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Probably been said before, but an area just for Trans issues?

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DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 26/04/2025 00:05

Could there be an area just for trans issues please?

Whatever one thinks of it, there are so so many threads on it and with the recent court ruling, at least some of this issue is now going to be decided.

This issue is unfortunately a major societal one now, but the Supreme Court ruling has been made, and the immediate reactions have taken place.

There are so many threads on it. It's taking over and it's hard to escape the conclusion that some of the threads are started, or kept high up on the front pages of various sections, by trans rights activists who are not taking the Supreme Court ruling with grace. It's playing into the hands of people who frankly seem to be posting with their own agenda and it's not always one of goodwill or genuine discourse.

Please could we at least have a section where the multiple, often repeated, threads this issue can go? It's time for that now.

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Couleur · 28/04/2025 01:21

Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/04/2025 15:16

It isn’t though.

So do you think then a board dedicated to discussing lawnmowers can be an echo chamber?

Helleofabore · 27/04/2025 16:28

Screamingabdabz · 26/04/2025 00:32

I would love it if people didn’t lazily claim things are ‘transphobic’ or ‘anti-trans’ when women are just talking about their rights, safety and dignity. If establishing sensible protections for girls and women is distressing to you, no amount of silencing women or censorship will satisfy you.

Quite right Screamingabdabz

What is also remarkable is to see people declare they wish to post on feminist issues yet don’t realise there is a completely separate board for it.

People’s ability to scroll past threads they don’t want to interact with so MN have to personally curate AIBU based on their preference is tired and old.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/04/2025 15:20

Couleur · 27/04/2025 12:56

Otherwise known as ‘alternative viewpoints’ as anyone with those are usually called a TRA? Or a male, or uneducated, not a feminist, mentally defective, a child abuser - until they leave the forum.

That’s an echo chamber. And a toxic one at that.

FWR is not a “toxic echo chamber”, but it’s a feminist board that centres female sex based rights. If people don’t like its tone, they can choose whether to contribute or not. Just like any other online community, particularly one that gets targeted by activists for disruption.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/04/2025 15:16

Couleur · 27/04/2025 13:14

I’d think it would be particularly specific to topics like ideologies, politics and religion - things centred around our ideas of identity and our in- and out- groups.

It isn’t though.

popeydokey · 27/04/2025 13:27

The thing is, it takes one person out of thousands to say "you're not a real feminist" or "you are smelly" and then it's true to say "I posted a disagreement in FWR and was called smelly".

"Being called" a thing on a forum of thousands doesn't mean that that's the prevailing view, or that everyone says it, or that everyone thinks it. There are loads of views expressed and tbh if you think you need to agree with all of them, or they all need to be not on the wind-up, in order to even read the threads then perhaps large forums just aren't for you.

I've been on FWR for years and have "been called" a man, a liar, all sorts by individual posters that didn't understand what I was saying, or were a bit nuts, or just vehemently disagreed with me.

What I didn't do was refuse to engage and decide that everyone thinks I'm a man so it's an echo chamber. And because of that I've learned a lot about my own views and others'. That's not for everyone, sure. Lots of people are uncomfortable really interrogating and clarifying their own position on a topic.

UpsideDownChairs · 27/04/2025 13:23

Couleur · 27/04/2025 12:56

Otherwise known as ‘alternative viewpoints’ as anyone with those are usually called a TRA? Or a male, or uneducated, not a feminist, mentally defective, a child abuser - until they leave the forum.

That’s an echo chamber. And a toxic one at that.

They're allowed to be there, nothing's stopping them posting.

Unlike reddit for instance, which ran all the GC subs off the platform, and bans women left, right, and centre.

Couleur · 27/04/2025 13:14

Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/04/2025 09:23

And pretty much every subreddit or Facebook group. It’s the nature of much of social media.

I’d think it would be particularly specific to topics like ideologies, politics and religion - things centred around our ideas of identity and our in- and out- groups.

Couleur · 27/04/2025 13:00

Skepticalsausage · 27/04/2025 07:20

You’ve clearly never encountered the fights that break out on FWR even between GC women, let alone with TRAs who regularly post there.

Well, not so. I’ve been part of a fair few and even (ahem) started them.

Couleur · 27/04/2025 12:56

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 06:42

Not at all because trans activists are in FWR.

Otherwise known as ‘alternative viewpoints’ as anyone with those are usually called a TRA? Or a male, or uneducated, not a feminist, mentally defective, a child abuser - until they leave the forum.

