@AstonUniversityScrapedMyCorpus Totally agree. Everyone is live and let live. Then occasionally you or your children are in a vulnerable position and you need advice. And people give advice if they have experience. When it involves parents worried about their children, that’s a new low.
I have done a lot of thinking before and after posting yesterday (12.25) and I do not give permission for any researchers at Aston to use my post in the PhD. I do not give them permission to try and link me to other accounts or my real life. The thing is, if it were not for my family, I probably would.
Aston must realise they are compromising more than just the women talking on here - it will be the lives (and stories) of children now in their teens, twenties and thirties.
I am so glad there are women standing up and talking about these issues in real life. But the vital difference is they don’t expose their families and certainly wouldn’t tell their stories.
Aston are doing the opposite - they are effectively going after the children.
Can Aston ensure that any stories involving children, or people who were children at the time, will not be quoted? Or that people quoted and identified by their quotes, can not be found elsewhere talking about their children? After all, we offer advice and discussion based on our own life experiences that are not repeated in every post.
This network of mums didn’t sign up for this. We would not have exposed our children.