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FWR being trolled by a user called AidaP

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Hedgehogforshort · 08/04/2026 20:35

Hi MNHQ can you please address the issue of a certain poster called AidaP who is not participating in debate he is just trolling.

to be clear this person is a trans woman who has been convicted of violence and is posting promotion of acts of violence against women elsewhere.

in particular there is one elsewhere about using a roughly hewn rolling pin to rape women.

you realy need to look in to him it is just so not on that he is being allowed to bother us here.

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Helleofabore · 12/04/2026 13:01

Yesterday, someone said to me that that group would probably get more people taking notice of what they were saying if they had a woman on the loud hailer.

I said to the person ‘but they DO believe they have a woman on the loud hailer’.

All those protests end up doing is reinforcing the perception of male aggression. The aggressive male voices shouting wildly hyperbole chants, the male topless with moobs out for the public to see as some kind of protest.

Some people try to discredit the phrase Operation : Let them speak. But yesterday was a very clear example of that.

And it is also very clear why accusations of ‘both sides are extreme’ simply are unevidenced and really not believable when you look more closely. Starmer really needs to never say that again in relation to women and this group of male people.

DameProfessorIDareSay · 12/04/2026 12:53

Helleofabore · 12/04/2026 11:37

Yesterday I listened to a male voice yell through a loud hailer that we should stop murdering children, stop killing children and stop killing ‘us’ (obviously meaning trans people) this chant was on repeat and went on and on and on.

It is not the horrendous aggression of a group of male people, but it is the complete lack of inhibitions in making obvious false and serious claims of victimisation. In their mind, it must be true because they believe they are the most marginalised and vulnerable people in the world.

I watched the faces of people walking by, the incredulity was very noticeable. A group of angry male people were shouting aggressively and held back by police while shouting at a group of women and girls who were chatting to each other with the public walking easily through them.

Most people could see the stark differences between the groups.

Indeed. Only one side is threatening murder if we don’t acquiesce to their demands:

FWR being trolled by a user called AidaP
GlovedhandsCecilia · 12/04/2026 12:46

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/04/2026 12:29

Pretending that race is comparable to youth or sex is invalid and I am not alone in being sick of this racist and lazy false argument.

It's invalid in the context of safeguarding and vulnerability because the biological differences between white people and black people are trivial and almost always unimportant. ("Almost always" because sickle cell anaemia is important.) Having brown skin doesn't make someone inherently vulnerable to abuse from a white person. If a white man and a black man were alone in a forest, they'd be the same risk to each other. The power imbalance between black and white people within society is because of social constructs.

The biological differences between a child and an adult are size, strength, and brain maturity. These make the child inherently vulnerable to abuse by the adult. The adult alone in the forest with a child poses more risk to the child than the child does to the adult.

The biological differences between a woman and a man are size, strength, and reproductive role (i.e. gestator versus impregnator). These make the woman inherently vulnerable to abuse by the man. A man alone in a forest with a woman poses a rape threat to her that she cannot pose to him. He poses a much greater murder threat to her than she does to him. Hence why so many women chose the bear...

As I keep saying, and you have not actually attempted to rebutt, vulnerability is about relative risk, not about mental capacity. Mental capacity might be a risk factor in some cases, but it doesn't have to be a risk factor for the person to be vulnerable.

I'm Black and I see parallels because I have seen the world through my perspective.

ItsNotOrwell · 12/04/2026 12:44

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/04/2026 11:11

It doesn’t, it’s an attempt to deflect from the abusive male who is the subject of this post.

It was answering a question.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/04/2026 12:29

GlovedhandsCecilia · 12/04/2026 07:19

I am wary around all white people until I know them. It doesnt mean I think Black people need safeguarding against white people. We arent inherently vulnerable to white people like youth makes you inherently vulnerable. Or many brain injuries make you inherently vulnerable.

The thing about inherently vulnerability is that the other person doesn't even have to mean to exploit you for you to be exploited. That is what makes you so vulnerable when you are young or have some forms of cognitive impairment.

Like Black people, women become vulnerable because people who arent white (or women) choose to be discriminatory. It isn't inherent for white people to be racist and it isn't inherent for men to exploit women. Neither group is inherently vulnerable.

Pretending that race is comparable to youth or sex is invalid and I am not alone in being sick of this racist and lazy false argument.

It's invalid in the context of safeguarding and vulnerability because the biological differences between white people and black people are trivial and almost always unimportant. ("Almost always" because sickle cell anaemia is important.) Having brown skin doesn't make someone inherently vulnerable to abuse from a white person. If a white man and a black man were alone in a forest, they'd be the same risk to each other. The power imbalance between black and white people within society is because of social constructs.

The biological differences between a child and an adult are size, strength, and brain maturity. These make the child inherently vulnerable to abuse by the adult. The adult alone in the forest with a child poses more risk to the child than the child does to the adult.

The biological differences between a woman and a man are size, strength, and reproductive role (i.e. gestator versus impregnator). These make the woman inherently vulnerable to abuse by the man. A man alone in a forest with a woman poses a rape threat to her that she cannot pose to him. He poses a much greater murder threat to her than she does to him. Hence why so many women chose the bear...

As I keep saying, and you have not actually attempted to rebutt, vulnerability is about relative risk, not about mental capacity. Mental capacity might be a risk factor in some cases, but it doesn't have to be a risk factor for the person to be vulnerable.

