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Racist thread

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ThejoyofNC · 10/08/2025 19:34

There is a thread running in AIBU where people are being openly and freely racist. You've already deleted several posts on there so you're aware of it. Why are you allowing it to run?

Also why do you allow racism against travellers on here?

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PhilippaGeorgiou · 11/08/2025 11:47

C8H10N4O2 · 11/08/2025 11:36

@PandoraSocks started a thread “Concerns about racism” in Site Stuff a few days ago - it rapidly filled up, not least because of concerted efforts to derail the thread with half truths and disinformation. Those posts were mostly carefully worded - in isolation most would pass a quick look.

The threads which inspire these discussions in Site Stuff are being overloaded by volume posters of half truth and disinformation which is largely left to stand. Some of these posters are posting at the rate of a 100 posts a day around the clock whilst ostensibly looking after a couple of DC and a full time job. They are not just one liners either but the bulk of posts are on “political” threads with a few odd posts to other topics.

How do you monitoring hyper active posters like this, where individual posts carefully sit inside the rules whilst spreading disinformation at volume? What steps do you have in place to detect shills and deal with them lobbying on a topic?

“Challenge on thread” assumes most posters are (a) genuine users (b) posting in good faith. In the case of protected characteristics it also says “justify your existence in this place”.

Some of these posters are posting at the rate of a 100 posts a day around the clock whilst ostensibly looking after a couple of DC and a full time job. They are not just one liners either but the bulk of posts are on “political” threads with a few odd posts to other topics.

And a great number of them - I can name three right this second without even thinking about it, and I rarely even notice user names - are having multiple posts banned on multiple threads over weeks and weeks and have not been banned or even suspended.

If I can see that how do moderators, whose job it is to spot such things and deal with them, manage to constantly miss it?

Anyway - they'll all be along with their racist "it's free speech" malarkey any minute now and this thread will turn into another echochamber of racism unchallenged by MNHQ.

GameWheelsAlarm · 11/08/2025 11:44

@sesquipedalian can you see that it would be racist to say "a family of black people came to stay in our village and left behind an enormous amount of rubbish that cost the council a huge amount to clear up" - the fact that they left a lot of rubbish would be true but is not due to the race of the people in question. It is because they are antisocial people. Phrasing the statement to include information about their race implicitly attributes their behaviour to their race. Prefacing the racist statement with "I have nothing against black people but..." does not stop it from being racist. The issue is the behaviour so talk about the behaviour without reference to race.

FlyRedRobin · 11/08/2025 11:43

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FlyRedRobin · 11/08/2025 11:37

She had her reasons to settle down and married from outside her community so she does have some negative perception based on her own lived in experience.

C8H10N4O2 · 11/08/2025 11:36

KellyMumsnet · 11/08/2025 09:53

Hi there @ThejoyofNC.

It wasn't really a case of 'knowing it was happening and letting it carry on'. The thread you refer to in itself did not break Talk guidelines. We take racism very seriously but that doesn not mean that certain topics can never be discussed at all; we would always look at the thread as a whole and delete any posts that did constitute racism or break our guidelines in other ways.

In this case, we were receiving a huge number of reports across a period of several hours and there were many other threads that also required pretty immediate attention. During that time we deleted many posts on the thread and behind the scenes had taken other action, including banning some posters and contacting others off the boards.

While reports like this are coming in, we're always keeping an eye on whether the balance of a thread has tipped enough to require it being removed completely. In this case, we'd say that balance was nearing tipping point anyway when the OP asked that the thread be removed completely, and at that point we agreed it was for the best for it to go.

We understand that it may feel like you are reporting and not much is happening, but behind the scenes there is a lot more than that going on. We'll always delete racism and did so here, but where a thread in itself is not racist, we try to allow a conversation to happen while moderating in hopes that the thread can remain on track. In this case, as we say, it only became unsalvageable a good few hours in, and at that point we made the decision but we don't think it benefits anyone or changes hearts and minds for us to delete threads before they hit that (sometimes delicate) tipping point.

We hope that explains things a bit further. And we hope it also goes to show that your reports really are useful. While we moderate by our Talk guidelines, it's often the reports coming in that allow us to see when a thread starts to tip over into deletion territory and it looks like that was certainly the case last night, so thank you.

@PandoraSocks started a thread “Concerns about racism” in Site Stuff a few days ago - it rapidly filled up, not least because of concerted efforts to derail the thread with half truths and disinformation. Those posts were mostly carefully worded - in isolation most would pass a quick look.

The threads which inspire these discussions in Site Stuff are being overloaded by volume posters of half truth and disinformation which is largely left to stand. Some of these posters are posting at the rate of a 100 posts a day around the clock whilst ostensibly looking after a couple of DC and a full time job. They are not just one liners either but the bulk of posts are on “political” threads with a few odd posts to other topics.

How do you monitoring hyper active posters like this, where individual posts carefully sit inside the rules whilst spreading disinformation at volume? What steps do you have in place to detect shills and deal with them lobbying on a topic?

“Challenge on thread” assumes most posters are (a) genuine users (b) posting in good faith. In the case of protected characteristics it also says “justify your existence in this place”.

