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Board for high earners

309 replies

BellesAndGraces · 08/10/2024 19:53

I see that the other thread was started by an OP who wasn’t engaging in good faith. I certainly am so, Mumsnet, can we please have a separate board for high earners? It would be helpful for these threads to be in one place and to avoid them being high jacked by the inevitable “small violin” and “diamond shoes” comments.

OP posts:
AuntyBumBum · 08/10/2024 21:22

DojaPhat · 08/10/2024 21:16

What would constitute as a high-earner in the context of the new board? A 62k salary? 100K? Let's say the benchmark is an 80k salary, what of those whose annual holiday budget is 80k - and that's when they didn't really do much. What of those who can't print out their account balance from a standard atm because the little strip of paper isn't wide enough to contain all the 0s?

I don't think it really matters.

It just makes it easier to tell anyone who shows up saying "ooooooh, hark at her with her la-di-da stockbrokers and servants" to piss off because they're in the wrong place Grin

MargaretBetts · 08/10/2024 21:20

Sethera · 08/10/2024 21:19

Or, indeed, those who could be PhDs/D.Phils but couldn't be arsed to do research.

😂

Sethera · 08/10/2024 21:19

foghead · 08/10/2024 21:17

What about those who could be high earners but decided not to work full time?

Or, indeed, those who could be PhDs/D.Phils but couldn't be arsed to do research.

BeatrizBoniface · 08/10/2024 21:19

OneRarelySeesABrazierTheseDays · 08/10/2024 21:06

How do you hold it without getting butter on your fingers?

I eat it with a knife and fork. Silver, of course.

BringTheWine · 08/10/2024 21:18

Well unless they are going to check income levels the threads could just be full of glorious fantasists anyway.

Of course, that's the risk of any forum. Any advice would be checkable though and obviously anyone relying solely on mumsnet for financial, or indeed advice about any other topic would be very silly.

foghead · 08/10/2024 21:17

What about those who could be high earners but decided not to work full time?

CaptainBeanThief · 08/10/2024 21:17

Iloveburgerswaymorethanishould · 08/10/2024 21:06

Can we also have one for gingers? Not necessarily rich ones, just ginger???

Only if my ginger guinea pig can join 😉

NinetyNineOrangeBalloons · 08/10/2024 21:16

Tbf, women use mumsnet for a lot of things I wouldn't. Health questions for example. Mumsnet provide a health board and women often use it as a place before seeing a GP. It can be a useful sounding board.

It can also be full of appalling advice.

DojaPhat · 08/10/2024 21:16

What would constitute as a high-earner in the context of the new board? A 62k salary? 100K? Let's say the benchmark is an 80k salary, what of those whose annual holiday budget is 80k - and that's when they didn't really do much. What of those who can't print out their account balance from a standard atm because the little strip of paper isn't wide enough to contain all the 0s?

MargaretBetts · 08/10/2024 21:16

Perhaps we could add ‘North of Watford and earning £66.66k plus ….. this is your place 🏡’.

Obviously for those of us who might be career women in the grim north.

AuntyBumBum · 08/10/2024 21:15

BringTheWine · 08/10/2024 21:12

As shown here you really will get no sense on Mumsnet without a separate board! And I think it's fairly safe to say that we won't get a separate board, so just adapt accordingly

Mumsnet provide a sex board that is basically dominated by pervy men to overshare their made up sexual fantasies....it's therefore quite annoying if they won't provide a place for posters, mainly women, who are their core members, to talk about financial matters and protect them from the goady arseholes, whether you're a low or higher earner.

I agree, I was just suggesting that we won't get one, so look elsewhere.

(Of course from a commercial advertising perspective Mumsnet should be doing all it can to maximise engagement with high earners, and to stop us from taking our discussions elsewhere, so maybe my cynicism is misplaced.)

BringTheWine · 08/10/2024 21:15

I don’t understand how mnet becomes a choice for an intelligent career woman on this tbf.

I’d seek proper advice if I needed to address a pensions issue, everyone’s situation is unique.

I’d reach out to something like CMI Women or another one of my professional networks on career focus.

I certainly would not come here where people are anonymous and could write a complete load of fiction if they chose to.

Tbf, women use mumsnet for a lot of things I wouldn't. Health questions for example. Mumsnet provide a health board and women often use it as a place before seeing a GP. It can be a useful sounding board.

WindsurfingDreams · 08/10/2024 21:13

BringTheWine · 08/10/2024 21:12

As shown here you really will get no sense on Mumsnet without a separate board! And I think it's fairly safe to say that we won't get a separate board, so just adapt accordingly

Mumsnet provide a sex board that is basically dominated by pervy men to overshare their made up sexual fantasies....it's therefore quite annoying if they won't provide a place for posters, mainly women, who are their core members, to talk about financial matters and protect them from the goady arseholes, whether you're a low or higher earner.

