Is Mumsnet HQ evil or not very bright.

SophiesDog this blog might be useful transgenderreality.com

Ok, happy to not talk about 'you', but maybe don't talk about 'you' either then ask us to comment on your gender?

that might avoid it.

*My last post was an error, I started to post using your old name then realised after the post and tried to erase it and put your new one. Accidentally put both.

This is the lion's den. There are vocal posters on here who don't agree with what I say - and there is no fucking way I am going to open up on here with my views on what it is to be trans when I will get a whole load of aggro and abuse from people.It's so easy to post and say stuff when most of the people agree with you. I am not brave enough to post my views on the internet when I will get attacked /hassled / challenged about stuff that is personal to me.I am sure that if you had a view on something incredibly personal and you knew that many people on that forum did not agree with you - that you would think twice before posting.I am not brave enough.

Absolutely not. You're manipulative. If you were "scared" of us you wouldn't be here asking us if you were male. You are expecting that the majority of posters will feel sympathy for you because are showing yourself to be sad, and women are socialized to placate people. The Lion's Den is the real world where women are ripped to shreds (even by so called feminists) for not buying o the trans agenda. Where speakers that I want to see are no platformed and conferences I want to attend have to hide their premises because of trans activists.

Do you think it is easy to post about things that will get you called a bigot or hateful? What about the person on another thread who asked me a direct question then when I answered it they said they wished my breasts would fall off and my vagina would rot? Does that make it easy to post on here?

I can understand the difficulty drawing the line between sharing and oversharing.

I think though that it is a bit frustrating trying to deal with someone who is having this difficulty with boundaries.

There's no obligation to share details about your life. But it is your responsibility to sort your own boundaries out or it makes people have to tiptoe around you - tell us what is Ok and what isn't but don't change your mind all the time, that's not fair.

What did you think of the responses on the thread linked to? Were they helpful at the time?
Why get so bogged down in an argument about biology if you know there is an opposing view that isn't going to change. You seem to confuse that opposing view with abuse. That's your problem, not mine, as it isn't intended to be personal. I would not March up to you in the street and go on about it, but if asked, as you have asked, I will give my answer.

If 'some of the stuff' is that a biological male can become a biological female then it's not a debate you are ever going to win. Not a personal attack any more than an atheist saying there is no God.

I am sure MNHQ would be very considerate towards a request to have all your previous posts deleted. They do recognise that a gradual build up of Outy stuff sometimes leads to the wish to have it pulled. It would probably not be wise to then refer back to that persona on Trans threads as that would defeat the object and not be fair if people wished to counteract your perception of what has gone on before.

Of course this is an important topic to you. As it is to a lot of the women posting on this and other threads.

You don't need to be the poster child for Trans issues if it has a negative impact on you.

It is good to have the different perspective but not at the expense of your mental health or your real life.

Ego you can't refer people to old threads, mention your previous username then get upset when someone does a search of your old name and links an old thread for reference

To be fair, it's all public record. Why wouldn't you want anyone to know your old username when you've already referred to it? You said "If you read past threads, you will see my whole life on there with loads of information and questions answered." Then you are objecting to someone linking to your past thread

But Ego, you refused to answer questions saying you've answered them before and we should search your posting history to do so. How can we do that without reference to your old username when you haven't answered the questions under the current one?

You've already outted yourself

It does illustrate the sort of honest support that people get on here outside of the current debate about terminology, highlighting that MNHQ /MNers tend not to be evil or not very bright.