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FWR being trolled by a user called AidaP

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Hedgehogforshort · 08/04/2026 20:35

Hi MNHQ can you please address the issue of a certain poster called AidaP who is not participating in debate he is just trolling.

to be clear this person is a trans woman who has been convicted of violence and is posting promotion of acts of violence against women elsewhere.

in particular there is one elsewhere about using a roughly hewn rolling pin to rape women.

you realy need to look in to him it is just so not on that he is being allowed to bother us here.

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BIWI · 13/04/2026 22:21

@SpidersAreShitheads

Yes, I’d never noticed Cecilia until recently but I’ve seen her on another post, not in FWR

Yes. AS is a very valuable tool.

Hedgehogforshort · 13/04/2026 20:55

I chose not to respond to you Celia as it struck me that you would likely argue with your own shadow.

Or you are just a made up person of who knows what sex/gender/race/country of domicile.

Frankly i do not care.

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Wearenotborg · 13/04/2026 20:52

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 12:07

22 notifications. Multiple from same usernames. Spoil it for yourselves.

Is that all?

SpidersAreShitheads · 13/04/2026 20:13

FlirtsWithRhinos · 13/04/2026 16:31

FWIW I don't think GlovedhandsCecilia is targeting or attempting to disrupt FWR specifically as her approach to other topics is similar. An idiosyncratic perspective rather than bad faith.

Yes, I’d never noticed Cecilia until recently but I’ve seen her on another post, not in FWR. She was particularly unpleasant to another OP and basically accused them of lying/exaggerating/not telling the full story. Yet again, Cecilia was pretty much a lone voice as all the other replies were in complete agreement that OP had been treated abominably by their employer.

Interesting how Cecilia always seems to side with the men, no matter what they do, and is quick to unreasonably point the finger at women.

What a shock…

Btw - no need to reply to me, Cecilia. I can see it’s all so overwhelming and I wouldn’t want to add to the load. I’ve even used an abbreviation rather than tagging you to prevent those pesky notifications.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 18:46

Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 17:00

Apologies. 'Fixated'

Yes.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 18:45

WearyAuldWumman · 13/04/2026 18:40

That's not a personal attack. It's pointing out that you claim to be unable to comprehend something which is clear to everyone else.

https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/obtuse

If you have English as a second language, then that's a different matter. I know that my late father sometimes failed to understand the connotation of certain English expressions and I have difficulty with colloquialisms in his language.

Ok

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 18:45

SqueakyDoor · 13/04/2026 18:42

I hope GlovedhandsCe never tries to sell a decent mobile phone on Facebook Marketplace. Dear God, the volume of notifications.

Do you get notifications on reddit? If so, I hope they're managing to cope there too. Must be like the Blue Peter Totaliser racking up after a particularly good day. Which is nice.

I don't post on reddit.

SqueakyDoor · 13/04/2026 18:42

I hope GlovedhandsCe never tries to sell a decent mobile phone on Facebook Marketplace. Dear God, the volume of notifications.

Do you get notifications on reddit? If so, I hope they're managing to cope there too. Must be like the Blue Peter Totaliser racking up after a particularly good day. Which is nice.

WearyAuldWumman · 13/04/2026 18:40

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:56

Is that a personal attack?

That's not a personal attack. It's pointing out that you claim to be unable to comprehend something which is clear to everyone else.

https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/obtuse

If you have English as a second language, then that's a different matter. I know that my late father sometimes failed to understand the connotation of certain English expressions and I have difficulty with colloquialisms in his language.

Taztoy · 13/04/2026 17:54

This thread is illuminating.

Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 17:00

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:47

i didnt say it is aggressive. Its mainly annoying.

Apologies. 'Fixated'

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:56

BIWI · 13/04/2026 16:54

Obtuse too.

Is that a personal attack?

BIWI · 13/04/2026 16:54

Obtuse too.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:52

BIWI · 13/04/2026 16:50

Not much understanding going on though.

No i dont understand interpreting that statement that way.