Well unless they are going to check income levels the threads could just be full of glorious fantasists anyway.

Runnerinthenight · 08/10/2024 21:12

Superworm24 · 08/10/2024 21:08

Definitely. I would prefer to have somewhere that is female focused. The sub reddits have helped me massively but are somewhat lacking on information that I need now I'm on maternity leave and considering a career break. Maybe it could work on here if the threads didn't show up on trending?

You've got HR for that surely??

BringTheWine · 08/10/2024 21:12

As shown here you really will get no sense on Mumsnet without a separate board! And I think it's fairly safe to say that we won't get a separate board, so just adapt accordingly

Mumsnet provide a sex board that is basically dominated by pervy men to overshare their made up sexual fantasies....it's therefore quite annoying if they won't provide a place for posters, mainly women, who are their core members, to talk about financial matters and protect them from the goady arseholes, whether you're a low or higher earner.

Hoppinggreen · 08/10/2024 21:11

A board for ginger guinea pigs called Phil!!!!

OneRarelySeesABrazierTheseDays · 08/10/2024 21:11

LuluBlakey1 · 08/10/2024 20:53

What about a board for those who only buy organic produce from Waitrose stores within 10 miles of Kensington?

Or those who live north of Birtley?

Nonsense.
No-one lives north of Birtley

Runnerinthenight · 08/10/2024 21:11

DangerMouseAndPenfoldx · 08/10/2024 20:17

I’ll expand on what I said on the last thread.

I think it’s a great idea in theory, but it will get trashed, as you can see from the comments already.

It would be great to have a place for WOMEN high-earners to advise each other on the specific issues that go along with that.

Unfortunately those discussions can’t be had on MN. Financial discussion for high earners can very sensibly be had on MSE, but not women-specific.

So we miss out. This is why we can’t have nice things!

I think as a high earner you probably have plenty of "nice things"!

I really don't understand why anyone on a large income would want to ask randomers on an anonymous site questions about their personal income! Get a professional!!!

I don't believe the poster concerned anyway.

kittensinthekitchen · 08/10/2024 21:10

Iloveburgerswaymorethanishould · 08/10/2024 21:06

Can we also have one for gingers? Not necessarily rich ones, just ginger???

What if I'm not ginger, but Phil is?

MargaretBetts · 08/10/2024 21:09

DangerMouseAndPenfoldx · 08/10/2024 21:01

But this is pretty much the whole point. There is nowhere with a female focus.

At the time I wanted advice on the timing of pension contributions, risk of moving job relating to glass ceiling/glass cliff issues, implications of flexible working in that type of job etc. All with a female focus.

I don’t understand how mnet becomes a choice for an intelligent career woman on this tbf.

I’d seek proper advice if I needed to address a pensions issue, everyone’s situation is unique.

I’d reach out to something like CMI Women or another one of my professional networks on career focus.

I certainly would not come here where people are anonymous and could write a complete load of fiction if they chose to.

NinetyNineOrangeBalloons · 08/10/2024 21:09

BringTheWine · 08/10/2024 21:07

Maybe mumsnet just need a non judgemental board about money matters. Any judgemental, snarky, shit stirring posters and their supply of tiny violins or comments like 'why have 4 children on a low wage' should be automatically banned!

That one would be a good idea

User37482 · 08/10/2024 21:08

I actually don’t see the harm, they have a specific experience and are allowed to ask questions. At least people can hide the threads if they get very upset about people earning 100k+. Why not. I thought childfree mumsnetters was a really good idea and the black, south asian and muslim boards. People sometimes need advice from someone who understand their specific circumstances.

IVFmumoftwo · 08/10/2024 21:08

BeatrizBoniface · 08/10/2024 20:34

I believe that the correct term is "scrounger"? Avoiding tax on high earnings is efficient planning, claiming £25 so that you can eat is scrounging.

Or protecting your savings for private school. Just stick it in a trust fund. 👍

HallidayJones6779 · 08/10/2024 21:08

BeatrizBoniface · 08/10/2024 20:09

Elite and Riff Raff.

I prefer the term peasants

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Superworm24 · 08/10/2024 21:08

DangerMouseAndPenfoldx · 08/10/2024 21:01

But this is pretty much the whole point. There is nowhere with a female focus.

At the time I wanted advice on the timing of pension contributions, risk of moving job relating to glass ceiling/glass cliff issues, implications of flexible working in that type of job etc. All with a female focus.

Definitely. I would prefer to have somewhere that is female focused. The sub reddits have helped me massively but are somewhat lacking on information that I need now I'm on maternity leave and considering a career break. Maybe it could work on here if the threads didn't show up on trending?

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