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Reactions are here - update from MNHQ

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KatyMumsnet · 18/12/2024 14:10

We’ve listened to your feedback! While many of you have enjoyed the ‘Thanks’ button, you also told us that you'd love more ways to express your feelings on the site.

Starting today, you now have the choice of four reactions:
‘Agree’, ‘Love’, ‘Funny’, and ‘Thanks’.

Here’s how it works:

  • Select the ‘React’ button underneath the OP or reply.
  • Choose the reaction that reflects how you feel about the post.
  • Reactions are private and are only visible to the post owner.
  • You can select one reaction per post.

We hope this gives you even more ways to engage with posts and share how you feel.

Let us know your thoughts or any questions in the comments below!

OP posts:
Minimum85percentCocoa · 18/12/2024 17:56

Not the point of the thread (although I did prefer the thanks and don’t think I’ll be using the react ones), but has the ‘add post’ button always been on each individual post? It seems to make it a lot more likely that people will post without reading the rest of the thread, which is super annoying especially when there’s been updates since. Cancel the cheque!

AlbertCamusflage · 18/12/2024 17:50

I can't remember how to get the Santa's hat version of MN emoticons. I thought you put an 'f' (for 'festive') in front of the word , but that isn't working for me. And weren't there halloween versions, which you got by adding 'h'? Or did I dream that?

As for getting upset about something so trivial as a 'react' update, I agree that is completely daft, but I think most posters are just shooting the breeze. Like any other thread, this a thread on a chat site. Chatters gonna chat.

Dontletmedown · 18/12/2024 17:43

I agree with @DeanElderberry
I'm actually finding this change upsetting.
Because of my mental health issues it's ATM making me feel very excluded and my intention is to log out of my account and not post again.

HaddyAbrams · 18/12/2024 17:32

Fabulouslyunfabulous · 18/12/2024 15:12

I’m still on the original mumsnet emojis Xmas Grin

Me too. I refuse to use non MN ones on MN. Xmas Wink

JaneJeffer · 18/12/2024 17:27

@AngelontopoftheTree yes I can see who reacted now. Can't reciprocate because I'm on the app and have to go on mobile to check how I'm doing in the popularity contest 😜

ABunchOfBadBitches · 18/12/2024 16:47

Wendysfriend · 18/12/2024 15:24

After all this we definitely need the middle finger

😂

DappledThings · 18/12/2024 16:40

SabreIsMyFave · 18/12/2024 16:32

Evil? Bit OTT Shock

They don't appear unless you hover over the 'react' button!

They do appear now. That's part of the change.

HysteroscopyWoes · 18/12/2024 16:40

DeanElderberry · 18/12/2024 16:37

Ignoring decades worth of advice on how to make sites accessible to users - in other words, deliberately choosing to discriminate against and restrict access for people who can't cope with the interference caused by coloured visual clutter, is evil.

Accessibility is a serious issue, whether it is letting people read text or letting people in wheelchairs into buildings.

Wasn’t that the reason for the MN original emojis? Apologies as I can’t remember details but wasn’t it related to an issue with screen readers not being able to “read” them. Mind you, this was years ago, tech has moved on I suppose.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 18/12/2024 16:38

DeanElderberry · 18/12/2024 16:37

Ignoring decades worth of advice on how to make sites accessible to users - in other words, deliberately choosing to discriminate against and restrict access for people who can't cope with the interference caused by coloured visual clutter, is evil.

Accessibility is a serious issue, whether it is letting people read text or letting people in wheelchairs into buildings.

This. I very much agree.

HysteroscopyWoes · 18/12/2024 16:38

I also feel it encourages lurkers, not posters which is not what MNHQ want? I don’t see them on the app but got an email to say I had lots of thanks emojis to one of my posts, many more than comments. Of course I appreciate it, I’m not ungrateful.And I understand people find it quicker to press a button than type a word, but isn’t that the whole point of Mumsnet? I want to say “discourse”, but it sounds a bit wanky.

DeanElderberry · 18/12/2024 16:37

Ignoring decades worth of advice on how to make sites accessible to users - in other words, deliberately choosing to discriminate against and restrict access for people who can't cope with the interference caused by coloured visual clutter, is evil.

Accessibility is a serious issue, whether it is letting people read text or letting people in wheelchairs into buildings.

HysteroscopyWoes · 18/12/2024 16:34

BakeOffRewatch · 18/12/2024 16:26

They’re the wrong emojis for MN culture. It should be

thanks BrewBrew
agree WineGin
love Flowers - like sympathy or hugs
funny Grin

I totally agree! And why can’t people just agree openly instead of effectively PMing a little picture? I would think if you’re not robust enough to agree with someone openly for fear of “backlash”, you’re not robust enough for MN (and def not AIBU!) As PP said, personal attacks are deleted so people shouldn’t feel afraid to express their views. I feel we should be encouraging openness (is that a noun?) and free speech, and the freedom to challenge free speech if we disagree. We should be encouraging people (especially women) to be unafraid and to stand up and be counted.