Datun · 12/04/2026 12:08

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/04/2026 12:04

Still no rebuttal to my substantiative points.

I think points that go over 10 are binned. Obviously never heard of Spinal Tap.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/04/2026 12:04

GlovedhandsCecilia · 12/04/2026 07:20

Does it occur to you that one's reaction to make violence may not mirror yours?

Still no rebuttal to my substantiative points.

Datun · 12/04/2026 11:51

Most people could see the stark differences between the groups.

As soon as as women pushed back, transactivism was always going to fail.

It's a men's sexual rights movement. And, unfortunately for them, their sense of entitlement lets it show, everywhere they go.

It was all built on sand, and now they're busy kicking over everyone else's sand castles.

... in steel toed boots and balaclavas - you know, just to emphasise their vulnerability 🙄

Helleofabore · 12/04/2026 11:37

Yesterday I listened to a male voice yell through a loud hailer that we should stop murdering children, stop killing children and stop killing ‘us’ (obviously meaning trans people) this chant was on repeat and went on and on and on.

It is not the horrendous aggression of a group of male people, but it is the complete lack of inhibitions in making obvious false and serious claims of victimisation. In their mind, it must be true because they believe they are the most marginalised and vulnerable people in the world.

I watched the faces of people walking by, the incredulity was very noticeable. A group of angry male people were shouting aggressively and held back by police while shouting at a group of women and girls who were chatting to each other with the public walking easily through them.

Most people could see the stark differences between the groups.

Helleofabore · 12/04/2026 11:27

Yes. What datun said.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/04/2026 11:25

What Datun said.

Datun · 12/04/2026 11:23

I'm another person who thinks Aida is obviously not posting in good faith. It's a joke.

And as for J. K. Rowling should be raped with a splintered rolling pin being a cute colloquialism??

Like all transactivism, it's risible jibber jabber.

Transactivists routinely threaten women: decapitate terfs, when you see a terf punch them, they've punched two old age pensioners in the face, one of the perpetrators of which was done for battery, they've defaced buildings, vandalised offices including that of a cabinet minister, smashed windows, put women in fear of their lives, punched another woman in the face in front of an MP. The list is endless.

Their violence is spaffed across the Internet from one end to the other.

It's ludicrous to assert that saying a woman should be raped with a rolling pin is anything other than a violent, gleeful expression of threat.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/04/2026 11:14

Bagsintheboot · 12/04/2026 10:01

"Gardening"...

People can’t share direct crowdfunding links due to previous abuse of this which had nothing to do with FWR, but nowadays people support all kinds of political and social campaigns and of course they talk about it on related threads.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/04/2026 11:11

Hedgehogforshort · 12/04/2026 10:53

I really have no idea why some object to people buying a book by Glinner, or wishing to point to a fundraiser for his defence. I may or may not dislike him, but her certainly supports the GC cause and lost everything.

anyway what has it to do with this thread?

It doesn’t, it’s an attempt to deflect from the abusive male who is the subject of this post.

Helleofabore · 12/04/2026 11:00

Hedgehogforshort · 12/04/2026 10:53

I really have no idea why some object to people buying a book by Glinner, or wishing to point to a fundraiser for his defence. I may or may not dislike him, but her certainly supports the GC cause and lost everything.

anyway what has it to do with this thread?

It was introduced as some kind of additional thing we have done wrong. We bought books and interacted with a man who someone feels we should feel guilt about interacting with.

Hedgehogforshort · 12/04/2026 10:53

I really have no idea why some object to people buying a book by Glinner, or wishing to point to a fundraiser for his defence. I may or may not dislike him, but her certainly supports the GC cause and lost everything.

anyway what has it to do with this thread?

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Wearenotborg · 12/04/2026 10:47

hazelberry · 12/04/2026 10:45

What are all the 'gardening' threads about then?

Mainly planting, mowing the grass and looking a the epic flowers that are grown?

hazelberry · 12/04/2026 10:45

Shedmistress · 12/04/2026 09:24

People cant fund raise on here. Just FYI. It would very quickly get zapped.

What are all the 'gardening' threads about then?

Wearenotborg · 12/04/2026 10:43

GlovedhandsCecilia · 12/04/2026 07:25

Exactly. They aren't here to genuinely share views with other women or even debate. That's boring. Theyre here to bully anyone who disagrees with them. That is fun..

Yes, I’ve got that from your posts. I mean, the tantrum over someone making an anology was er…. interesting.

lifeinthelastlane · 12/04/2026 10:41

GL's book came out 3 years ago. It will have been discussed here I'm quite sure, and it was a great read.

Shedmistress · 12/04/2026 10:08

ItsNotOrwell · 12/04/2026 09:39

There was a whole thread dedicated to “gardening” for Graham. Plus promoting his book for the same purpose.

I just searched for linehan and cant find a specific thread on raising funds for him.

Bagsintheboot · 12/04/2026 10:01

Shedmistress · 12/04/2026 09:24

People cant fund raise on here. Just FYI. It would very quickly get zapped.

"Gardening"...

ItsNotOrwell · 12/04/2026 09:39

Shedmistress · 12/04/2026 09:24

People cant fund raise on here. Just FYI. It would very quickly get zapped.

There was a whole thread dedicated to “gardening” for Graham. Plus promoting his book for the same purpose.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 12/04/2026 09:25

Pretty sure I see fundraising all the time on here.