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Full page (gross) Ann Summers adverts

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JustSayWhen · 27/07/2025 10:16

I've added a picture, though I don't know if it will be allowed. Ann Summers adverts have been popping up mid thread for a few days, mostly pictures of women in thongs and stockings from behind though also a model with crosses over her nips in some sheer thing. It's so embarrassing if I'm browsing MN in the queue for Pilates or at a coffee shop and someone looks over my shoulder and sees these tacky, porny images.

I thought ads were targeted but I have never visited the Ann Summers site in my life and never would - it's all nasty polyester, I feel itchy just seeing the adverts. I'm surprised ads featuring naked bums are ok on Mumsnet - it's really putting me off scrolling! Shouldn't they be blocked?

Full page (gross) Ann Summers adverts
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Nevertrustacop · 28/07/2025 09:54

So have they gone yet Mumsnet? And if not could you at least just put them in sex or even 'style and beauty' threads?
They really shouldn't be appearing in 'Life limiting illnesses'

LillyPJ · 28/07/2025 08:49

I ignore all adverts on here and elsewhere on the web. I don't even notice what they're for. The Ann Summers ones stood out because I don't generally have a bare arse pointing at me from my phone so I was a bit taken aback. I know it's not related to any scrolling I've done recently so I just wondered why they'd suddenly appeared or if everybody was getting the same ones.

Coffeeishot · 28/07/2025 08:29

Jennyathemall · 28/07/2025 07:04

I’m sorry but if you are having this kind of strong reaction to lingerie adds then you’ve got bigger issues. I get them. I see them. I dont think they are “GROSS!!” or even tacky. Certainly not “porn”. You find it offensive because for whatever reason you find the idea of dressing up sexy for a man to be
offensive. Well guess what, the majority of us, those who have a healthy relationship with sex, don’t. You don’t get to police the world to make it conform to your twisted vision of how things should be.

I don't find sex offensive i don't even think Anne Summers is offensive, what i do find inappropiate is scrolling mumsnet and having half my phone screen obscured by an advert featuring maid in suspenders outfits or thongs and bra adds, .we are all "told" that we must be sex positive blah blah but surely there is a time and place, i get mumsnet is a business and needs advertisers and AS has a deal with mumsnet but my forgive me if i don't like "sexy nurses" to be included in my scrolling and reading.

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 28/07/2025 08:04

Jennyathemall · 28/07/2025 07:04

I’m sorry but if you are having this kind of strong reaction to lingerie adds then you’ve got bigger issues. I get them. I see them. I dont think they are “GROSS!!” or even tacky. Certainly not “porn”. You find it offensive because for whatever reason you find the idea of dressing up sexy for a man to be
offensive. Well guess what, the majority of us, those who have a healthy relationship with sex, don’t. You don’t get to police the world to make it conform to your twisted vision of how things should be.

You can do whatever you want in the privacy of your own bedroom. Your post misses the point entirely.
Oh and others have said, bore off with the "sexually suppressed" crap.

NaiveDuck · 28/07/2025 07:42

Jennyathemall · 28/07/2025 07:04

I’m sorry but if you are having this kind of strong reaction to lingerie adds then you’ve got bigger issues. I get them. I see them. I dont think they are “GROSS!!” or even tacky. Certainly not “porn”. You find it offensive because for whatever reason you find the idea of dressing up sexy for a man to be
offensive. Well guess what, the majority of us, those who have a healthy relationship with sex, don’t. You don’t get to police the world to make it conform to your twisted vision of how things should be.

These types of 'ads' appear in Playboy and in XXX pornographic sites as well as sex stores.

How are they not pornographic, @Jennyathemall ? We're talking about them being placed on a general website where teens and even young children may come across while their mum is browsing on here, not a site where you have to have age check to enter. A general site. I think I speak for the overwhelming majority of people, both female and male, when I say it is entirely inappropriate for these 'ads' to appear on this family site.

RedSeven · 28/07/2025 07:31

Nanny0gg · 27/07/2025 10:50

Post on site stuff

I had vaping ads and MN have sorted them for me

You complained about vaping adds.... 😂😂😂

CaptainMyCaptain · 28/07/2025 07:07

Coffeeishot · 27/07/2025 10:24

Well it is sexy underwear the op is objecting to really not the women wearing it, i dont think we have to be bombarded with suspenders and peephole bras .

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I agree.

Jennyathemall · 28/07/2025 07:04

I’m sorry but if you are having this kind of strong reaction to lingerie adds then you’ve got bigger issues. I get them. I see them. I dont think they are “GROSS!!” or even tacky. Certainly not “porn”. You find it offensive because for whatever reason you find the idea of dressing up sexy for a man to be
offensive. Well guess what, the majority of us, those who have a healthy relationship with sex, don’t. You don’t get to police the world to make it conform to your twisted vision of how things should be.

Morgenrot25 · 28/07/2025 06:51

DoneitagainhaventI · 27/07/2025 10:19

Totally agree with you OP.
I wondered why I was getting these adverts too.
I find them really distasteful and inappropriate.

I saw them too.
The appeared for me after I'd looked at the 'return the favour' thread, where the OP went on to reveal thatbshe was in a sub/dom relationship. 🫣

NaiveDuck · 28/07/2025 06:41

StMarie4me · 27/07/2025 10:21

Why do women’s bodies offend you? Why are they ‘gross’?