That’s an echo chamber. And a toxic one at that.

UpsideDownChairs · 27/04/2025 12:01

The sex and gender board was forced on FWR (as it used to be known) - they didn't ask for it.

UpsideDownChairs · 27/04/2025 11:58

TY78910 · 27/04/2025 09:41

I think this response frames what my points are very well. This thread is about whether trans topics should have their own category on MN, not a debate about transgender people. Yet in many responses, posters feel the need to bring in individual beliefs. You’ll notice that in all my posts I’ve referred to being nasty to an opposing point of view, not giving you a particular argument about anything, yet you felt the need to list all your feelings on the transgender debate.

I gave examples to illustrate my point - just like you did.

You specifically asked what was offensive, so I gave you one example. You gave an example about a thread, I explained why that was a poor example.

Seems to me you just want to control who's allowed to say what, and how they say it.

AnSolas · 27/04/2025 11:16

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 27/04/2025 10:52

Who? Her or me?

If it's me, that poster seems to be quite sure of how I feel - 'scared of the issue' and asking 'why shouldn't it be discussed' as if I was saying it shouldn't.

Neither of which are remotely true.

So I'm afraid her post is indeed nonsense, and that woman has rather a problem with extrapolating other people's perspectives too far. If you meant my post is nonsense, you've frankly got a major problem yourself.

A very few people on this thread seem to have actually got what I meant in the first place. When you see how the whole thing has gone, the (wilful?) misunderstandings and the polarized viewpoints, it is mildly bizarre.

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A very few people on this thread seem to have actually got what I meant in the first place. When you see how the whole thing has gone, the (wilful?) misunderstandings and the polarized viewpoints, it is mildly bizarre.]

Or some dont see the SC case as a trans issue as it creates a rather important bit of case law about how the lower courts should read individual laws.

If the ruling said that the word woman should read male person as well as female person people would be asking or even demanding threads be moved to womens rights.

AnSolas · 27/04/2025 11:00

LastTrainsEast · 27/04/2025 09:42

Whatever happens I hope we get to find out what this means.

"The extremely narrow definition of human, women, gay here at mumsnet."

Seconded 👍

AnSolas · 27/04/2025 10:56

Unitarily · 27/04/2025 10:39

Oh I see. I think that would be lgbt board then.

Personally as a feminist I don’t get involved in that board especially if individual posting. If TRA threads started up then I probably would end up in a biscuit throwing fight.

Yep
Adding a General Chat section which allowed topic specific political activism.

I clicked and reported a trending thread last night on the LGBT child board from someone claiming to be a teen looking for private contact via email. From the speed of MNs reaction multiple other posters spotted and reported it too.

If it had been a poster wanting to chat on MN i would have ignored it and clicked back out.

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 27/04/2025 10:52

Who? Her or me?

If it's me, that poster seems to be quite sure of how I feel - 'scared of the issue' and asking 'why shouldn't it be discussed' as if I was saying it shouldn't.

Neither of which are remotely true.

So I'm afraid her post is indeed nonsense, and that woman has rather a problem with extrapolating other people's perspectives too far. If you meant my post is nonsense, you've frankly got a major problem yourself.

A very few people on this thread seem to have actually got what I meant in the first place. When you see how the whole thing has gone, the (wilful?) misunderstandings and the polarized viewpoints, it is mildly bizarre.

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Newmumhere40 · 27/04/2025 10:45

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 27/04/2025 10:41

You are making inaccurate assumptions and rather a lot of them.

What a load of nonsense 🤣

Newmumhere40 · 27/04/2025 10:43

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 26/04/2025 00:05

Could there be an area just for trans issues please?

Whatever one thinks of it, there are so so many threads on it and with the recent court ruling, at least some of this issue is now going to be decided.

This issue is unfortunately a major societal one now, but the Supreme Court ruling has been made, and the immediate reactions have taken place.

There are so many threads on it. It's taking over and it's hard to escape the conclusion that some of the threads are started, or kept high up on the front pages of various sections, by trans rights activists who are not taking the Supreme Court ruling with grace. It's playing into the hands of people who frankly seem to be posting with their own agenda and it's not always one of goodwill or genuine discourse.

Please could we at least have a section where the multiple, often repeated, threads this issue can go? It's time for that now.