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 11:29

HappySummerDays · 11/08/2025 10:46

I read the post where the poster was saying her friend (or possibly a friend of a friend) is a nurse in A and E and someone came in who had been kidnapped and his penis was cut off and thrown out of the car window. Surely that would have been headline news??

That is what was being posted on that thread.

Sorry but 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Good grief, some posters really are incredibly gullible, aren’t they?

Agree, that would have been the DM’s headlines sorted for a year.

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/08/2025 11:26

Hear, hear. So much misinformation, inaccuracies and straightforward bile.

ThejoyofNC · 11/08/2025 11:24

FlyRedRobin · 11/08/2025 11:07

My lovely neighbour is from a traveling community before she settled down. But she acknowledges that the majority can be problematic. Is she racist against her own people then?

She says the majority of travellers are problematic does she? I don't believe it. I don't know a single gypsy or traveller who would say that.

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FlyRedRobin · 11/08/2025 11:11

cardibach · 11/08/2025 11:10

Acknowledges? Or finds it easier to agree with everyone else for a quiet life?
Ive taught quite a few traveller children in various schools. That’s not a view of the community I’d share.

She's a very outspoken lady. Trust me there is nothing quiet about her 😂

cardibach · 11/08/2025 11:10

FlyRedRobin · 11/08/2025 11:07

My lovely neighbour is from a traveling community before she settled down. But she acknowledges that the majority can be problematic. Is she racist against her own people then?

Acknowledges? Or finds it easier to agree with everyone else for a quiet life?
Ive taught quite a few traveller children in various schools. That’s not a view of the community I’d share.

FlyRedRobin · 11/08/2025 11:07

My lovely neighbour is from a traveling community before she settled down. But she acknowledges that the majority can be problematic. Is she racist against her own people then?

ThejoyofNC · 11/08/2025 11:02

That's actually incorrect @sesquipedalian I didn't accuse the OP of racism. It was the swarm of posters who had their posts deleted for that reason.

Of course it's not racist to talk about a bad encounter you've had with a person from a certain ethnicity. It does however cross over into racism when you use that encounter to judge the entirety of that ethnic group negatively.

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ThejoyofNC · 11/08/2025 10:59

KellyMumsnet · 11/08/2025 09:53

Hi there @ThejoyofNC.

It wasn't really a case of 'knowing it was happening and letting it carry on'. The thread you refer to in itself did not break Talk guidelines. We take racism very seriously but that doesn not mean that certain topics can never be discussed at all; we would always look at the thread as a whole and delete any posts that did constitute racism or break our guidelines in other ways.

In this case, we were receiving a huge number of reports across a period of several hours and there were many other threads that also required pretty immediate attention. During that time we deleted many posts on the thread and behind the scenes had taken other action, including banning some posters and contacting others off the boards.

While reports like this are coming in, we're always keeping an eye on whether the balance of a thread has tipped enough to require it being removed completely. In this case, we'd say that balance was nearing tipping point anyway when the OP asked that the thread be removed completely, and at that point we agreed it was for the best for it to go.

We understand that it may feel like you are reporting and not much is happening, but behind the scenes there is a lot more than that going on. We'll always delete racism and did so here, but where a thread in itself is not racist, we try to allow a conversation to happen while moderating in hopes that the thread can remain on track. In this case, as we say, it only became unsalvageable a good few hours in, and at that point we made the decision but we don't think it benefits anyone or changes hearts and minds for us to delete threads before they hit that (sometimes delicate) tipping point.

We hope that explains things a bit further. And we hope it also goes to show that your reports really are useful. While we moderate by our Talk guidelines, it's often the reports coming in that allow us to see when a thread starts to tip over into deletion territory and it looks like that was certainly the case last night, so thank you.

Thanks for your response.

I think we're probably going to have to agree to disagree about the intentions of the thread. It was heavily saturated with racist posts right from the first page and I don't think that could have happened without the OP inviting it.

I certainly don't think any topic is above discussion, quite the opposite in fact. It just so happens that racism against gypsies and travellers is the last openly acceptable form of racism in society and people have absolutely no shame expressing disgusting views based on stereotypes, prejudice and assumptions.

I'd be glad to assist you if you are ever interested in exploring the reality of modern day traveller life on your site.

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HappySummerDays · 11/08/2025 10:46

I read the post where the poster was saying her friend (or possibly a friend of a friend) is a nurse in A and E and someone came in who had been kidnapped and his penis was cut off and thrown out of the car window. Surely that would have been headline news??

That is what was being posted on that thread.

PandoraSocks · 11/08/2025 10:42

If she had complained about, say, an elderly next door neighbour, you wouldn’t immediately have leapt to the conclusion that she was implying that all elderly neighbours are a pain. I don’t know what else was said on the thread: I read it fairly early on

But you wouldn't have a pile on dehumanising all elderley neighbours, making them all out to be criminals who run around smearing shit everywhere and cutting off each other's willies.

Which is exactly what happened. It happens on every thread about travellers and I suspect OP knew that.