Why do you think these pornographic ads should be on here, @StMarie4me ?

LillyPJ · 28/07/2025 06:24

Cam1981 · 27/07/2025 10:28

So we are not allowed to dress sexy to turn men on. Or feel sexy for ourselves

Of course you are. We just don't want to be bombarded with photos of you in those outfits.

U53rn8m3ch8ng3 · 28/07/2025 06:13

StMarie4me · 27/07/2025 10:21

Why do women’s bodies offend you? Why are they ‘gross’?

Oh bore off. You know full well that isn't what Op said.

Studyunder · 28/07/2025 03:58

I was confused today when my screen was suddenly filled with bums and stockings so this post is reassuring!

Studyunder · 28/07/2025 03:55

I was confused today when my entire screen was suddenly filled bums and stockings so this is reassuring!
It’s definitely a step too far with the pop up ads.

JustSayWhen · 28/07/2025 03:04

MsDDxx · 28/07/2025 00:45

🙌

I think there’s sadly a lot of sexual repression out there. Sex is meant to be fun! I don’t understand all the disgust. This is a site for adults (originally targeting adult women) and as a lot of women on here have children, you can assume a lot of us are sexually active or were at one time. It’s just an advert for fun underwear. It’s not meant to be offensive.

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It has nothing to do with sexual repression. If you're reading a thread about the suffering in Gaza, a full page picture of a woman's arses feels jarring and out of place. Being sexually active doesn't mean you lose all sense of when things are and aren't appropriate.

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IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 28/07/2025 01:08

MsDDxx · 28/07/2025 00:45

🙌

I think there’s sadly a lot of sexual repression out there. Sex is meant to be fun! I don’t understand all the disgust. This is a site for adults (originally targeting adult women) and as a lot of women on here have children, you can assume a lot of us are sexually active or were at one time. It’s just an advert for fun underwear. It’s not meant to be offensive.

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They adverts reminded me of what used to be on the cover of what became known as "top shelf magazines" and which have pretty much disappeared from newsagents. They were horrible when they were on open display.

If you don't understand "the disgust" there's probably little point in attempting to explain.

No one is objecting because they think sex is disgusting. I'm objecting because I don't want to open up threads MN [ the Archers' thread was being taken over by them] and see a naked arse or a woman trussed up in a "sexy maid's outfit" and stockings. If I wanted to see pornographic images [I don't btw] there are plenty of places I could go.

Oh and it's so boring that anyone who isn't cool with crap like Ann Summers must be sexually repressed. The stuff is just so naff.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 28/07/2025 01:02

I never get them! Maybe the algorithm has worked out I currently have nonllve life

MyQuirkyTraybake · 28/07/2025 01:02

StMarie4me · 27/07/2025 10:21

Why do women’s bodies offend you? Why are they ‘gross’?

The maids outfit. Really? You don't think this is sexualising and gross?

I'm completely baffled why you can't see that this is wrong.

DiscoBeat · 28/07/2025 00:52

I saw them and it didn't occur to me that it was anything more than a well known store advertising to a mainly female audience, it doesn't bother me, I just scrolled on and didn't think about it until your post. I don't think they're particularly daring outfits (maybe a bit silly with the maid one).

MsDDxx · 28/07/2025 00:45

IZK · 27/07/2025 22:03

According to Google, Ann Summer's turnover last year was £93 million, so it seems not everyone is offended.

🙌

I think there’s sadly a lot of sexual repression out there. Sex is meant to be fun! I don’t understand all the disgust. This is a site for adults (originally targeting adult women) and as a lot of women on here have children, you can assume a lot of us are sexually active or were at one time. It’s just an advert for fun underwear. It’s not meant to be offensive.

Twinkletoes127 · 28/07/2025 00:37

DoneitagainhaventI · 27/07/2025 10:30

I fail to see what is sexy about Anne Summers underwear.
All it does is make the wearer look ridiculous and desperate.

That is your opinion, I however love dressing up and wear similar things to this, and I do not look at all ridiculous

MsDDxx · 28/07/2025 00:35

DoneitagainhaventI · 27/07/2025 10:26

Wonen's bodies aren't gross.
Trussing them up in cheap and nasty underwear so they can fulfil male fantasies is though.
Women bodies presented as pieces of meat is offensive.

Actually, perhaps an odd concept to some, dressing up in nice lingerie makes me feel really hot and sexy. It’s not just for the benefit of men you know! I just wish my DH would buy me some as a gift or encourage me to wear it, but HE doesn’t like it. I wear it purely for ME.

MsDDxx · 28/07/2025 00:32

IMissSparkling · 27/07/2025 10:24

Good God. Won't someone think of the Pilates queue?! 😂

🤣🤣

MsDDxx · 28/07/2025 00:31

StMarie4me · 27/07/2025 10:21

Why do women’s bodies offend you? Why are they ‘gross’?

This.

It’s bizarre. It’s not the 1800s.

It’s actually the only advert I’ve ever liked 😂

Nevertrustacop · 27/07/2025 23:55

Yup I don't want these either. That said I'm glad it's not just me. I've has these all over some poor person's thread about dementia and they are offensive, especially when someone is looking for serious advice at one of the worst times of their lives.