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FWR being trolled by a user called AidaP

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Hedgehogforshort · 08/04/2026 20:35

Hi MNHQ can you please address the issue of a certain poster called AidaP who is not participating in debate he is just trolling.

to be clear this person is a trans woman who has been convicted of violence and is posting promotion of acts of violence against women elsewhere.

in particular there is one elsewhere about using a roughly hewn rolling pin to rape women.

you realy need to look in to him it is just so not on that he is being allowed to bother us here.

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Datun · 13/04/2026 14:05

NoWordForFluffy · 13/04/2026 13:49

Because then they couldn't moan and whine about getting them!

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It's bizarre.

And an excuse to ignore people.

If you decide that people replying to you 'too much' is a good reason not to read the replies that is 🤣🤣

Batties · 13/04/2026 14:04

Datun · 13/04/2026 13:46

Why haven't you turned off the notifications???

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Because she’s not able to make any legitimate points in answer to our questions, so she pretends she’s not answering because of notifications.

NoWordForFluffy · 13/04/2026 13:49

Datun · 13/04/2026 13:46

Why haven't you turned off the notifications???

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Because then they couldn't moan and whine about getting them!

Datun · 13/04/2026 13:48

BIWI · 13/04/2026 13:44

I dont want people spamming me on a clunky site

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I don't even know how you would be spammed here?

Is it even possible??? 😁

Datun · 13/04/2026 13:46

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:43

I dont want people spamming me on a clunky site

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Why haven't you turned off the notifications???

BIWI · 13/04/2026 13:44

I dont want people spamming me on a clunky site

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Batties · 13/04/2026 13:19

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 13:05

I can think TWAM and also disagree that something a TW said isnt a rape threat. Very strange to think that believing TWAM also means that you cant ever agree with a TW and must see the worst in everything they say.

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That’s such a straw man argument.

Waitingfordoggo · 13/04/2026 13:12

I get that but I’m not sure why you’re so determined to defend Aida when so many women are saying they find his language threatening. Maybe you could just accept that you’re in the minority in feeling the way you do. I just can’t really imagine being so motivated to spend hours telling some people who feel threatened/offended that they are wrong to feel that way.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 13:05

Waitingfordoggo · 13/04/2026 13:02

I’m glad you’re still aware that TW are men@GlovedhandsCecilia

Very weird to continue defending the language Aida used though. Rather a strange hill ‘to die on’ as they say.

I can think TWAM and also disagree that something a TW said isnt a rape threat. Very strange to think that believing TWAM also means that you cant ever agree with a TW and must see the worst in everything they say.

Waitingfordoggo · 13/04/2026 13:02

I’m glad you’re still aware that TW are men@GlovedhandsCecilia

Very weird to continue defending the language Aida used though. Rather a strange hill ‘to die on’ as they say.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:58

Waitingfordoggo · 13/04/2026 12:57

So that’s how you’ve pushed me from this is dangerous and should be stopped to meh, leave them be. Well done you guys! You probably change heaps of minds that way just by revealing your inner thoughts.

’Look what you made me do!’

@GlovedhandsCeciliaYou don’t sound very bright if you’ve gone from TWAM to TWAW all because some MNers are offended by graphic sexual threats from a man. (Yes, I know you don’t see it as a graphic sexual threat, but dozens of us do. There’s not really any point analysing the phrase over and over again. Many MNers feel offended and threatened by it- you don’t get to tell us our feelings are wrong.)

I don't now think TWAW, I just don't think it's as problematic as I did if they think they are.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:57

EdithStourton · 13/04/2026 12:55

So you're not engaging with the discussion. That being the case, why are you here?

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I do when there are less than 10 notifications, hence my replies to you now.

Waitingfordoggo · 13/04/2026 12:57

So that’s how you’ve pushed me from this is dangerous and should be stopped to meh, leave them be. Well done you guys! You probably change heaps of minds that way just by revealing your inner thoughts.

’Look what you made me do!’

@GlovedhandsCeciliaYou don’t sound very bright if you’ve gone from TWAM to TWAW all because some MNers are offended by graphic sexual threats from a man. (Yes, I know you don’t see it as a graphic sexual threat, but dozens of us do. There’s not really any point analysing the phrase over and over again. Many MNers feel offended and threatened by it- you don’t get to tell us our feelings are wrong.)

EdithStourton · 13/04/2026 12:55

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:52

No idea. I dont read it.

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So you're not engaging with the discussion. That being the case, why are you here?

EdithStourton · 13/04/2026 12:54

Datun · 13/04/2026 12:33

"You've really put me off by responding to me"

😁

But if we didn't respond we'd be being rude and exclusive and something.

I'm finding it increasingly hard to be polite on these threads atm.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:52

Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 12:49

Are they quoting the same post 10 times? or interacting with ten different posts and using the provided for quote function to maintain accuracy and coherency of the discussion?

There is a obvious difference.

Even then, multiple quoting of one single post is not abusive or harassment if the poster is discussing the post from multiple angles.

It is embarrassing for whom? Them? no, it isn't. You? maybe so. If you post on a publicly accessible website, you cannot control the interaction.

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No idea. I dont read it.

Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 12:49

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:43

Yeah when one person has quoted me 10x, it is embarrassing.

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Are they quoting the same post 10 times? or interacting with ten different posts and using the provided for quote function to maintain accuracy and coherency of the discussion?

There is a obvious difference.

Even then, multiple quoting of one single post is not abusive or harassment if the poster is discussing the post from multiple angles.

It is embarrassing for whom? Them? no, it isn't. You? maybe so. If you post on a publicly accessible website, you cannot control the interaction.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:43

DialSquare · 13/04/2026 12:39

This is just getting embarrassing now.

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Yeah when one person has quoted me 10x, it is embarrassing.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:43

Datun · 13/04/2026 12:18

Don't be daft. This is an interactive messaging forum. If you don't want people to respond to you, don't post on it. It's not a soap box.

Everybody else turns notifications off. Do that, and then the issue disappears. Unless you like the notifications, because it gives you a reason to ignore people?

Guess what? You don't need a reason.

Just read the thread like a normal poster.

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I dont want people spamming me on a clunky site

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:42

ThatBlackCat · 13/04/2026 12:29

FFS TURN OFF NOTIFICATIONS FROM YOUR SETTINGS!

Also they are replies. If you don't want to engage in a discussion on a discussion board, why come here? Stop wasting our time.

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Ive only got on quotes and updates from the OP.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:42

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 13/04/2026 12:20

Talk about Main Character Syndrome!

When I reply to your posts, I'm not just talking to you, I'm also rebutting your arguments for other readers to see how wrong you are.

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Okay. Just dont expect a response from me if you've responded to loads of them

Batties · 13/04/2026 12:41

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:07

22 notifications. Multiple from same usernames. Spoil it for yourselves.

you’re giving ‘if you can’t ask nicely you can’t have it’ vibes.

When you reply like that, all it does is highlight how little substance there is behind your argument, though, to be fair, I’m not convinced you’ve even attempted to make one.

DialSquare · 13/04/2026 12:39

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:07

22 notifications. Multiple from same usernames. Spoil it for yourselves.

This is just getting embarrassing now.

Datun · 13/04/2026 12:33

"You've really put me off by responding to me"

😁

Datun · 13/04/2026 12:32

Spoil it for yourselves.

Lol. The daft patronisation is almost comical 😁

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