FWR being trolled by a user called AidaP

Y!eah but he didnt misgender anyone so that's all good.

@BeckyAMumsnet

AidaP link to a post from another website in which he said
“fuck bigots and especially nazirowling with a splintery rolling pin”. How is that okay? Yes, he’s not written than on MN, but he has still said that to us that we should be raped in a very stealthy way.

Hope you reported 'her' to HR.

Or does HR in the generic East East not care about that sort of aggressive sexualised language in the workplace?

Just because you have a colleague who behaves like this (🤮) doesn't change the meaning

Do you think ladies wont use such language?!

You need to come to the East End.

... it's a woman. A middle aged white woman.

I take it he's been reported to HR.

Yes. It IS a rape threat because it explicitly makes it a sexual assault with a specific weapon and a specific group of people and a named person.

If it stated 'Fuck bigots' with no weapon mentioned, that is a generic expletive. It is, I believe, short for 'fuck off bigots'. It lacks specificity.

Saying 'fuck JK Rowling with a splintery rolling pin' is specifically suggesting that she should be raped with a splintery rolling pin.

I sincerely hope it's not an actual rape threat - but I do think it's the language of a man who carries a lot violent imagery in his head (the result of watching god knows what online), who mixes in circles where this sort of rape-y language is commonplace, and who carries so much hatred and vitriol for women who simply want privacy, safety and dignity in spaces where men are not allowed that he uses angry and aggressive language to try and make them feel threatened and uneasy.

The manosphere is full of them.

It’s “aggressive and bloody awful” language involving creative sexual violence imagery, from a man towards a specific woman and other women. I don’t think “rape threat” is inaccurate and I’m concerned about efforts to downplay it. I don’t want this man or any similar man anywhere near women’s spaces and people who think this kind of rhetoric is harmless and handwave it away are absolutely part of the problem. If it helps, I don’t want Glinner in women’s spaces either, or any other man.

Yes. I have a colleague who says "fuck that/them/her/him with a spiky butt plug".

@SirChenjins - thank you for posting this. What an utterly appalling post from him. I appreciate you sharing this information.

It is aggressive and bloody awful language, but I have to agree with a PP - I think saying this is a rape threat is a little bit of a stretch now that I have seen the post in question.

Of course it is a rape threat.

But anyone on Mumsnet can choose whatever user name they want as long as it's not already taken?

😂

Believe me when I say that gives me great satisfaction. If you had respected me I'd have been worried.

If I say fuck capitalists and tories with a splintered rolling pin, it isnt a rape threat. It's saying they should fuck off essentially. Did you ever see the viral reel thing of "fuck dem kids?". It was parents eseentially saying fuck their kids, I/we am/are having some adult time..it wasnt about having sex with anyone's children.

The fact you all have exaggerated this so much and now brought it to my attention that you are reaching so far has made me lose all respect for you.

I mean Glinner has posted some pretty appalling shit on Twitter yet he's welcomed on FWR with open arms.

Maybe he should be banned for what he posted elsewhere.

It's explained on page 1 of this thread.

He thinks that women with GC views should be fucked with a splintery rolling pin.

Do you mix in circles where that's a common colloquialism? Because if you do, you need better friends.

I can see why a poster can't be banned on MN for things they've said on other sites. Why are folk carrying arguments from one site to another. I don't really get this.

The username looks the same.