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Why do you allow people to attack and ridicule Christianity?

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Singersong · 18/07/2024 06:45

Time and time again I see people taking the absolute piss out of Christianity. Calling people delusional and saying it's made up bullshit etc. why do you allow this? I don't see this about any other religion.

It goes far beyond atheism and you claim to be against hate speech.

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Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:20

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:19

If both parties want to have genuine communication there needs to be respect on both sides. Obviously.

Respect is letting people express a view and not telling them they are mocking just because you don't like that view.

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:19

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:16

Yes - that’s exactly my point . … 🙄

And if the person you’re talking to feels that your language is mocking - do you persist in using it because you don’t care what their view is?

Them suggesting it's mocking doesn't mean it is mocking. Expressing an opinion is not mocking.
Christians actually use horrific language to guilt trip people into believing in their god too - telling people they're so full of sin that they need saving, telling people how to live, saying their way is the only way and so on.

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:19

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:14

Don't religious people also then have to speak about their religion in a way that's acceptable to atheists and to other religions? Many don't.

If both parties want to have genuine communication there needs to be respect on both sides. Obviously.

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:16

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:13

Some people seem to be incapable of differentiating between mocking and expressing a valid opinion so.....

Yes - that’s exactly my point . … 🙄

And if the person you’re talking to feels that your language is mocking - do you persist in using it because you don’t care what their view is?

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:14

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:09

By “Acceptable” I mean there are ways of being honest about your atheism without causing offence . In other words- ways of having an honest communication that will be “accepted “ by the religious person you are talking to.
But somehow I don’t think you are genuinely interested in that kind of honest respectful dialogue. I think maybe 🤔 you enjoy giving offence?

Don't religious people also then have to speak about their religion in a way that's acceptable to atheists and to other religions? Many don't.

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:13

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:10

Are you incapable of expressing your views without using offensive terms?

Some people seem to be incapable of differentiating between mocking and expressing a valid opinion so.....

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:12

RampantIvy · 20/07/2024 10:08

If someone tried to convert me to their religion I wouldn't tell them they were delusional. I would just say I don't believe in God. That isn't rude or disprespectful.

I'd tell them 'been there, done that, thankfully escaped'. To some that would apparently be 'mocking' yet they're allowed to tell me how thankful they are to be 'saved'. 🫣

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:10

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:09

Apparently expressing a view is mocking people.🫡

Are you incapable of expressing your views without using offensive terms?

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:10

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:03

No one has said this?

People expressing a view are being accused of mocking. 🫣

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:09

PaleSunshineOfHope · 20/07/2024 10:05

'Acceptable' to whom? You? I can manage without your approval.

By “Acceptable” I mean there are ways of being honest about your atheism without causing offence . In other words- ways of having an honest communication that will be “accepted “ by the religious person you are talking to.
But somehow I don’t think you are genuinely interested in that kind of honest respectful dialogue. I think maybe 🤔 you enjoy giving offence?

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:09

ruethewhirl · 20/07/2024 10:03

Show me where I said people weren't allowed to express their views. Without paraphrasing or extrapolation. Oh no, that's right, you can't.

Apparently expressing a view is mocking people.🫡

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:08

ruethewhirl · 20/07/2024 10:02

People are expressing how they feel, and unless I've missed something no posts have been deleted on here. No one's stopping people expressing themselves.

However, you clearly aren't capable of stating your personal POV on this objectively without inserting a dig. That's not exactly tolerant either.

What 'dig' are you referring to?

RampantIvy · 20/07/2024 10:08

If someone tried to convert me to their religion I wouldn't tell them they were delusional. I would just say I don't believe in God. That isn't rude or disprespectful.

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 10:08

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:01

I completely accept your atheism. I would never mock it . It’s the mockery that is the problem. You are entitled to say you don’t believe in religion. It is intolerant to mock and ridicule those who do

I'm not mocking anyone.
Expressing a view isn't mocking.

Getonwitit · 20/07/2024 10:06

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 19/07/2024 00:59

"Church of England"

Clue is in the name ffs

I am Scottish and my church is Anglican. So the clue really isn't in the name.

PaleSunshineOfHope · 20/07/2024 10:05

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:03

Then you’re a rude and intolerant person .
There are acceptable ways of saying that you don’t believe in someone’s religion.

'Acceptable' to whom? You? I can manage without your approval.

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:03

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 09:57

It's also disrespectful to tell people they are not allowed to express their view.

No one has said this?

ruethewhirl · 20/07/2024 10:03

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 09:57

It's also disrespectful to tell people they are not allowed to express their view.

Show me where I said people weren't allowed to express their views. Without paraphrasing or extrapolation. Oh no, that's right, you can't.

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:03

ImNotReallySpartacus · 20/07/2024 09:59

You bet.

Then you’re a rude and intolerant person .
There are acceptable ways of saying that you don’t believe in someone’s religion.

ruethewhirl · 20/07/2024 10:02

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 09:56

Then it's also intolerant not to let someone express how they truly feel about made up religion. 🫣

People are expressing how they feel, and unless I've missed something no posts have been deleted on here. No one's stopping people expressing themselves.

However, you clearly aren't capable of stating your personal POV on this objectively without inserting a dig. That's not exactly tolerant either.

Limesodaagain · 20/07/2024 10:01

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 09:56

Then it's also intolerant not to let someone express how they truly feel about made up religion. 🫣

I completely accept your atheism. I would never mock it . It’s the mockery that is the problem. You are entitled to say you don’t believe in religion. It is intolerant to mock and ridicule those who do

ImNotReallySpartacus · 20/07/2024 09:59

RampantIvy · 20/07/2024 07:02

anyone believing in an invisible man who lives in the sky and controls all is a bit delusion tbh no matter which religion

It might not be intolerance but it definitely is ridicule and rather patronising and bigoted.
Would you openly say the above to a Muslim or a Jew?

You bet.

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 09:58

RampantIvy · 20/07/2024 09:49

There is a lack of open mindedness and acceptance on this thread.

I'm not religious, however I don't mock those who are as long as they don't evangelise. It is called respect.

I don't mock either but if asked for a view I'll give it.

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 09:57

ruethewhirl · 20/07/2024 09:56

I suspect they would if they're this disrespectful of beliefs they don't personally happen to agree with.

It's also disrespectful to tell people they are not allowed to express their view.

Werweisswohin · 20/07/2024 09:56

ruethewhirl · 20/07/2024 09:55

You beat me to it but I was about to say the same. Of course ridiculing someone's beliefs by talking about an 'invisible man in the sky' is intolerant.

Then it's also intolerant not to let someone express how they truly feel about made up religion. 🫣

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