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FWR being trolled by a user called AidaP

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Hedgehogforshort · 08/04/2026 20:35

Hi MNHQ can you please address the issue of a certain poster called AidaP who is not participating in debate he is just trolling.

to be clear this person is a trans woman who has been convicted of violence and is posting promotion of acts of violence against women elsewhere.

in particular there is one elsewhere about using a roughly hewn rolling pin to rape women.

you realy need to look in to him it is just so not on that he is being allowed to bother us here.

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ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 12:29

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:07

22 notifications. Multiple from same usernames. Spoil it for yourselves.

FFS TURN OFF NOTIFICATIONS FROM YOUR SETTINGS!

Also they are replies. If you don't want to engage in a discussion on a discussion board, why come here? Stop wasting our time.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/04/2026 12:25

A quick reminder that the uptick in bad-faith posters is to distract us from talking about

the Finnish trial

and also

the violent language used by TRA counter-demonstrators at the FWS one year anniversary demo.

Datun · 13/04/2026 12:25

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/04/2026 12:20

Talk about Main Character Syndrome!

When I reply to your posts, I'm not just talking to you, I'm also rebutting your arguments for other readers to see how wrong you are.

Exactly. Loads of posters get dozens and dozens of notifications. Hence turning them off.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/04/2026 12:20

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:07

22 notifications. Multiple from same usernames. Spoil it for yourselves.

Talk about Main Character Syndrome!

When I reply to your posts, I'm not just talking to you, I'm also rebutting your arguments for other readers to see how wrong you are.

Datun · 13/04/2026 12:18

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:07

22 notifications. Multiple from same usernames. Spoil it for yourselves.

Don't be daft. This is an interactive messaging forum. If you don't want people to respond to you, don't post on it. It's not a soap box.

Everybody else turns notifications off. Do that, and then the issue disappears. Unless you like the notifications, because it gives you a reason to ignore people?

Guess what? You don't need a reason.

Just read the thread like a normal poster.

SirChenjins · 13/04/2026 12:13

Then be proactive, simply turn them off, and focus on the posts on here. Otherwise the notifications will continue to do what notifications are designed to do, and notify you.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:07

22 notifications. Multiple from same usernames. Spoil it for yourselves.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/04/2026 10:56

Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 07:06

Sure. That was you responding to the crowdfunding aspect.

The point Eresh was making is why was he introduced in the first place and she quoted the post to clarify.

And she is right, he was introduced as a distraction tactic based on ‘whataboutery’ and trying to portray a man who posts on here occasionally and doesn’t post abusively on threads on MN as being some kind of comparator.

Yes, thank you.

ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:48

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 07:08

We've had 3 female PMs and no black one.

There has been one BLACK MAN PM, but not one single black WOMAN PM. So all men, including black men, have privilege and black women do not.

Again....

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ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:46

Wearenotborg · 12/04/2026 20:31

Really? So how come there has been a black president of the USA but never a woman president? Therefore that would suggest woman have less power than black people no?

Yep, a black MALE President.

Not one single woman President. White or black. GlovedhandsCecilia can't argue against that point. Because her manipulatively using the race card falls flat here.

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ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:42

GlovedhandsCecilia · 12/04/2026 12:46

I'm Black and I see parallels because I have seen the world through my perspective.

I am also black and you don't speak for me. Most black women I know, know how seriously vulnerable we as women are. You don't speak for any black woman. Nor any woman at all.

PS. Just TURN OFF your notifications! No one uses notifications, they are not necessary. Just visit the thread on your 'watch list' on the website like every one else of us does. I don't even look at my email account I used to sign up to Mumsnet. I don't even log into it unless I need to email Mumsnet specifically about something.

ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:28

GlovedhandsCecilia · 10/04/2026 11:25

Just so you all know, if I come back to more than 10 notifications (bear in mind I only get one when quoted), i press mark as read and ignore them all. I just came back to 20

You realise you can turn off notifications in your account settings, right?

You still need to go to the physical web site to read messages.

That said, if you get upset by people merely replying to you, maybe a message board is not right for you.

ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:21

GlovedhandsCecilia · 10/04/2026 08:10

No its for privacy. Not safeguarding. Women arent inherently vulnerable adults. Men have similar same sex provision.

I get that you see yourself as extremely vulnerable and in need of safeguarding by authoritative figures. I do not see women like that. I think that might be an individual thing.

Men RAPE women. They physically overpower us. Faster than us. Rape. Domestic Violence.

FFS.

If you still say women are not inherently vulnerable because of our sex, you're being goady and disingenuous. Even a kid understands women are inherently vulnerable. You're trying to argue hens are not inherently vulnerable to foxes. You are simply not real.

kiopsd · 13/04/2026 10:19

you’re making yourself look extremely foolish here @GlovedhandsCeciliaapologising for Aida. I assume you’re aware of the content they publish elsewhere and are totally fine with it?

ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:16

GlovedhandsCecilia · 10/04/2026 07:39

I dont think "fuck you" is a rape threat. Half the reason ive come to the conclusion about the rationality of sone of you on here is because you try to argue the way you do. I dont agree that the post was a rape threat so continually calling it that to prove your point just leads me to think you don't have one. You just have anger and resentment against Aida. Which is cute and kind of weird but nothing rooted in anything but your emotions.

I went from believing Aida had made reape threats to it being continually thrust in my face, reading the actual post and then seeing you had stretched it being reality. If you never did all that, I'd still believe Aida really did make a rape threat. You see how you fuck things up for yourselves?

If you don't think something from a group of males who regularly talk about raping women til they bleed and being raped with a razor-covered baseball bat is a rape threat, I suggest you spend some time visiting a rape crisis centre. Your ignorance comes from a lack of education and experience. Not your fault but instead of attacking people who are trying to educate you, maybe listen and consider that you may be wrong. I can promise you any counsellor at a rape crisis centre will set you straight that what he said most definitely is a rape threat. No doubt about that.

ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:11

GlovedhandsCecilia · 10/04/2026 07:21

I dont agree that women are inherently vulnerable. I think that breeds misogyny and it isnt how I think of people of my sex. I understand you do feel that but no, I would object to the idea of us needing safeguarding as if we lack capacity as adults just by having a vagina.

Then you're not grounded in reality. Women ARE inherently vulnerable because of our sex. That is reality. At least one in 4 women is raped. One of them is me. I KNOW how vulnerable women are by personal experience. Domestic Violence. And 3 women per week are killed by men. A Scottish survey found 96% of all women had been sexually harassed at one point in their lives. Ninety-six percent. 96%. Everything that women do each day is outlined in this meme shows we ARE inherently vulnerable and denying it, is misogynistic and disingenuous.

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ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:05

GlovedhandsCecilia · 10/04/2026 07:12

Its a colloquialism. As I said I have a collegaue who says fuck X with a spiky butt plug. X can be a person, a concept, a political party, a unwanted food item. Literally anything. It just means "reject that thing". Fuck that thing.

There is a power differential. A female saying that is completely different from a male from a group of males who advocate women be raped and assaulted and 'die in a greasefire' and be 'curbstomped' and be 'burned alive' and 'raped til your insides bleed' comes from a completely different place.

This should not even need to be said or explained.

ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:03

GlovedhandsCecilia · 10/04/2026 07:08

What ive gone from is "the whole trans thing is dangerous and they are insane", to "the insanity is on both sides and the trans people arent the most dangerous group out of the 2 of them".

Get back to us when women are giving RAPE THREATS and DEATH THREATS to the men. Until then 'it's both sides' is just typical MRA/TRA lies and we don't believe the act.

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ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 10:01

GlovedhandsCecilia · 10/04/2026 07:02

If someone said fuck Beyonce with a splintered rolling pin, Id just assume they dont like her. I wouldnt turn it into a racist attack, even if Farage was the one saying it. I dont make things up and exaggerate to try and prove my point. I dont need to.

No but if they said she should be "hung by a tree" that would be different considering the history of lynching African Americans.

Saying a woman should be 'fucked' (read: raped) with an object designed to inflict damage and pain is clearly sex-specific, as hung by a tree is race-specific. The fact that these males frequently talk about raping and sexually assaulting feminists shows that it's about rape, and you aren't fooling anyone by you pretending it isn't, you are being disingenuous.

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Hedgehogforshort · 13/04/2026 09:57

teawamutu · 13/04/2026 09:44

Until someone posts his nasty little 'rolling pin' comment. Seems to have a garlic/vampire effect.

They did - like the description

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teawamutu · 13/04/2026 09:44

Hedgehogforshort · 13/04/2026 08:53

He has returned on a new thread. Tsk…

Until someone posts his nasty little 'rolling pin' comment. Seems to have a garlic/vampire effect.

Hedgehogforshort · 13/04/2026 08:53

He has returned on a new thread. Tsk…

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Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 08:02

Do you think safeguarding is infantilising? Why?

If you would rather not have protective laws, how do you think that would work? Do you think that even the first momentum of anti- discrimination awareness would have been maintained if there were not the protections put in place? And to be clear, I refer to protections in law and not some of the programmes developed to address discrimination under the EDI banner.

Do you believe that Ayn Rand’s utopian development has been achieved and if all is now left without law protection racism will be a thing of the past?

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 07:44

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Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 07:31

And yet, because of racism, anti-discrimination laws and policies are built on safeguarding principles to protect people where ever possible.

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