SabreIsMyFave · 18/12/2024 16:32

DeanElderberry · 18/12/2024 16:30

If we can't opt out, can we have the option of seeing the reaction as a word (in the same colour as the rest of the text) not as a coloured image, Since MN knows what the blobs are meant to mean, a simple direct translation to that word should be straightforward.

But coloured blobs appearing without any choice are downright evil.

I thought the argument about imposing coloured emojis on message board users who need clarity and accessibility had been fought and won about 20 years ago - amazed to see it surfacing again now.

Evil? Bit OTT Shock

They don't appear unless you hover over the 'react' button!

SabreIsMyFave · 18/12/2024 16:31

Samcro · 18/12/2024 16:07

please can someone react to this post, just so I can see what happens.
thanks

Your wish is my command. I put a 😆

AngelontopoftheTree · 18/12/2024 16:31

AngelontopoftheTree · 18/12/2024 16:25

This is a you problem, assigning intent to a reaction.
Maybe someone was testing out the reactions....

Sorry!! I Misquoted - apologies!

DeanElderberry · 18/12/2024 16:30

If we can't opt out, can we have the option of seeing the reaction as a word (in the same colour as the rest of the text) not as a coloured image, Since MN knows what the blobs are meant to mean, a simple direct translation to that word should be straightforward.

But coloured blobs appearing without any choice are downright evil.

I thought the argument about imposing coloured emojis on message board users who need clarity and accessibility had been fought and won about 20 years ago - amazed to see it surfacing again now.

SabreIsMyFave · 18/12/2024 16:28

UndeniablyGenX · 18/12/2024 16:07

Thanks is still there, I have just thanked your post.

Ah ha, yes it's the clapping emoji. Ta muchly! Smile

BakeOffRewatch · 18/12/2024 16:26

They’re the wrong emojis for MN culture. It should be

thanks BrewBrew
agree WineGin
love Flowers - like sympathy or hugs
funny Grin

AngelontopoftheTree · 18/12/2024 16:25

RoadToBeverly · 18/12/2024 15:38

Just the thanks was good. No issues with that.

This is a you problem, assigning intent to a reaction.
Maybe someone was testing out the reactions....

VacuumPacked · 18/12/2024 16:22

saraclara · 18/12/2024 16:12

Yeah. I don't like it. The thanks was okay, and a mature way to show appreciation. But the applause emoji expresses something quite different, and the rest is just juvenile FB stuff.

@saraclara yes - I sent a text message to my daughter who disagreed
with what I said and was forthright about it.
Then followed it up with the clapping hands.
I saw this for what it was, an insolent gesture.
Obviously I dealt with it as a mother.

However if I made an innocuous comment say and received clapping hands
from someone purporting to be my equal on here, I would not be best pleased
and would say so. Juvenile FB stuff is correct.
We can indeed see who has sent one of these ghastly emojis - Ive sent a couple myself just now, but you know, we say, if it works don’t fix it.

What I dread is remark and feedback degenerating into a DM type quagmire.

RoadToBeverly · 18/12/2024 16:21

TomatoAuberginePotatoTurnip · 18/12/2024 16:12

Yeah but now you can laugh at someone in private, and no-one will know so can't stand up for the person being laughed at.

It could be a way to be a bully online with no-one else knowing.

I agree.

Nothatgingerpirate · 18/12/2024 16:20

SoupDragon · 18/12/2024 16:18

The only deleted one I can see is one that clearly called the OP an arsehole when he was the won who was assaulted. Presumably deleted for classic victim blaming.

Presumably.
Thanks.

SoupDragon · 18/12/2024 16:18

Nothatgingerpirate · 18/12/2024 16:02

I like the heart ❤️ button as well, however, not one disagreement emoji!
Noticed in another thread, comments that didn't express direct support to the OP or take their side got deleted.
(A guy whose girlfriend got physical under influence).

The only deleted one I can see is one that clearly called the OP an arsehole when he was the won who was assaulted. Presumably deleted for classic victim blaming.

DeanElderberry · 18/12/2024 16:17

@KatyMumsnet please please please give me an easy way to not see these. I'm horrified to see that even 'thanks' left on the old system now appear as bright blue blobs. Let those of us who can't cope with that, opt out of getting them (and of seeing the old ones).

KatyMumsnet · 18/12/2024 16:16

@SabreIsMyFave thanks is still there, it's the first option. We've had a lot of feedback since we launched thanks asking for more reactions!

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