Why is this a major issue when it affects such a minute percentage of the population? Don't you think there's a reason behind the masses of coverage? People are so blind.

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 27/04/2025 10:41

LittleBigHead · 27/04/2025 07:13

This issue is unfortunately a major societal one now, but the Supreme Court ruling has been made, and the immediate reactions have taken place.

Yes, it is a major social issues, with important consequences for the sex-based rights of women and girls, and their safety , dignity, and privacy. It is also a major social issue because of the ciolence threatened or acted on towards women who speak up about the issue - death threts, physical atacks, job & freelance work losses.

So why shouldn't it be discussed widely, and through a lot of differing points of view?

Why are you so scared of the issue, and why don't you see how it affects every single woman fundamentally. I don't want a group of men who think they know what it is to be a woman, telling me that I don't know - which is what the trans lobby has been saying.

You are making inaccurate assumptions and rather a lot of them.

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Unitarily · 27/04/2025 10:39

Gardeninging · 26/04/2025 04:37

That's a woman's rights section, not a trans activist section.

I think the idea is to create a pro-TRA section where they can all talk to each other

Oh I see. I think that would be lgbt board then.

Personally as a feminist I don’t get involved in that board especially if individual posting. If TRA threads started up then I probably would end up in a biscuit throwing fight.

FKAT · 27/04/2025 10:35

Just hide the threads. It's that simple.

Nobody will use a trans section anyway because TRAs don't want to have a nice discussion about themselves. They come to scold women about their nasty views.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 27/04/2025 09:52

I feel that way about every banal royal 'issue' that's posted by multiple posters on different threads every single time a 'royal' sneezes. So very annoying.

The SC judgement is landmark and important for women. It's also very easy to avoid the threads now if you want to. I'd only be happy for those to be siphoned away if every single royal thread went to that cesspit of a board, immediately.

... and I'm safe to say that as MNHQ will never shunt those ridiculous and spiteful threads away from the main board.

popeydokey · 27/04/2025 09:48

saraclara · 27/04/2025 03:57

Mocking trans activists for wanting an echo chamber is supremely ironic, given that the sex and gender branch is the perfect example of an echo chamber.

If you're saying no-one's views are challenged and everyone agrees in FWR then that's simply untrue.

People repeat this quite often but I can point you to hundreds of threads with well-articulated differing viewpoints, academic analysis of legal text, views on how to deal with various situations. People coming in saying "i know I've got a different view but I'm here to discuss it" - people try to work out where there is common ground and where they disagree on priorities.

LastTrainsEast · 27/04/2025 09:42

Whatever happens I hope we get to find out what this means.

"The extremely narrow definition of human, women, gay here at mumsnet."

TY78910 · 27/04/2025 09:41

UpsideDownChairs · 27/04/2025 09:19

It's offensive to me to hear people telling me that the thing that makes a woman is having a lady brain, not a female body. Grossly offensive to suggest that - because the logic that follows on from that is I could escape my female oppression if I just thought differently.

I don't think saying that you have very little sympathy for someone is unreasonable (even if you say it sarcastically as in your example) - you'll get far more robust pushback if you say something like 'I change my bedding every couple of months'.

And as for responses - far fewer people care if one person's husband watches porn - it's hardly going to be discussed in Parliament is it? Whereas women's rights affect the majority of the people on this board, of course more people are going to have strong opinions.

If a poster (for example) is saying that men should be allowed in the women's changing room, they're also going to be defending children, so even stronger feelings, I don't think dancing around the reason why women don't want men in there with them will help anyone - of course assault and women's rights will be mentioned - VAWG is a massive problem in society, women's rights matter to women - especially on the feminist boards - so the idea that they wouldn't be mentioned is ridiculous surely?

I think this response frames what my points are very well. This thread is about whether trans topics should have their own category on MN, not a debate about transgender people. Yet in many responses, posters feel the need to bring in individual beliefs. You’ll notice that in all my posts I’ve referred to being nasty to an opposing point of view, not giving you a particular argument about anything, yet you felt the need to list all your feelings on the transgender debate.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/04/2025 09:23

Couleur · 27/04/2025 06:29

That’s not what an echo chamber is, though. This is a definition from Oxford Languages: ‘an environment in which a person encounters only beliefs or opinions that coincide with their own, so that their existing views are reinforced and alternative ideas are not considered’.

This describes FWR well, IME.

And pretty much every subreddit or Facebook group. It’s the nature of much of social media.