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Thread Deleted ( Parts 1,2,3, and 4)

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AnneKipankitoo · 05/03/2025 11:18

I saw that thread 4 was deleted with the message
about breaking Mumsnet guidelines.
The 3 previous threads were deleted too.

Which guidelines were broken?

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AllTheTreesOfTheField · 21/03/2025 21:58

Seriously?

Over It What GIF by Bounce
KaleQueen · 21/03/2025 21:20

Neh. Still the proverbial testicles.

LawrenceSMarlowforPresident · 21/03/2025 19:40

Wow. 🙄

FarFromtheMadders · 21/03/2025 19:08

Seems it wasn’t a troll, the Op is back on the relationship board with an update….

www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5298919-hand-hold-with-divorce?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=app_share

Motorroller · 07/03/2025 16:37

AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 16:15

@Motorroller . It was entirely my mistake.
I was the one that got confused. I apologise for getting confused.

Ok, but I’m not sure why this got weird.

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AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 16:15

@Motorroller . It was entirely my mistake.
I was the one that got confused. I apologise for getting confused.

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Motorroller · 07/03/2025 16:00

AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 07:35

This is a thread about 4 deleted threads and the deletion message.

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Yes. I know. I responded to a post on this thread clarifying why PMs had been disabled. Not sure why that’s confusing.

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AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 15:07

Ah I see. Thank you @AlexandrinaH .
Apologies @Motorroller .

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AlexandrinaH · 07/03/2025 14:20

AnneKipankitoo · 06/03/2025 19:34

I think you have posted this on the wrong thread @Motorroller

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No, if you read the quote history, you’ll see they were responding to a post(s) on this thread.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 07/03/2025 13:22

I'm Miss Marple.

miss marple what GIF by britbox
BunnyLake · 07/03/2025 09:50

AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 09:18

Is this you @BunnyLake ?

😁 I certainly feel like I’m channelling him now since that thread, although my mind might be working overtime, thinking every threads now a fake.😁

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AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 09:18

Is this you @BunnyLake ?

detective dianne GIF by GoPop
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AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 09:16

Sher(bunny)lake Holmes , I presume!

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BunnyLake · 07/03/2025 08:56

AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 08:35

@BunnyLake I have just been on one about a 6 year old child. It is being deleted now.
Seems that most of Mumsnet is a bit fake.😂

It wasn’t that one (I didn’t see that one). This one makes me wonder if I should make a note of it though.

Now I could be wrong and doing that OP a disservice (for which I apologise, as I don’t have good radar) but I seem to have started putting on a deerstalker and carrying a magnifying glass when I go on MN now. 😁

RockyRogue1001 · 07/03/2025 08:40

SerenaSemolena · 05/03/2025 20:25

I'm getting told off 😂

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I'm wondering if that should be a new code

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AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 08:35

@BunnyLake I have just been on one about a 6 year old child. It is being deleted now.
Seems that most of Mumsnet is a bit fake.😂

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BunnyLake · 07/03/2025 08:33

Maybe my imagination is running away with me but is there a new one doing the rounds? Someone with a better tuned radar may know which one and if I’m just getting too caught up with imagining every thread about a twatty bf is from that poster 😁

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AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 07:41

I complimented Lavender95’s writing style and got told off for being passive aggressive.
I had asked for another to be deleted as it was definitely not passive aggressive.
I was trying to be polite.

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AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 07:39

Don’t feel daft @Ang69 . Your comment may have helped someone.

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AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 07:35

Motorroller · 06/03/2025 21:35

I don’t think so, why?

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This is a thread about 4 deleted threads and the deletion message.

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Ang69 · 06/03/2025 22:31

I fell for it too stupidly. Honestly thought I was a bit more switched on. I think I believed it as I had stayed in a really abusive marriage for 5 years in my 20's despite everyone trying to get me out.

It did seem plausible, but yeah, looking back, honestly no one would take that and react like she did. My ex 's abuse was very insidious and not so much in your face. Definitely will stop me commenting in future, feel a bit daft now!

Motorroller · 06/03/2025 21:37

AnneKipankitoo · 06/03/2025 19:32

Were you expecting to be sent a link by that person that PM’d you?

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I wasn’t the person who was PMed, I was the person who saw it on the original thread at night, and then had more of them posted on the thread that I created to report them.

But regardless, my point was just that’s why PMs have been disabled, and presumably why it’s taking them a while to fix that. Also, I’m not sure why it matters whether the person was expecting a link or not. Best not to click on links, but it’s not her fault she was sent it. Anyway, that was my reason for posting.

Motorroller · 06/03/2025 21:35

AnneKipankitoo · 06/03/2025 19:34

I think you have posted this on the wrong thread @Motorroller

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I don’t think so, why?

RockyRogue1001 · 06/03/2025 20:12

LawrenceSMarlowforPresident · 05/03/2025 19:30

Of course it was fake. That was obvious from the OP of the first thread. Trolls have been overrunning MN for ages. A conservative estimate would be 50% of all threads in AIBU and Relationships are pure invention.

I think that's a very conservative guess

RockyRogue1001 · 06/03/2025 20:11

AnneKipankitoo · 05/03/2025 16:23

I thought shark was a reference to Fonz in Happy Days. The series had really gone downhill when Fonz jumped over the shark surfing or jet skiiing.

That is where the expression comes from.

When the writers run out of ideas, they jump a shark