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hide poster button, impersonally

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moresnow · 15/06/2015 12:43

RebeccaMumsnet said:

Please do start another thread about the hide poster option, but avoid making it personal.

I would like to be able to hide goady / drum-banging / just plain boring posters. I would not at all mind being hidden by everyone else.

Anyone else have comments they've not made yet on this one?

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Sparklingbrook · 16/06/2015 18:48

The notion of 'regulars' is a bit ridiculous given all the namechanging that goes on.
But in general regulars=bad thing.

SouthWestmom · 16/06/2015 18:48

Same here. Have lost my expression.

SouthWestmom · 16/06/2015 18:48

Thank you - I'm using it not in a 'royalty' disparaging way, just a 'people who often post on those subjects way'.
I think my point is that someone may hold a different opinion to people who often discuss an issue and get called a gf for that opinion. Nobody is 'right' necessarily unless in a moral/ethical/liberal way.
Am I clearer?

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 16/06/2015 18:47

AND...the app really cheeses me off, no smilies show up in my posts any more, it's been happening for a couple of days so all my posts look serious. Are they showing or is it just me that can't see them?

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 16/06/2015 18:45

Noeuf- that's wasn't aimed at you btw, just you mentioning regulars reminded me.

SouthWestmom · 16/06/2015 18:44

Cross post. Yes that's what I mean - being a regular is just factual , I guess in that sense I should have expanded to mean 'regulars on those types of discussions'

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 16/06/2015 18:44

That's another thing that cheeses me off, while we're at it,Wink the whole 'regulars' thing. I'd like a list so we all know who we're talking about. That's why I think NC should be banned so everyone becomes a 'regular.'Grin

SouthWestmom · 16/06/2015 18:43

I am a regular on the Sen and debt threads. It's just a fact. I recognise some names from those threads and others don't post as often.

BareGorillas · 16/06/2015 18:43

But aren't you a regular Neouf? - seriously I recognise your name, you post a lot. What's the difference between you and whoever you consider regular?

SouthWestmom · 16/06/2015 18:42

It's accurate though. Lots of posters are more regular than others. It's not disparaging it's just true. I could predict the posters who would declare any thread on benefits to be goady.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 16/06/2015 18:42

I know exactly what you mean Worra and am first to walk away in RL or try and smooth things over but there's something very different about the written word imo. No wonder kids get into so much trouble using the net, look at all the bitching that goes on here Wink

Sparklingbrook · 16/06/2015 18:36

What are 'the regulars'? People who have been here a while? Whenever that word is used it's always a dig.

SouthWestmom · 16/06/2015 18:18

So ime anyone starting a thread the subject of which they know ' the regulars' disapprove of will be called a gf.

SouthWestmom · 16/06/2015 18:17

I think I disagree.
If for example I wanted to start a thread because I was pissed off that my cousin (I don't have a cousin but this is an example - don't call trollGrin) was claiming benefits and turning down work. A significant minority would leap on, go on about goats and call gf.

WorraLiberty · 16/06/2015 18:14

Well to be fair Dame, I was quite surprised to learn there was a hide thread option too (when I first joined MN).

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it. I just find it surprising that people feel they need it, instead of just taking responsibility for themselves.

If my kids are winding each other up, I tell them to learn to ignore it and I feel the same about internet strangers winding each other up too.

Sparklingbrook · 16/06/2015 18:00

Well we will all have to try and be grown ups then. Skip posts of known GFs and pretend they don't exist. Ignore ignore ignore.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 16/06/2015 17:50

Oh, just read back and have seen its a no go Hmm

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 16/06/2015 17:49

Worra -if posters have personally attacked and name called it's hard to skip over them even if they do get deleted. It would be nice to hide them and not have them pop up on threads you are enjoying. I just can't see how it's any different from the hiding thread option we already have.

WorraLiberty · 16/06/2015 17:40

I don't think adults should need to hide posters really

It can't be that hard to skip past posts you don't like.

Sparklingbrook · 16/06/2015 17:35
Grin
PattiODoors · 16/06/2015 17:33

[Imagines what MN Hive Mind would make of our comedy vegetables at Country Shows collection]

PattiODoors · 16/06/2015 17:32

Precisely why I dinnae bother with photos. The risk of it all Going Wrong v high Grin

Sparklingbrook · 16/06/2015 17:21

I have done on a few occassions Patti, and thought 'you know what I don't think I will post that after all' Grin

I like Preview Post, especially when a picture is to be attached. i have nightmares about posting a random picture from the family photo album or something.

PattiODoors · 16/06/2015 17:19

Haha Sparklers I use Preview Post like that.

RebeccaMumsnet · 16/06/2015 17:12

Hi all,

Thanks for this thread, we have had a good look through now and there doesn't seem to be a clear majority on this one. From our perspective here at MNHQ, we can see how a hide poster function could cause lots of trouble with people using it against each other and creating further bad feeling and arguments.

We have and do take action and will continue to against gfs, please keep reporting. It may take a little longer than out and out trolls but we will have a word at the very least when lots of people are being wound up by an individual.

Thanks again

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