BIWI · 13/04/2026 16:50

Not much understanding going on though.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:49

Waitingfordoggo · 13/04/2026 16:43

That isn’t what I said. Seems you didn’t read or didn’t understand my posts. I said that it’s great that you realise TW are men. And then I said I couldn’t understand why you were defending Aida so vehemently when a large proportion of posters here are threatened and insulted by Aida’s language. I said it was a strange hill to die on… as in, why waste so many hours trying to convince strangers on the internet that they shouldn’t feel threatened by someone’s language (because you’re not going to be able to convince strangers of that, even with your anecdote about a person you know who says people should fuck themselves with a spiky butt plug, which is also a highly offensive thing to say and not something I’d want to hear in the workplace). I wonder at your motivation in trying to persuade us that Aida’s words are just banter.

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Im not trying to convince anyone of anything. I just shared my interpretation and tried to understand theirs.

Waitingfordoggo · 13/04/2026 16:48

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 15:22

I dont think i am in the minority. I just think you are very invested in seeing the worst in anything a trans person says. If you read other threads about this thread on the Internet, you'll see other people disagree with you, too. Irrespective of whether they think.l TWAW or TWAM. They think this is a reach.

It doesn’t matter to me whether other people that I don’t know think it’s ’a reach’.

I don’t want to spend time in a message board with a man who says things like that. I don’t want to hear men use threatening language against women. I find it threatening and so do plenty of others.

You and some others don’t find it threatening. So what? That doesn’t change how I feel. It doesn’t matter whether the person saying it has a trans identity or is GC or somewhere in between. The language is threatening whoever it comes from.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:48

Datun · 13/04/2026 16:44

It's responding to you, though. It's a mutual interaction.

You have no idea what's in the comments, either, as you don't read them.

I know.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:47

Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 16:45

So ... a poster interacts with others posts on a thread, sometimes more than one post at a time causing numerous notifications to be sent, and this is ok but when others do it to them it is aggressive behaviour?

i didnt say it is aggressive. Its mainly annoying.

Datun · 13/04/2026 16:45

FlirtsWithRhinos · 13/04/2026 16:31

FWIW I don't think GlovedhandsCecilia is targeting or attempting to disrupt FWR specifically as her approach to other topics is similar. An idiosyncratic perspective rather than bad faith.

Got it.

Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 16:45

So ... a poster interacts with others posts on a thread, sometimes more than one post at a time causing numerous notifications to be sent, and this is ok but when others do it to them it is aggressive behaviour?

Datun · 13/04/2026 16:44

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:34

It is spamming my notifications when I have twenty of them.

It's responding to you, though. It's a mutual interaction.

You have no idea what's in the comments, either, as you don't read them.

Waitingfordoggo · 13/04/2026 16:43

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 15:18

Its the argument that someone came with. They said its weird that I think TWAM but defend Aida's language. I dont see how the two sre remotely related. Do you?

That isn’t what I said. Seems you didn’t read or didn’t understand my posts. I said that it’s great that you realise TW are men. And then I said I couldn’t understand why you were defending Aida so vehemently when a large proportion of posters here are threatened and insulted by Aida’s language. I said it was a strange hill to die on… as in, why waste so many hours trying to convince strangers on the internet that they shouldn’t feel threatened by someone’s language (because you’re not going to be able to convince strangers of that, even with your anecdote about a person you know who says people should fuck themselves with a spiky butt plug, which is also a highly offensive thing to say and not something I’d want to hear in the workplace). I wonder at your motivation in trying to persuade us that Aida’s words are just banter.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:37

Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 15:48

"I was the one who said it was banter so it was about how I interpreted Aida's comment. Then poster then.suggested that as we are both boys, we will agree."

"If you're going to gaslight, at least be good at it."

Have you confused the posters? Because what you have just written is not what SirChenjins said. The 'boy' in what SirChenjins post is clearly Aida, the person who made the rape suggestion in the first place.

Perhaps you need to stop personally attacking posters.

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Ok

GlovedhandsCecilia · 13/04/2026 16:36

Helleofabore · 13/04/2026 15:43

No.. we know. We understand.

You are here to tell us your opinion and then complain when people interact with your opinion. And generally seem keen to tell us how wrong we are without really giving any coherent reasons why.

We get it.

Why do you need to interact with my opinion? It isnt my thread.