PandoraSocks · 11/08/2025 10:39

But when is the precise point that right wing views become unacceptably “far right”

I think when it gets to the point of pushing for remigration and a white ethnostate, subtly encouraging the idea of unrest and pushing racist conspiracy theories m, a line hs been crossed.

YMMV.

cardibach · 11/08/2025 10:32

sesquipedalian · 11/08/2025 10:18

OP, is it racist to point out something that is true? I could say, for example, that travellers came and stayed for three days at a town near where I live, and left behind an enormous amount of rubbish that cost the council (ie taxpayer) a huge amount to clear up. Is stating that racist? Or is it legitimate to allow a discussion? I will always come out on the side of free speech, not least because it allows people to show who they are. In the now deleted post, the OP made reference to two unpleasant boys who happened to be travellers, and you leapt on that and said it was “racist” because it implied (your word) that all travellers were likely to be ill-behaved humbugs. But that was your interpretation. If she had complained about, say, an elderly next door neighbour, you wouldn’t immediately have leapt to the conclusion that she was implying that all elderly neighbours are a pain. I don’t know what else was said on the thread: I read it fairly early on.
@ PandoraSocks -
Racism is rightly unacceptable. But when is the precise point that right wing views become unacceptably “far right”? We are all entitled to our opinions, and the fact that I may disagree with your opinion does not mean that you don’t have an absolute right to express it.

It would not be racist to report on one incident (if true, obvs). To then say something that suggested all travellers were doing the same starts to tip into racism in my opinion. That generalisation of one person/subset’s actions to the whole racial group.

sesquipedalian · 11/08/2025 10:18

OP, is it racist to point out something that is true? I could say, for example, that travellers came and stayed for three days at a town near where I live, and left behind an enormous amount of rubbish that cost the council (ie taxpayer) a huge amount to clear up. Is stating that racist? Or is it legitimate to allow a discussion? I will always come out on the side of free speech, not least because it allows people to show who they are. In the now deleted post, the OP made reference to two unpleasant boys who happened to be travellers, and you leapt on that and said it was “racist” because it implied (your word) that all travellers were likely to be ill-behaved humbugs. But that was your interpretation. If she had complained about, say, an elderly next door neighbour, you wouldn’t immediately have leapt to the conclusion that she was implying that all elderly neighbours are a pain. I don’t know what else was said on the thread: I read it fairly early on.
@ PandoraSocks -
Racism is rightly unacceptable. But when is the precise point that right wing views become unacceptably “far right”? We are all entitled to our opinions, and the fact that I may disagree with your opinion does not mean that you don’t have an absolute right to express it.

PandoraSocks · 11/08/2025 10:04

We take racism very seriously

Yet that thread was allowed to carry for a long time.

Plus there are posters spamming the boards with racism and far right rhetoric, all allowed to flourish.

GreySkySummer · 11/08/2025 09:58

@KellyMumsnet the op in her very first post heavily implied the bad behaviour was linked to them being travellers.

i think she caveated it with something like “I’ve got nothing against travellers” does that excuse the racism?

KellyMumsnet · 11/08/2025 09:53

Hi there @ThejoyofNC.

It wasn't really a case of 'knowing it was happening and letting it carry on'. The thread you refer to in itself did not break Talk guidelines. We take racism very seriously but that doesn not mean that certain topics can never be discussed at all; we would always look at the thread as a whole and delete any posts that did constitute racism or break our guidelines in other ways.

In this case, we were receiving a huge number of reports across a period of several hours and there were many other threads that also required pretty immediate attention. During that time we deleted many posts on the thread and behind the scenes had taken other action, including banning some posters and contacting others off the boards.

While reports like this are coming in, we're always keeping an eye on whether the balance of a thread has tipped enough to require it being removed completely. In this case, we'd say that balance was nearing tipping point anyway when the OP asked that the thread be removed completely, and at that point we agreed it was for the best for it to go.

We understand that it may feel like you are reporting and not much is happening, but behind the scenes there is a lot more than that going on. We'll always delete racism and did so here, but where a thread in itself is not racist, we try to allow a conversation to happen while moderating in hopes that the thread can remain on track. In this case, as we say, it only became unsalvageable a good few hours in, and at that point we made the decision but we don't think it benefits anyone or changes hearts and minds for us to delete threads before they hit that (sometimes delicate) tipping point.

We hope that explains things a bit further. And we hope it also goes to show that your reports really are useful. While we moderate by our Talk guidelines, it's often the reports coming in that allow us to see when a thread starts to tip over into deletion territory and it looks like that was certainly the case last night, so thank you.

ThejoyofNC · 11/08/2025 05:49

HappySummerDays · 10/08/2025 22:37

Gone at last - at the op’s request 🙄

Absolutely unbelievable.

@mnhq are you going to explain yourselves? You knew this was happening for several hours and just let it carry on

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HappySummerDays · 10/08/2025 22:37

Gone at last - at the op’s request 🙄

ThejoyofNC · 10/08/2025 21:33

@mnhq it's still going on

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ThejoyofNC · 10/08/2025 20:28

Sparklybutold · 10/08/2025 20:20

Have you reported it OP? Otherwise it’s very difficult knowing which one you feel is racist?

I've reported no end of posts and they've been deleting them so they're fully aware

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