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Did something actually happen on Sunday night?

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woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 06:42

I was reading a post that said the site was infiltrated with child abuse images on Sunday under some kind of attack.
Lots of people hadn't been online to see this but some said they did. The thread was then deleted and there has been no explanation. And the media is silent about it. Can anyone confirm if this actually happened and if it did, why aren't Mumsnet commenting? All seems badly handled for Mumsnet not to comment either way.

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Pilloecat · 04/02/2025 10:26

You’re absolutely right. A website of this size relying on volunteers to moderate at night is genuinely ridiculous. Feel awful for the poor unpaid people who had to try to hide the images after they’d been posted.

baroqueandblue · 04/02/2025 10:24

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 08:12

And I still can't find the official comment from Mumsnet. If anyone can signpost it to me. Pretty disgusted that they have tried to bury this blatant security breach.

You sound like someone with an axe to grind...

Just sayin'.

Tootiredmummyof3 · 04/02/2025 10:23

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 08:09

@LastNightMyPJsSavedMyLife whilst I appreciate your situation. I think those two f us who didn't see them should expect some formal statement clarity from Mumsnet. Online safety is massively important and this feels more damage limitation from Mumsnet than trying to protect any of us. If someone can spam the account with horrific child abuse images what else can they do, access our personal details?

If you didn't see it why do you need a statement or apology? A statement about something you didn't even see? I've heard it all now.

FlatWhiteExtraHot · 04/02/2025 10:16

maudelovesharold · 04/02/2025 10:09

Also ironic that on the one thread they allowed to continue, the title of which specifically concerns the role of the NW, and its inadequacies, there hasn’t been any comment from MN, afaik, about the NW team and how it was badly caught on the back foot, through no fault of its own.

Not to mention the fact that the NW are VOLUNTEERS. They are not paid enough anything at all to deal with this shit, nor I imagine do they have any training.

Happysack · 04/02/2025 10:16

Deebee90 · 04/02/2025 08:37

People don’t need to keep bringing it up all the time. It wasn’t a spam bot it was a disgusting individual who decided to post pictures. It’s been dealt with and that’s the end. Frankly if you don’t like the way it’s been handled then leave . You’re acting as it’s the end of the world , it’s not and it was easily remedied.

I have much higher standards for what is acceptable.

We are the product MN makes its money from and there are requirements for keeping us safe.

Temporarily suspending photo posting is a quick fix to the illegal activity - but what happens when it is reactivated?

There are technological and human-led solutions that can and should be implemented.

At the very least, either limit posting to hours when laid, trained mods are online or extend those hours. Stop using volunteers to moderate the site and ensure the system for reporting is seamless, not convoluted and opaque like it is currently.

We can leave, you’re right - but losing users isn’t in MN’s interests - so why not try to make things better?

samarrange · 04/02/2025 10:16

Online communities often inspire the kind of love/hate relationships we have with partners. I've been a member of a few over the years where every tiny change or perceived error was greeted with 100 times the grief or derision that would have been applied to actually important issues like a 5p rise in income tax or Waitrose running out of organic orange juice.

MNHQ doesn't owe us anything here. They could choose to write a huge long post about how sorry they are, but it wouldn't actually convey any more sincerity than what they have done in this case. It seems that moderation in the UK/European night time is a problem, and that's a business decision for them to sort out. But any website that allows the posting of images without pre-moderation will have to accept that sometimes, stuff will slip through. It's part of the price we pay for living in a free society and/or using a reasonably convenient means of communication.

As PP have noted, nobody absolutely needs to be here. There's a Flouncer's Corner forum for a reason. I'm sure MN would be happy to reimburse any of us every penny that we have given them to use the site. (I say that as someone who is neither a huge fan of MN, nor a daily critic. It's a business and I try to remain reasonably morally neutral about businesses.)

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sparrowflewdown · 04/02/2025 10:16

My thread hasn't been deleted on Gransnet I can now get on the site. They were probably just checking the security over there too.

maudelovesharold · 04/02/2025 10:09

maudelovesharold · 04/02/2025 10:02

Yes, the title of the one thread concerning the CSA images, which MN chose to keep on Site Stuff yesterday (it stopped posts on all the other threads which were started on this matter), does not in any way indicate what it might actually be about. Only those who know, would know. Crafty move, MN…

Also ironic that on the one thread they allowed to continue, the title of which specifically concerns the role of the NW, and its inadequacies, there hasn’t been any comment from MN, afaik, about the NW team and how it was badly caught on the back foot, through no fault of its own.

Frequency · 04/02/2025 10:07

maudelovesharold · 04/02/2025 10:02

Yes, the title of the one thread concerning the CSA images, which MN chose to keep on Site Stuff yesterday (it stopped posts on all the other threads which were started on this matter), does not in any way indicate what it might actually be about. Only those who know, would know. Crafty move, MN…

Playing Devil's Advocate here but does those who don't know need to know?

Some MNetters may have trauma in their past which could be triggered by these posts.

Is it really fair to have the entire site filled with discussions on CSA? The only people who are "owed" anything are those who were directly affected, and we have no idea what support MN/the police have offered behind the scenes.

One thread is enough.

Jellycats4life · 04/02/2025 10:07

wythamwoods · 04/02/2025 09:49

Don’t be ridiculous. There is no need for multiple threads when there is one you can criticise them on to your hearts content.

But the thread in question is in Site Stuff and hidden from Active threads, is it not? So people aren’t necessarily going to see it.

barstar · 04/02/2025 10:07

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 09:56

@barstar seriously! Mumsnet is for us all. Not just one person. Sometimes I feel
That people's full time hobby is
Going on posts they don't agree with and commenting about it. If you don't care for my original post just scroll on.

