09

I'm doing nothing of the sort. I'm saying if you won't bother to educate yourself, don't expect to be taken seriously.

Interesting that you assume I'm trying to shut you down, though, when at no point have I said 'stop talking' or anything even remotely approaching that. Do you normally confuse being disagreed with with being shut down? 🤔

You might want to do a bit of reading about the history of Germany in the 1930s and how Hitler came to power, to give just one example.

An absurd comment. Playing in the rise of national socialism because posters have the temerity to question whether all benefit claimants are equally deserving of state support. It doesn’t automatically make people ignorant, or bigoted, or ‘far right’. Even this socialist government accepts that PIP is not fit for purpose.

So, if you expect to be taken seriously, you might want to think before posting.

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 16:17

myjamisbetterthanyours · Yesterday 15:53

Yes, it’s the same.

Because the Victorians were known for their UC, CB and PIP.

The Victorians were known for their utter lack of compassion and othering of people at the bottom of the wealth pile. So yes, it’s becoming exactly the same.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 16:15

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I did read. And I understood.

I understood that you initially wrote a post about someone hiding savings before a review meeting to be able to continue to claim disability benefits. I then saw other posters pull you up on that by pointing out that disability benefits aren't means tested so he would have no need to hide savings. I subsequently saw you add a post about other benefits which are not means tested.

As I said...Hmm.

dreamiesformolly · Yesterday 16:13

myjamisbetterthanyours · Yesterday 15:53

Yes, it’s the same.

Because the Victorians were known for their UC, CB and PIP.

It's the same in terms of the judgement cast on anyone who finds themselves struggling. The return of the 'deserving vs undeserving poor' rhetoric. And, judging by some threads on here of late, support for a return to the days of the workhouse. A societal shift back to Victorian values is definitely happening, but unfortunately it's the worst so-called values people want to re-appropriate.

dreamiesformolly · Yesterday 16:09

KateDibi · Yesterday 15:06

Well, your first paragraph is a false premise, so there is no need to address your patronising second paragraph.

Stop trying to shut down people who have a different view from yours.

I'm doing nothing of the sort. I'm saying if you won't bother to educate yourself, don't expect to be taken seriously.

Interesting that you assume I'm trying to shut you down, though, when at no point have I said 'stop talking' or anything even remotely approaching that. Do you normally confuse being disagreed with with being shut down? 🤔

Differentforgirls · Yesterday 15:55

myjamisbetterthanyours · Yesterday 15:53

Yes, it’s the same.

Because the Victorians were known for their UC, CB and PIP.

So who are the deserving?