Thanks to everyone who offered helpful
Perspectives. I'm off to work now and go back on commenting about Silent Witness.

Yes it's for us all, I wasn't saying otherwise. The post of yours I quoted was a bit 'sorry you saw that, but those who didn't deserve a formal statement' - it's one of those, don't make it all about you. You didn't see anything, you haven't experienced anything because it happened, it's not really about you. It could have been and while I do agree that MNHQ need to be acting and reassuring I do think they also need a bit of time and are doing what they can I also understand that as someone who did not see it I am very lucky.

You basically minimised that poster who had seen it and that was disgraceful

maudelovesharold · 04/02/2025 10:02

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 08:10

@Futurename unless I'm a mind reader how the hell would I know this thread refers to class a child abuse images that were plastered all over the site

Yes, the title of the one thread concerning the CSA images, which MN chose to keep on Site Stuff yesterday (it stopped posts on all the other threads which were started on this matter), does not in any way indicate what it might actually be about. Only those who know, would know. Crafty move, MN…

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 09:56

@barstar seriously! Mumsnet is for us all. Not just one person. Sometimes I feel
That people's full time hobby is
Going on posts they don't agree with and commenting about it. If you don't care for my original post just scroll on.

Thanks to everyone who offered helpful
Perspectives. I'm off to work now and go back on commenting about Silent Witness.

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barstar · 04/02/2025 09:54

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 08:09

@LastNightMyPJsSavedMyLife whilst I appreciate your situation. I think those two f us who didn't see them should expect some formal statement clarity from Mumsnet. Online safety is massively important and this feels more damage limitation from Mumsnet than trying to protect any of us. If someone can spam the account with horrific child abuse images what else can they do, access our personal details?

Why do you think your are owed more than those who experienced this?

Just be grateful you didn't see. Be confident action is being taken. Don't make it about you.

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 09:50

@wythamwoods haha,
I'm banging on as I'm responding to people's responses. If you read the thread you'll see I've found MN response.

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wythamwoods · 04/02/2025 09:49

Jellycats4life · 04/02/2025 09:48

They keep deleting threads because they hate being criticised for their shocking overnight moderation policies and ever-increasing trolling issues.

Don’t be ridiculous. There is no need for multiple threads when there is one you can criticise them on to your hearts content.

Jellycats4life · 04/02/2025 09:48

They keep deleting threads because they hate being criticised for their shocking overnight moderation policies and ever-increasing trolling issues.

wythamwoods · 04/02/2025 09:47

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 09:39

@wythamwoods believe it or not I don't actually know how to do that (I will search now) I posted this as they deleted another thread I was following on. Forgot that mumsnetters get so angry about asking a legitimate question.

Most of the responses to you are not angry, including mine. It is, however, difficult to understand why you are banging on about the subject when multiple posters have directed you to the thread. As to you saying you ‘don’t know how to do that’ it beggars belief you are unable to click on one of the many links provided that will take you there, including one post that gives you the links to Justine’s responses.

BathSpider · 04/02/2025 09:44

To the OPs credit I had no idea this has happened until I clicked the OPs thread.

All I have seen previously is a thread titled “Mn should disable photos” but didn’t click it.

BIWI · 04/02/2025 09:43

At least three times now, PP have posted links to the relevant thread @woodenbatandball. A long-running thread, on which MNHQ have commented. This is hardly sweeping stuff under the carpet!

Quite understandably they want to confine discussion to just one thread - the level of hysteria yesterday was becoming ridiculous. (Which is not to undermine the seriousness of the event, at all.)

But for people who didn't see the images/posts on Sunday to keep wanting to talk about it, who then seem to think some kind of conspiracy is unfolding, is just madness.

Click on the links and go and read for yourself about what happened, and what MNHQ have said about it so far.

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 09:39

Thanks @Frequency helpful perspective xx

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woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 09:39

@wythamwoods believe it or not I don't actually know how to do that (I will search now) I posted this as they deleted another thread I was following on. Forgot that mumsnetters get so angry about asking a legitimate question.

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Frequency · 04/02/2025 09:34

I don't think they're trying to hide anything. They have made a statement which can be seen by anyone, including the media and they're allowing one of the threads to stay up.

Do we really need multiple threads highlighting this issue and potentially re-traumatising those affected? Not to mention, advertising could attract copycats.

Hopefully, MNHQ and/or the police have reached out to those who were most affected.

wythamwoods · 04/02/2025 09:34

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 09:24

@DeepFatFried yes! My thoughts exactly, cynical me is feeling they are trying to hide talk about it as they're worried how this will impact their partnerships. As I said I was
On another thread about this that they deleted, or I wouldn't have even thought that. The fact they deleted the other thread suggests they're trying put this under the carpet, which is never the right way to act

I can’t imagine they are trying to hide this. They have informed the police, which is the right thing to do, and putting measures in place to stop it happening again. I’m curious as to why you aren’t asking MN these questions or complaining to them on the site thread as they are the ones who can address the issue. Many posters have linked you to the thread in question.

Phthia · 04/02/2025 09:34

woodenbatandball · 04/02/2025 09:24

@DeepFatFried yes! My thoughts exactly, cynical me is feeling they are trying to hide talk about it as they're worried how this will impact their partnerships. As I said I was
On another thread about this that they deleted, or I wouldn't have even thought that. The fact they deleted the other thread suggests they're trying put this under the carpet, which is never the right way to act

How can they be trying to hide talk about it when they have posted multiple times in precisely the forum where you would expect to see their comments?

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